Yes. I see one, and one more who is about to go UTR.
In both cases, I met them when they were above-the-radar. They kept or will keep a restricted little-black-book (LBB) of favorite clients when they quit advertizing. If the contact information changes, the LBB clients will be the only ones with the new information. I suppose that if you know someone interested in a date with a UTR lady (how would he know though?) and you had her contact information, you could provide a reference to her. However, she might not be happy about that.And yes, I am aware that by definition, UTR means that they cannot/do not want to be found.
So I guess the question is: do you guys see any providers that you consider UTR? If so, how did you make the initial contact?
Cheers!
Yes. I see one, and one more who is about to go UTR.
In both cases, I met them when they were above-the-radar. They kept or will keep a restricted little-black-book (LBB) of favorite clients when they quit advertizing. If the contact information changes, the LBB clients will be the only ones with the new information.
I suppose that if you know someone interested in a date with a UTR lady (how would he know though?) and you had her contact information, you could provide a reference to her. However, she might not be happy about that.
She was above radar for a few years , finished school and then kept a handful of good repeat clients she got along with well and when UTR. She moved. Ask to South America and I haven't heard from her since. I've heard stories of other guys starting off with legit massage therapists. I'm guessing a few UTR have gone the way of SB.
You can't go out looking for one, it's one of those things that just happen.
So I guess the question is: do you guys see any providers that you consider UTR? If so, how did you make the initial contact?
Cheers!
(Or they advertise as massage only and you develop a rapport for more). My experience is that when they retire - as others noted above - they keep a select few regulars both for the income and because they find those regulars to be clients they enjoy seeing. You may be able to continue to see them long after they go off the public stage - often at their homes if they are comfortable (and sans marriage or kids). But the ones i have experienced do not want their info given out at all to any others.
Sorry to be late to the conversation. Three ATFs I have had illustrate different levels of UTR:
-- one advertised, but eschewed reviews, asked clients not to, asked That they be removed if they did appear - so she stayed invisible to the review-focussed community
-- another who was a grad student advertised heavily for a few weeks and even got a half-dozen reviews, but in the process she garnered a couple of men particularly taken with her to be really supportive - so with financial mission accomplished, she pulled way back
-- another example is someone who did (still does) massages, does not get reviewed much; but then things developed as the appointments got more regular - again, a few good men, as they say
Different financial goals, too - Some ladies want to make as much $ as they can in this; others just want to be able to adequately support a fairly modest lifestyle and don't need to market as much