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It was ignored. Seems people just do what they wanna do.

Hello guys I'm Nina and I live in Scottsdale AZ but I tour the DC area. I didn't want to highjack the post about BBFS so I decided to start one about the sane topic but in a different context.

I posted this on another site in which the response by two providers were to keep my mouth shut and mind my own business which I was taken back by their nonchalant attitude towards this matter.

I will make this as short as possible,I saw a client around 6 months ago in which he informed me that a well known provider in phx only performs BBFS, she does not like condemns. I immediately told him that I would prefer not to discuss another provides business with him. I actually though he was lying because he was mad at her for cutting their session short by 25 minutes and he paid her for 90m. So I never though anything else of it.

Fast forward 5 months later, I have been seeing this other gent in his late 50's for about 4-5 months. I screened him through his company no provider reference. Him and I have gotten pretty close we do lunch, he takes me shopping etc....he told me yesterday and not in a gossiping way that I needed to be very careful if seeing any clients that use this particular provider as a reference. He mentioned the sane provider as the first guy, and told me he saw her once and she told him right before they were about to seal the deal and he was strapping up, dont put that on we can go without, I dont like condemns. He settled for a bbbj instead, she then ended their session 20 min early because she said he sweated on her.

The second gent was not IMHO trying to start trouble or bash the provider in question he was just looking out for my well being. I have no intentions on mentioning this providers name or anything and yes what she does is her business but because of her reckless behavior I will not see any guys who contact me that use her as a reference.  

We already have to be very careful in this business and for a provider to engage in unsafe practices like that puts us all in danger. So truthfully I am glad my client told me because he only confirmed what was told to me months ago in which I did not believe now I do.

The attitude of the other providers on the other site I posted this on was so nonchalant and they responded as if I did something wrong.  

Just wanted to get other providers take on this since the subject was just mentioned in a previous discussion.

Thanks

 


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Maybe this discussion could be had on the Provider Only board. Supposedly only providers are there, so there wouldn't be the same client backlash there. Aside from that one possibility, I can think of no other way to share this info on TER in the interest of provider safety.

BBFS is for civie life meaning bf/gf situations,... Who the F would offer this to random guys in this business, not only is it disgusting but to put you body out there to catch diseases/stds or even get pregnant ....  

People disgust me!!!  
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I wanna know what providers/nasty hookers on what boards were telling you to stfu & mind your own biz about BBFS....  

Posted By: NinaSimone36
Hello guys I'm Nina and I live in Scottsdale AZ but I tour the DC area. I didn't want to highjack the post about BBFS so I decided to start one about the sane topic but in a different context.  
   
 I posted this on another site in which the response by two providers were to keep my mouth shut and mind my own business which I was taken back by their nonchalant attitude towards this matter.  
   
 I will make this as short as possible,I saw a client around 6 months ago in which he informed me that a well known provider in phx only performs BBFS, she does not like condemns. I immediately told him that I would prefer not to discuss another provides business with him. I actually though he was lying because he was mad at her for cutting their session short by 25 minutes and he paid her for 90m. So I never though anything else of it.  
   
 Fast forward 5 months later, I have been seeing this other gent in his late 50's for about 4-5 months. I screened him through his company no provider reference. Him and I have gotten pretty close we do lunch, he takes me shopping etc....he told me yesterday and not in a gossiping way that I needed to be very careful if seeing any clients that use this particular provider as a reference. He mentioned the sane provider as the first guy, and told me he saw her once and she told him right before they were about to seal the deal and he was strapping up, dont put that on we can go without, I dont like condemns. He settled for a bbbj instead, she then ended their session 20 min early because she said he sweated on her.  
   
 The second gent was not IMHO trying to start trouble or bash the provider in question he was just looking out for my well being. I have no intentions on mentioning this providers name or anything and yes what she does is her business but because of her reckless behavior I will not see any guys who contact me that use her as a reference.  
   
 We already have to be very careful in this business and for a provider to engage in unsafe practices like that puts us all in danger. So truthfully I am glad my client told me because he only confirmed what was told to me months ago in which I did not believe now I do.  
   
 The attitude of the other providers on the other site I posted this on was so nonchalant and they responded as if I did something wrong.  
   
 Just wanted to get other providers take on this since the subject was just mentioned in a previous discussion.  
   
 Thanks  
   
   
 

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BUT you NEVER know, if it's the truth OR not. Miscommunication, angry clients spreading rumors. Who knows. You don't want to just ruin someone's reputation without seeing it for yourself. Just do you, stay protected and move along. I do agree with you though, it's sickening, sAd and scary. "Shudder" Your shopping buddy client , could of read about this rumor somewhere, been unhappy with her and is spreading it by telling you. Could be true , could not be. Just be careful.

