Does LE mess with BDSM girls? Has anyone ever heard of a bust for straight SM play?
1. Is strap-on play illegal? If so how do you tell the girl that is what you want?
2. Are foot jobs illegal?
3. GS are fine, aren't they?
Never thought about legality of my SM play till I joined TER...info would be appreciated, thanks!
Yes Strap on is illegal in most 50 states as it involves penetration with a "sexual object other than genitals- but still for purposes of sexual satisfaction" Florida State Statute 815
In a state where its not even legal to screw your wife on sunday... nothing a provider does here could ever be seen as anything but Illegal. Entrapment is a mute issue as cops can do what ever they want here including having sex with a provider (twice in fact ) before they arrest her. Its kookie.
SM play and how do you ask? Well you know you cant bring it up on the phone prior because it wont be discussed. Does her website say anything in reference to toys. "Mistress do you have a "FULLY" stocked toy bag for your little slut boy if I may praise you and inquire?" In a polite email .. Mistress.. I am sincerely interested in exploring the following personal play .. ( list as many of your interests and limits quickly to the point as you can ) here is my experience with these subjects as well.
Do you play with any of these interests as this is what I am seeking to find?
Most first time BDSM sessions will not involve heavy duty personal play. It is more discipline and how you serve and get to know your Mistress. In the world of Pro Dommes you dare not even bring up sexual release that is a no no . That world does not see the male orgasm as an ending note. There are few of us that have done Domination and transformed it into erotic exploration.
Strap On play is involved and needs to be handled by someone with experience. You are dealing with a tender vulnerable area that is prone to bacterial infections that results from tears in the epithulium tissues. Toys are not all compatible with the lubricants used and can not only break down leaving holes that harbor bacteria if not properly cleaned (including incapsulated HIV and HEPts) They can cause irritants in the user.
* Provider should always use condom over toy
* Area should be well lubed with gloved fingers prior to play
* Light play involving fingers relaxes area
* Recepiant should do a light enema prior to entire event in the shower (really easy to do with bulb from pharmacy)
* Thinner toys should be used first including probes
Hope this helps
Mo