I for one love when a provider likes to kiss. I think that brings a lot of passion into the session

I like the friendly and succinct email exchanges that lead up to the encounter. A little flirting is fun.
A cool hotel that has parking and like the lady is full service ( in other words a good lounge for a post session drink or snack)

Upon entering the room it's great to be greeted with a warm hug & kiss by a lady that is beautiful , like you and has dressed to impress. I kinda like the sexy dress or short skirt look. Some prefer lingerie. The last time I saw Sasha Stolin she was wearing the sexy maid outfit that she features in her ads....that certainly put a smile on my face ...lol

I like it when the room has been prepared for the session. Dim lights , candles , soft music. No mess , no lingering evidence of those who might have proceeded me . No TV or ringing cell phones.

Don't like the feeling that we are on the clock. A sip or two of good wine and a little get to know ya chit chat sets the mood.

This help?

Prior to the visit a professional web site and a clear idea of what services are offered .
During the visit I want to feel special - that I am not part of some assembly line, that you are glad to see me and spend time with me and you are interested in me.  In turn I appreciate it when you share somethings about yourself so you become someone to me and not just an attractive women with a list of services.

has an orgasm.  

Also, I like when she wears clothes instead of lingerie or underwear. when she doesn't look bored when I walk in particularly the first visit. I like when she has bottled water, mouthwash, clean towels. etc.

Those are a few.

Being greeted with a smile and a gentle kiss, hold my hand, rest your head on my chest and tell me you're glad I'm there.  Takes my nervousness away and lets me know we are going to have a great time.  

Something as closely to the pictures as possible.  Not talking about weight or dated pics, but lingerie/heels etc.  I have had a couple of providers meet me in lingerie and heels and that is greatly appreciated as opposed to yoga pants and sweats.  Another guy mentioned it also, some correspondence via email as to what the client would like, initiated by the provider.  Something more than the standard, "here is my location and text/call when you arrive."  I've read some awesome reviews of girls and contacted them only to get one liners.  I understand being discreet and all, but once the verification has been established and provider knows client isn't LE, a little flirting and initiating of outfit requests, aggressiveness level would be awesome.  And oh yeah, Enthusiasm!

..is comfortable in her own skin and in what she is doing...

...realizes this is P4P, but is able to go "beyond that" and make me believe she is actually interested...

...can hold an intelligent conversation on a variety of topics...

...takes the time to set her mind to the time we will spend together and not go into drama rants, he said - she said stuff, etc...

...has the maturity to know how to please AND be pleased and isn't afraid to "direct" if need be...

...has a great sense of humor and does not take herself (or me) too seriously...

...and lastly...

...recognizes this is an intimate activity and treats it as such.

I could think of a few more, however in the interest of not taking up any further bandwidth / boring everyone further, I will stop here

- Nice greeting when I walk in (big hug, sensual soft kiss)
 - have at least one clean towel for me to use so that I can shower right away, and hide all of used towels, I don't need to see a pile of used towels
 - once I come out of the shower, get right to it, conversation is much better after round one when I am not thinking "when are we getting started", or" damn those are great breast, I really want to touch them"
 - Be real: experienced hobbiest know when you are faking. I know I am not a Greek god, but still try to be real and give a real reaction. That is the one area that SB's seem to have it over Ladies here, their reactions are so real. Especially when it comes to DATY, if I am not doing it the way you like let me know.  
- After round one, lets talk, but before all the time expires get round 2 started (yes, I like assertive women)
- Understand that there is a time to be soft and sensual (the beginning) and a time to not to soft.  
- Don't get dressed till after I leave - There is something extra sexy about that last hug and kiss good bye, while you're still naked and I think you're getting back in the bed, not getting ready for the next guy to knock on the door.  

- Above all -- Never ever hand me a baby wipe. Nothing says this is a service like being handed a baby wipe

It is all about the provider having a great attitude.  Being friendly, fun, and into what we are doing