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Re: Silly question for the guys...MILF vs. GND
Trygger 28 Reviews 2401 reads
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Obviously, it's all in the mind of the individual.  Here is mine

A MILF has age and attitude.  She will be in her 30's (or a bit more) and expecting to receive pleasure as much as providing pleasure.  I think of it as reflecting the claim (myth?) that women's sex drives peak in their 30's.  Judging from your site, I suspect you might be a MILF.  (Between you and Marea I ask myself why I ever left Madison.  The providers I used to transport in Badger Cab weren't nearly as hot  :-)   )

A GND is younger ... in her twenties.  Like the name says, she would be someone who might live next door to me.  So she wouldn't be exotic or look like she belongs on a runway.  She would look very clean and fresh.  Oh, and she would definitely not have implants.  I suppose this definition depends a lot on where you grew up.


Anyway, that's my opinion.  Now if someone could just tell me who coined the term MILF.

stella_sapphire2853 reads

I'm really curious to know what in your minds would qualify a lady as a MILF?  Age, looks, attitude?  And what about MILF vs. girl-next-door?  Would that be the MILFs daughter?  lol

All input is greatly appreciated!

XOXO,
Stella

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JustATransGirl1639 reads

Not anymore... :-)

But it's easy.  A MILF is a Mom.  Age, looks etc isn't the issue.  I mean other than the obvious - like "my" mom isn't going to fit the image...

But a MILF is a Mom who loves her kids and her "job" too and has a balanced life with both.

A GND - is just that, the girl from the neighborhood.  NOT the neighborhood slut, but a provider who nobody would ever suspect is a provider. She runs around in jeans and a camisol, but looks great in heels and a mini, and doesn't need makeup, and is vivacious and fun to be around.

Me - I'm the "transsexual next door..."

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TS Jamie  :-)

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dermont1091572 reads

I am a guy, and when I think of MILF, I think of soccer moms, the whole mini van, older more mature,  that in and of itself is hot.  When it comes to GND, well I think of becky the girl I grew up next to, nice, sweet and seemingly innocent, (she taught me more than she would ever image).

just my thoughts

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Earnest1445 reads

As others have said, you can't be that literal.  A MILF is a type and has to be in her 30s, and probably 40s to count.

However, I like to joke with and about girls in their 20s who have children being MILFs.  A 26 year-old stripper with a son seemed legitimately flattered, as if she had not thought of it before, when I called her a MILF.  When I want to bust my best friend's balls I refer to his 22 year-old little sister, who recently had a baby, as a MILF.

In each case the young lady in question is a mother and I want to fuck her.  However, they are not MILFs.

Similarly, a woman (apparently without children) who  dates younger men is a cougar, but she pretty much has to be in her 40s.  Those hot, under 25, schoolteachers who got caught shagging their students were not cougars.  They were angels!

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marline1241 reads

YOU QUALIFY !!!!!basedon your beauty

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doodahz2489 reads

As a general cut-off, a MILF would be over about 30.  She wouldn't have that college girl sorority youthfullness with a hard body, but might show just a bit of age.  She would have that mature beauty, and maybe be a bit more refined, both in appearance and mannerisms, and would be worldly and witty, too.  Think Mrs. Robinson.

As others have said, the GND is the innocent girl who doesn't show a lot of outward signs of sexuality, seduction, or slutiness.  However, once you take a chance on her and you happen to get her to her bedroom, she suprises you with her energy and eagerness.

The MILF's daughter?  Interesting thought.  A while ago,when my daughters were in high school, I noticed that I was lusting more after the hot moms than I was the hot high school girls.  At that point, I realized that I was truly getting old =)

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luv_women1349 reads

...I have found that as I have gotten a little older, the young 20 year old does very little for me.   OTOH a sexy MILF, or middle aged women who knows what she wants is a true turn-on.

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Trygger2402 reads

Obviously, it's all in the mind of the individual.  Here is mine

A MILF has age and attitude.  She will be in her 30's (or a bit more) and expecting to receive pleasure as much as providing pleasure.  I think of it as reflecting the claim (myth?) that women's sex drives peak in their 30's.  Judging from your site, I suspect you might be a MILF.  (Between you and Marea I ask myself why I ever left Madison.  The providers I used to transport in Badger Cab weren't nearly as hot  :-)   )

A GND is younger ... in her twenties.  Like the name says, she would be someone who might live next door to me.  So she wouldn't be exotic or look like she belongs on a runway.  She would look very clean and fresh.  Oh, and she would definitely not have implants.  I suppose this definition depends a lot on where you grew up.


