Don't mention any type of acts saying you want this or that or does she do this or does she do that? Don't mention reviews. Just say hello I am Joe and I would like to see you at such and such time. For this long. Rates are found on her website so no questions about money need to be asked. Also call with your number showing. I will speak to a person that follows these.
I consider myself a newbie and have a question that you experienced hobbyists and providers can hopefully explain.
When seeking out availability and an appointment, I either don't get call backs from voicemail, and when she picks up, I have been hung up on.
I'm trying to figure out if it is something I'm saying, not saying, or something else. I called a provider today who hung up. After asking if it was her, she said yes and then hung up. Is there a magic word or a time limit or what ? LOL
Interestingly enough, I googled her # right after, and one of those alerts came up that said "Escort Police" saying that her number was associated with the local LEO. She was well reviewed, and I don't know if that site is legit (of course it's scary enough to keep me away by saying that she is not worth risking my job and family, etc.)
So I guess I have two topics here: 1) getting through without being hung up on, and 2) this crazy web page that pops up from time to time when researching possible providers.
I would to hear from you, especially providers. Thanks in advance!
I think the most likely reasons the provider is hanging up on you are that you are asking about things that are readily apparent on her ad/webpage, or you are being explicit and the provider thinks you're trying to get her to incriminate herself or are just looking for a free phone sex session.
Some providers, as part of their screening processes, will not accept calls from blocked phone numbers or numbers which are identifiable as coming from "burner" apps. YMMV but that is a possible explanation, too.
And the "bust" site that you're referring to is a scam.
That makes more sense...thanks for the reply.
I assume it's the part about burner app.
I'm only asking if she has availability on a certain day. The most specific might be mentioning that I am calling to see if she is available "for a massage" but never anything more than that. It must be my burner. So if I want to be phone safe on my end, what are the alternatives to using burner #s?
Thanks for helping me understand--much appreciated !!!
It's requested on my website, and until I have it, I can't commit to dates or times anyway, so it's a waste of both our time to plan a hypothetical meet up.
I've actually taken my number off of my site because of so many calls like this.
Most of my provider friends tell me that their favorite method of communication is email, and that people who call rather than email tend to be time wasters.
Any polite introduction email stating where you found me, when you'd like to meet, and including the screening info requested on my site (ideally two references), will be answered immediately.
Anything less goes to the back of my to-do list.
Make it easy for your provider and she'll be excited to meet you! How you introduce yourself says heaps about what kind of date you'll be
All good providers do not have time to discuss availability/schedule over phone so email/text is the best way to communicate. Be polite, short and specific when communicating as all good providers truly deserve that. Enough Said!