It only takes a rumor to be passed once to have it catch fire and be told as truth.

Thru my 18 years of Internet hobbying, I've seen some very good people have their reputations ruined because of things that you described.

Some people are just destructive and uncaring that way

I agree with you and I have never and will never mention the providers name.  

The first hobbyist who mentioned it to me 6 months ago was upset with her because she ended there session almost 30 minutes early, so naturally I thought he was lying and told him I did not want to discuss his situation with any other provider. He lives in Canada and was just visiting.  

The second guy is almost 60 and very new to the hobby and have only seen her and myself. He passed on the no protection deal and she ended their session 25 minutes early because she said he sweated on her. He was not telling me to gossip because he's new to the hobby he was asking me was that normal and telling me that I should be extra careful if seeing clients she does.

So this is not a made up rumor by me or two guys that have never met or know one another. My thing is this I have no intentions of telling anyone who she is but I will not see anymore clients that I know she has seen
 Nothing more nothing less.  

So this is not a rumor it is the truth and it is a very scary truth for Providers in this day and age to be so reckless.

You could go on the ladies board but then again, there is always the possibility of a backlash with something like this. Have you even reached out to the provider herself? If she doesn't care for her safety and others then maybe she will just admit to you. Who ever knows.  

 And again, just because a client says he has never heard of TER or boards or whatnot , does not mean it is truth. I think clients and providers alike have all met people they thought to be one thing and then eventually found them to be another way. Maybe it took a few visits, maybe it took a few years. You never know.  

  And I like you find it disgusting, and think we should all stick together and be one with each other but sadly the bad apples in the bunch will ruin that dream. ;-) I am thinking here in your best interest as well. Go to ladies board if you haven't already and if you want to that bad. Or reach out and warn the girls in your circle or ones you like or trust. These circumstances it's best to do things behind the scenes.  

 
   Enjoy your Sunday beautiful!!!!!!!

2 clients imo isn't really enough to confirm this lady is a full-fledged BBFS queen.
Clients lie....multiple clients of the same lady can lie too.  
It's best to handle your business as usual. If you want to cancel out seeing anyone you find has seen her too that's your prerogative and much respect for it.
True or not if they will gossip about one lady to you they might gossip about you to others....again true or not.
Assume at minimum every other client is barebacking, stripper sliding and rubbing their raw dongs between ass cheeks all over the place in their personal life and probably with every other person they see before and after seeing you.  
And they don't always review it or talk about it.
So...be as careful with them as you can really (within the realm of your own comfort level)

And like I mentioned we all will have different opinions about this situation and yes MsMocha you are right clients do lie that is why I did not believe the first guy who told me months prior to the second guy. And the second guy is not like I mentioned a regular hobbyist it was his first and only experience with her and a provider period. He knows nothing about TER, P411, etc....and him and the other gentlemen do not know one another at all and have never ever crossed paths. So ....I know its the truth about her and I do have to disagree with you on something. Yes 2 random men (strangers) who you have never seen before does mean that she only provides that type of service. She had no history with any if these guys so I'm not believing for a minute she just all of a sudden decided with these two guys that she wanted to bless them with BBS, not believing that for a minute. And again the first guy was in Holiday in Phx from Canada the other one lives here and he's old as the hills and he has no reason to lie on this lady .  

So I understand that you are trying your best to look at this as objectively as possible and give her the benefit of the doubt but truth is and I believe 100% that she just does not like to use protection with ANYONE. And maybe I'm from the old school but that is something you save for someone you are in a relationship with not random guys who you do not know or have any history with.  

Posted By: TrulyMsMocha
2 clients imo isn't really enough to confirm this lady is a full-fledged BBFS queen.  
 Clients lie....multiple clients of the same lady can lie too.  
 It's best to handle your business as usual. If you want to cancel out seeing anyone you find has seen her too that's your prerogative and much respect for it.  
 True or not if they will gossip about one lady to you they might gossip about you to others....again true or not.  
 Assume at minimum every other client is barebacking, stripper sliding and rubbing their raw dongs between ass cheeks all over the place in their personal life and probably with every other person they see before and after seeing you.  
 And they don't always review it or talk about it.  
 So...be as careful with them as you can really (within the realm of your own comfort level).  
 

What matters is you believe she is not using protection for intercourse with anyone even though 2 clients is a pretty small sample.  
And best you can do is try to avoid sharing her clients.  

"And maybe I'm from the old school but that is something you save for someone you are in a relationship with not random guys who you do not know or have any history with."

I'm not from the old school per se (started this in 2010) but I share in that i'd rather NOT do bare vaginal or anal intercourse anyone either unless we're married (not just in a long term dating relationship).  

Best to you and again be as safe as you possibly can.

