Hi everyone. I am fairly new to the hobby. Recently I was with 2 different SPs (both with quite a lot of reviews on this site) on two separate occasions within the last month. I received sloppy BBBJs from both, and gave the second one oral as well. After the second encounter I started to feel like I have a burning sensation on my penis. Not sure if its real or just my conscience playing mind games with me. I got the fear of catching an STD AFTER the act when I started thinking with the head on my shoulders and not the other one. Id really hate to bring anything home since I am married. Anyway, basically Im wondering...
1) Is it acceptable to ask an SP if she is healthy/disease free when first meeting, or would that be insulting?
2) Do the reputable providers get tested regularly? If a SP knowingly had something, would they be honest and upfront about it or hide it? How about the guys that see the SPs?
3) How risky is it to get a BBBJ from the lady and having her saliva come into contact with you? How about DATY on a provider?
Sorry if all these questions have been posted before. I guess Im just looking for reassurance from the other guys to make me feel better so that I may continue to explore this hobby. Thanks.
As to your first question, some providers may be put off by the question, but I think others would be happy to address the health aspects with you. If it is a big concern of yours (and it clearly is) then go ahead and ask.
Reputable providers do get tested regularly, sometimes as often as monthly, and yes, they would stop working if something was wrong.
There are links in the TER Instruction Manual above that give you websites that discuss the possibilty of infections from various types of sexual encounters. Each of us has to determine for themselves what their comfort level is and then live with the decisions we make. You may well want to opt to perform all sexual activities covered and that is your call. I myself have been hobbying for twenty something years with over 150 different providers and having bare back felatio among other things. I am glad to report that I have not gotten anything in all this time. I think the choice of provider is key.
As for that burning sensation, it may be your conscious, or may not. See a doctor if it persists. It could just be some inflamation from a spirited provider's teeth.
When you say it talks about the possibility of infection, does it show any %, or is it just a list of things you could catch from a BBBJ, even if it would be a 1/100 chance to catch it?