Anyway, that's my opinion.  Now if someone could just tell me who coined the term MILF.

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little phil1344 reads

I know of a lady named Tasha in Las Vegas who's in her early 20's.  She freely admits to being a mom, and lives about 2 miles from me.  I guess that would classify her as both a milf (at least in spirit) and as a GND.

I'd like to her, but that's a no-no on this board.  I've reviewed her however, so you can find her if the mood strikes.

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stella_sapphire1562 reads

lol Trygger... you can always visit!

I was just curious to see what people's opinions were since I'm 30...and could really go either way.  I seem to appeal to younger and older alike.  So I guess I'll use what I got!

And as far as I know, MILF came from the first American Pie movie.  Remember Stifler's mom?  She's the original MILF.  That movie cracks me up.

XOXO,
Stella

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Earnest1867 reads

No, MILF definitely predates the American Pie movies.  My friends and I were saying it in 1990.  I think we thought we made it up, but I'm sure we didn't.

Actually, we included the T for "to."

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myfavoriteDILF!!!1316 reads

American Pie is where it first got its widespread notoriety.  Obviously, it's plausible that the term was lifted from slang that was already in use.  Anyone can claim to making it up, and truthfully more than one could have made it up.  For instance, when I was young (elementary / jr. high) back in the mid-70's, a group of my friends coined terms like "homeboy" and "my bad" and "don't be gettin' strong".  The latter never really took off like the first two did.  Did we originate the usage of those terms?  Probably not, but it's possible.  It took several years for "homeboy" and "my bad" to get widespread usage, so I'm sure others can lay their claim to it.  I was amused in the mid-90's when one of my older brother's sons used "my bad" after having made a mistake.  My brother, who's 19 years my senior, started to explain its meaning when I busted a gut laughing.  He couldn't believe it when I told him that my friends and I used that way back in the mid-70's, and had possibly originated it.  

It's interesting (and somewhat funny) that y'all used a "T" in your acronym.  Was it kept silent for pronunciation?  Kinda hard to pronounce "MILTF", dontcha think?  It's also interesting how many people associate the term with a woman being in a certain age group regardless of whether the woman is a mom or not.  For me, motherhood is a key.  A MILF can be 20 or 60.  But she has to be a mom.  And she certainly can be a GND, as well.  So this whole thread seems a bit off to me.

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angel1030021368 reads

Your awesome stella, I dont care what anyone says :)

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sheri7141194 reads

I remember my step-brother and his friends using MILF while they were in High School in maybe 1992, 1993

To me, since it means "Mom I'd like to Fuck" it really only technically applies to moms who have kids old enough for the kid's friends to know what fucking is and who they would want to, right???

So I wouldn't say someone Britney Spears age or younger with a few toddlers is a MILF.

Like other posters said, mid 30's and up, who could have teenage or college age kids, but are the "sexy mom" in the group

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stella_sapphire1790 reads

It seems the general concensus here has reinforced my original thoughts on the matter.  Really, I was wondering in the interest of my site content and verbiage I intend to use there.  I've seen other providers' sites and read their reviews only to find utter disappointment among their clients as to the provider's representation of herself (claiming to be a MILF, GND among other things).  I simply want to depict myself as accurately as possible...no false advertising here!  When it comes review time, I'd like to have the gentlemen be satisfied with my description of myself in respect to my actual appearance and demeanor.  I think I'll stick with GND since the only kids I've ever had (or intend to have) possess 4 legs and fur!  I'm certainly no Mrs. Robinson...but give me a few more years and I can 'graduate' to COUGAR status!  Rawr.
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So MILF's been around for a while ay?  Who'dve thunk it?!  Very interesting.  I guess 'American Pie' just threw it into the mainstream!  BTW...I've been saying "my bad" since I was 3!  Thanks Mom.  lol ;oP

XOXO,
Stella

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