Posted By: NinaSimone36
And like I mentioned we all will have different opinions about this situation and yes MsMocha you are right clients do lie that is why I did not believe the first guy who told me months prior to the second guy. And the second guy is not like I mentioned a regular hobbyist it was his first and only experience with her and a provider period. He knows nothing about TER, P411, etc....and him and the other gentlemen do not know one another at all and have never ever crossed paths. So ....I know its the truth about her and I do have to disagree with you on something. Yes 2 random men (strangers) who you have never seen before does mean that she only provides that type of service. She had no history with any if these guys so I'm not believing for a minute she just all of a sudden decided with these two guys that she wanted to bless them with BBS, not believing that for a minute. And again the first guy was in Holiday in Phx from Canada the other one lives here and he's old as the hills and he has no reason to lie on this lady .  
   
 So I understand that you are trying your best to look at this as objectively as possible and give her the benefit of the doubt but truth is and I believe 100% that she just does not like to use protection with ANYONE. And maybe I'm from the old school but that is something you save for someone you are in a relationship with not random guys who you do not know or have any history with.  
   
Posted By: TrulyMsMocha
2 clients imo isn't really enough to confirm this lady is a full-fledged BBFS queen.  
  Clients lie....multiple clients of the same lady can lie too.    
  It's best to handle your business as usual. If you want to cancel out seeing anyone you find has seen her too that's your prerogative and much respect for it.  
  True or not if they will gossip about one lady to you they might gossip about you to others....again true or not.  
  Assume at minimum every other client is barebacking, stripper sliding and rubbing their raw dongs between ass cheeks all over the place in their personal life and probably with every other person they see before and after seeing you.    
  And they don't always review it or talk about it.  
  So...be as careful with them as you can really (within the realm of your own comfort level).  
 
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I started in 2014 so 2 years for me. When I said old school I meant as far as always protecting yourself during intimate encounters.  

Thanks again for your input always appreciated.

Probably the same board I posted on

I agree with you on people will do what they want, but those same people are putting the ones like me who protect themselves in danger. That is the part that does not sit well with me. Other then that it is her business but it becomes mine when I see gentlemen she has serviced. Now that I know I can make sure that anyone that contacts me and use her as a reference I will not see.

This was 17 yrs ago. Visiting a well known and well reviewed provider. I hadn't been in the hobby but a couple of years and always found it interesting how some of the ladies slipped on the cover with such ease in many different ways you just didn't know they had done it, but they had. She went from oral to straight sex and never missed a beat. But a number of the ladies slipped the cover on orally I paid no attention. We had a great roll around and when done, no cover! When I asked why, she said I looked clean and respectable. WTF! Never went back and if you mentioned bbfs on any of the available boards then you were a liar and attacked for saying so. So I said nothing.  

As for Idoneit here here's a Shakespeare quote that's appropriate: "Hell is empty and all the devils are here."

And I'm sure if you would have outed this provider you would have been called a liar and everything else. That is a damn shame that these providers think that type of service is common and no big deal. At least that is what this idiot provider on that other dillusional board told me.  

I'm all about Unity in this business but I will not unify with any provider who engages in that type of business.

 

 

 
 

Posted By: squatmaster
This was 17 yrs ago. Visiting a well known and well reviewed provider. I hadn't been in the hobby but a couple of years and always found it interesting how some of the ladies slipped on the cover with such ease in many different ways you just didn't know they had done it, but they had. She went from oral to straight sex and never missed a beat. But a number of the ladies slipped the cover on orally I paid no attention. We had a great roll around and when done, no cover! When I asked why, she said I looked clean and respectable. WTF! Never went back and if you mentioned bbfs on any of the available boards then you were a liar and attacked for saying so. So I said nothing.  
   
 As for Idoneit here here's a Shakespeare quote that's appropriate: "Hell is empty and all the devils are here."

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When you raw dog you make an intense spiritual connection, where your spirits get connected. It is something that should be used in girlfriend/boyfriend relationship or husband/wife.

I definitely would want to know who this provider is so I could AVOID if at all possible. I wouldn't even be interested in seeing that lady with a cover knowing that she provided that way.

would never offer that, too many dangers out there.. just my 2 cents..

Same thing with rimming. I've had a couple of girls surprise me with this. Feels great, and once they've started, the damage, if any, is done. (Thank God I've never gotten an std from this or anything else -- I get tested regularly.). But one of the local agencies had a girl who had rimmed me return after about a year away, and they offered me a session with the girl, saying she was gorgeous and sweet and skilled and enthusiastic.  All true.  But I declined, because who knows where her mouth has been for the last year.  Sorry, but that's a bridge I will not cross.  Just like I'd NEVER do bbfs.  Ick. If a girl offers that, run the hell the other way.  She's loco. It's amoral to engage in such dangerous behavior. Risk to you, her, and every subsequent partner of either of you.

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