a perfunctory response.
I can usually tell if she is sincere or just being professional.Then I thought about my experience. After awhile, a bit more gratitude would be nice for being an easy reliable customer. One time she even said, "I missed seeing you" after a hiatus. It came across more like I missed having a regular paycheck. Service was good, and some nice benefits, but the chemistry/spark was gone. So I stopped seeing her.
If thats how you're feeling, then I would stop seeing her. Because that emotion is part of the experience for paying the higher end. If you're charging a premium, then premium service would make me feel like I'm the king of the world. Otherwise, you can find some $100 BP chick.
Next time you see her you could say that a response back would be nice, as it makes you feel bad when she doesn't respond or ask why she didn't respond. In the future I bet she would respond to your note and all would be well. If she goes BSC or just looks at you odd, then just another reason to move-on. This would solve your problem IMHO, as she probably doesn't mean anything ill toward you.
so I don't post much and expect blow-back but here goes . . .
I see a pretty highly rated seemingly "high-class" lady who works in a nearby city hoping to find another regular friend to add to the small circle of regular friends. The 2 hour session is good, I leave a nice tip and send a follow-up thank-you email as is my custom. The email says that I enjoyed our visit (true) and hope that I am welcome back. I almost always get a reply saying something to the effect of "I enjoyed it too (maybe true) and I would like to see you again too". But I do not and hear nothing. Our discussion led me to believe that all was good but my spidey-sense gave me doubt.
My reaction is to take the silence as my answer and trust my gut.
Not at all a big deal but am interested in thoughts
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yup, that's the plan
...since you sent your note? Maybe she had a busy day and couldn't get back to you? I know that I've had crazy days where I could only respond to what was upcoming and pertinent. Not to say that you aren't important, but I know I've been guilty of checking a message, to see if it was something that needed my immediate attention or not, and then totally forgetting to respond to it later...especially when I'm in a hurry or doing something like driving. I wouldn't read too much into it. If you like her, and want to see her again, go for it! Now, if you request another meeting, and you still get silence, THAT's when I'd move on to other fish in the sea. Good luck to you!
xoxo
Caylee
sounds like you got fucked and are fucked..
A bit too long of a story, but had a similar experience. Your story initially had me thinking, "Well, when does the 'thank you' e-mail chain stop?". Thank you...no thank you, well thank you....no you're great....no YOU are great. Like playing who hangs-up the phone first game.
Then I thought about my experience. After awhile, a bit more gratitude would be nice for being an easy reliable customer. One time she even said, "I missed seeing you" after a hiatus. It came across more like I missed having a regular paycheck. Service was good, and some nice benefits, but the chemistry/spark was gone. So I stopped seeing her.
If thats how you're feeling, then I would stop seeing her. Because that emotion is part of the experience for paying the higher end. If you're charging a premium, then premium service would make me feel like I'm the king of the world. Otherwise, you can find some $100 BP chick.
Next time you see her you could say that a response back would be nice, as it makes you feel bad when she doesn't respond or ask why she didn't respond. In the future I bet she would respond to your note and all would be well. If she goes BSC or just looks at you odd, then just another reason to move-on. This would solve your problem IMHO, as she probably doesn't mean anything ill toward you
I only saw her the one time but, sadly, I have been spoiled by a few really special and classy friends that have consistently demonstrated how to do it right from all aspects. Sigh, too bad more can't be that way . . .
a perfunctory response.
I can usually tell if she is sincere or just being professional.
Then I thought about my experience. After awhile, a bit more gratitude would be nice for being an easy reliable customer. One time she even said, "I missed seeing you" after a hiatus. It came across more like I missed having a regular paycheck. Service was good, and some nice benefits, but the chemistry/spark was gone. So I stopped seeing her.
If thats how you're feeling, then I would stop seeing her. Because that emotion is part of the experience for paying the higher end. If you're charging a premium, then premium service would make me feel like I'm the king of the world. Otherwise, you can find some $100 BP chick.
Next time you see her you could say that a response back would be nice, as it makes you feel bad when she doesn't respond or ask why she didn't respond. In the future I bet she would respond to your note and all would be well. If she goes BSC or just looks at you odd, then just another reason to move-on. This would solve your problem IMHO, as she probably doesn't mean anything ill toward you.
Could that be all it is?
what I call "mental texts" or "mental responses" and I do it in both my personal life and business. I read a text or email, but am busy or overwhelmed at the same time so I respond to the text or email in my mind, then later I realize, I never actually responded to the text.
However, with that being said, I think you are reading into this way too much. She didn't respond to an email, she may have simply forgot, hasn't logged in, went on vacation, taking a mental break, it went to spam, it was accidentally deleted, it saved to her outbox and never actually sent( that has happened to me) .
Give her a few days, shoot her another email, or inquire about "booking" another appointment. You''ll most likely get your answer then
I sometimes do the same thing.
no worries, I am not reading much into it other than the obvious and I know what to do. I was just interested in others thoughts on the topic
My unsolicited advice is: Don't take silence for more than it is.
If you thought the session went well, and you've been right before--give it time.
Remember, some ladies ( and gents) are great at communicating, and some aren't.
However, with that being said, I think you are reading into this way too much. She didn't respond to an email, she may have simply forgot, hasn't logged in, went on vacation, taking a mental break, it went to spam, it was accidentally deleted, it saved to her outbox and never actually sent( that has happened to me) .
Give her a few days, shoot her another email, or inquire about "booking" another appointment. You''ll most likely get your answer then.
Like others have been saying, perhaps she is just a busy lady. I always try to make a point of responding to all emails within 24 hours, but sometimes I just can't get to it all! And in the same vein, I've had gentlemen request appointments and then respond to my reply a week later.
While there are plenty of lovely ladies to choose from wherever you are, I find persistence more endearing than anything.
Some ladies I know are super sweet, very, very awesome, and super busy. I mean, even I get lost in emails, so I think the well-known providers must be even more swamped. So I wouldn't assume from one non-reply that she doesn't want to see you again.