Thanks for the reply. I didn't mean to make it sound as if it were an issue with me, because it isn't. It's not as if I would not go back because of it. In fact, I do plan on going back, and soon. Being new to this though I was just curious as to the protocol. I wasn't sure if asking was frowned upon (especially if you didn't make it clear that was what was desired before getting started), or if the fact that it wasn't offered outright should be a signal that it wasn't going to happen regardless. To be honest I'd also feel like a bit of a jerk if she said no. But that said I think next time I'll take my chances and mention that I'd be willing to go again if she's up to it.
So I've been with 2 different providers so far who both were reviewed as allowing msog. However, I was 1 and done with both and with both I felt there was plenty of time left in the session for another go (25-30 minutes). Now I will say that I never asked either if I could go another round, mainly because I got the impression from a lot of the reviews that the provider, after a short break from the 1st, would start back up or would at least make some indication that it was OK or maybe ask. So, being under that impression in both cases I waited for a bit for a "green light" so to speak but didn't really get one, at least not that I noticed. By that time I would be down to 10 or maybe 15 minutes or so and just decide to call it a day. So my question is, is it protocol to ask for another round? Or should I just wait to see if it's offered and consider myself lucky if it is? Thanks.
You have to get those details out when you arrive for your session. Let the provider know before you start that you would like to go more than one round. But it is a matter if time permits, or if the provider wants to do it. Don't assume ask!
If two pops is an issue with you; then by all means make it known to the provider; but doing it subtly could gain you more overall mileage.
It may be converse to the edict of getting every stroke for your hobby dollar; but most pros I know tend to favor the guys who are blissfully satiated after one good pop, and like anybody or any other business will avail themselves to the less problematic customer. This is a moot point if repeat visits are not on your mind; but a distinct consideration when they are.
Thanks for the reply. I didn't mean to make it sound as if it were an issue with me, because it isn't. It's not as if I would not go back because of it. In fact, I do plan on going back, and soon. Being new to this though I was just curious as to the protocol. I wasn't sure if asking was frowned upon (especially if you didn't make it clear that was what was desired before getting started), or if the fact that it wasn't offered outright should be a signal that it wasn't going to happen regardless. To be honest I'd also feel like a bit of a jerk if she said no. But that said I think next time I'll take my chances and mention that I'd be willing to go again if she's up to it.
If you have plenty of time left just say something like, "Sweetheat, let's make love again." Many guys aren't capable of two rounds. Ladies do not wish to embarass clients by suggesting another round when the man might not be able.
Why feel like a jerk? It never hurts to ask. If you had a good romp and it was fun then just leave smiling. For me anyway it is the pleasure of being with a woman not a score card that counts.
if they want me to "pace" the experience to make for one great explosion at the end, or if they feel like a couple of pops are in the cards. Then I act accordingly. Of course, sometimes their ideas are bigger than their ability, and 1 ends up being all there is. But I've given them the chance to speak up.
But you're right-- if yo have 5 minutes left, it's not good form to beg for one more.
Depending on the provider, it's always possible that MSOG are only available to some clients. Let's not worry about that right now.
While some providers may ask if you have another one in you, many others will let you make the move. So, you need to keep an eye on the clock and make sure there is time. What I do is I start off with a bit of gentle foreplay, massaging her, kisses, playing with her breasts ... etc. Then you can ask if there is time for another round. Having checked the clock yourself, you know the answer should be yes and you can play it from there. I think the key is to have made a positive impression on the provider during the first round and be prepared to kindly ask for what you would like.
Waiting to see if it is offered is not a good strategy. It may be available, but the provider may not push it simply because she doesn't think you want a second round. So if you get up and sit on the edge of the bed, the provider may view that as a sign that you are done.
This is a good general rule, but applies specifically in this case. Usually, there will be a point somewhere near the beginning of the session when she says something like, "So what do you like?"
That's your cue to TELL HER. Don't worry about being embarrassed (unless it's something like "I want you to wear clown shoes and call me 'Little Bitch Clarabelle' -- oh, that gets me hot!"). If there's anything you're hoping to do (or to avoid), speak up. If you know you're good for multiple rounds, and it's important to you to get them, find a gracious way to put it. You might say something like, "I get a little eager at first when I'm really excited about being with someone that I've looked forward to meeting, and so things usually go better once I've calmed down a bit later on in my previous dates." She'll figure it out, believe me.
Don't be ashamed to ask for what you want, but compensate her appropriately for her efforts. If you're going to want an extensive session, don't book for too short a time -- if you want two pops (one of them Greek), and you also want to do some intense DATY, don't book a thirty-minute appointment! Tipping is also an excellent idea to recognize splendid efforts, too.
If you're going to want something that might require some preparation (such as clothing requests, or fetish activities, or specific toys), make sure you mention it beforehand. This may require booking a second date, as some ladies just won't discuss specifics with people they haven't seen before. Don't expect her to have a nurse's uniform with an enema bag without a special request, for example. Let her know if you're planning to bring something along, too -- while she won't bat an eye at a pocket vibe, she might not appreciate being confronted with thigh-high boots and a corset that are all fitted for someone not her size.