Assuming you don't feel comfortable about meeting in you house (I don't), why go to the trouble and expense of renting a room to meet? If you're already on the road and staying in a hotel or if the provider only does outcall, then that's one thing. Otherwise, why not just go to her place? It seems easier all around.
Is it safe to have the outcall at your residence or better at a hotel?
That is a personal choice it all depends on your situation, again for me it is all about my privacy. If you are seeing someone for the first time and you dont know anything about them, why would you let them in your house?
It's definitely better to have the outcall at a hotel room you rent. It's safer and more anonymous this way. But if you're single, and if you know and trust the provider, then it's fairly safe to have the outcall at your place.
As a provider I do in-call only, it's where I feel most comfy. You should maybe try both. I know there's a lot of apprehension when having a stranger in your home, but by checking the reviews, having a phone conversation or two that should help.
If you decide to invite her into your home, be sure to close any doors you don't want accessed and know what's off limits beforehand.
Have fun...
Is it ok to rent a motel room? As opposed to a hotel? With Motels, the provider doesn't have to go through a lobby, so it's more discreet.
I glamourous woman showing up at a sleepy motel may get the attention of the inn-keeper who, for all you know, could be a part time cop in the town or know someone who is, and will drop a dime on you.
The lobby of a large urban hotel is often so busy, that annomynity is often assured.
Not only do MOTELS attract unneccessary attention, they are often located in not-so-nice areas of town...putting a lady at other risks. I know that some ladies travel with a driver/bodyguard for extra protection, but motels are often the sites of other unsavory activity that attract LE nonetheless, and I certainly don't want to be spotted in their parking lot and open-air corridors. I much prefer a nice hotel where I can walk through the enclosed lobby dressed in business-casual or cocktail attire without raising an eyebrow.
Besides, to me most motels connotate an air of sleaziness that is not in keeping with the upscale experience that reputable providers are aiming for. Just my $.02, for what it's worth!
XOXO,
Stella
In my area, there is a lot of LE activity centered around the motels due to drug activity and street prostitution. Also, without a main front lobby and well-lit entrance (most motels have outdoor corridors), I feel unsafe walking to and from my car alone, especially at night (and would not feel safe asking a gent to escort me to my car either, as that would be a violation of my privacy) I will not take appointments located at motels. Just my .02, and I suspect most other professional ladies would agree.
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Marea
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If you have an SO, your home is a bad idea, as even if she is gone, there is a risk of neighbors getting involved or suspicious, the SO returning unexpectedly (putting both you and your lady friend in a really awkward position), or some telltale object or scent getting left behind. If you're single, not as big of an issue at all.
As a provider, I won't go to private homes for first or usually second appointments, but once I know the gentleman and feel safe, then I will usually consider it. To make her feel comfortable, a public location ie. hotel is best for first dates.
As stated also, do not ever have a non-reviewed lady to your home unless you know her very well, as there is a risk of theft or violence (although rare, it happens). Well reviewed ladies who screen will not be a threat to your safety, and could probably obtain your address anyways through their screening, but never give your address to a non-reviewed or non-established provider, given the occurrence of rip offs by non-legit gals and their pimps.
Overall, hotels (not homes or motels) are ideal for first time appointment and protect the safety and anonymity of both the gent and the provider.
XoXo
Marea
Assuming you don't feel comfortable about meeting in you house (I don't), why go to the trouble and expense of renting a room to meet? If you're already on the road and staying in a hotel or if the provider only does outcall, then that's one thing. Otherwise, why not just go to her place? It seems easier all around.
"Why not just go to her place?"
I'm not allowed to have guests over at my place (live with roommates).
Incall is out of the question. Long Island has had too many LE busts (all from CL).
Outcall is safer for me.
Im not allowed to have clients/hobbyists at my place either (I have teenage kids) Outcalls work best for me. If both provider and hobbyist have to have a hotel split the cost of the hotel, it worked for me! See my link works 
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But your link still doesn't work here.
What you have is the EROS badge. If you want to link to TER, you have to display TER.
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