That is unfortunate but it happens. To this point I never walked away from a provider who false advertised. I have been fairly fortunate that when providers post inaccurate photos they are similar enough to the pix that I do not walk away. I have not shown up for a date after seeing the provider walk outside after noticing the pix shaved off a couple 100lbs but once I am in the room I can usually find something about the provider attractive, whether its their face, breasts, ass etc... But there is nothing to be ashamed of by walking out on a provider who false advertises. In fact I do not blame them. Many of them just want to be discreet. Afterall, they have families as well.
Was out of town recently and scheduled an appointment with a provider. I had just hopped out of the shower so I left the door cracked while I was drying off in the bathroom. The gift was also left out which she picked up. Long story short when I walk out of the bathroom it was obvious she was much much older than she said she was. I don't mind mature providers at all, but you can tell she hadn't been taking tare of herself, and most likely had some sort of addiction. She was just really rough around the edges.
I told her that I didn't want to do the session. She asked why and I said because your pics are either someone else or they were taken about fifteen years ago. I honestly was not attracted to her at all. I said she could keep half the gift. She said I'm keeping all of it and left angrily.
Was I wrong to ask for half of it back? What is the appropriate etiquette if you have zero desire to be intimate with what walks through that door. Are you entitled to pay the full hour anyway? Do ladies turn down clients too?
Next time don't leave the money out and just be ready for her before hand. Could have turned her away before any of it even happened. False advertising is false advertising. Not gonna pay for some one whose a liar.
Evidently, this was an outcall to your hotel room. You need to create several layers of verification before settling down to the provider of your choice. Do your research here on the TER and so forth ahead of time. You were ripped off, my friend.
But let's assume all of this was on short notice and you're flying by the seat of your pants. You really have no idea if the provider heading to your hotel room is the girl in the photos and you hear the knock. Here's what you do: crack the door open and check her out to see if it's her, an older version of her, or a flat out bait and switch. If it's not her and she is not commensurate with the photos, tell her she has wrong room and shut/lock the door. Don't call the authorities, let her bang on it, she will eventually tire and leave. Her reward for attempting to rip you off.
I hit enter by mistake with my last post.
Are you kidding me?!?! Etiquette? When it is obvious deception, bait and switch, and simply overall bullshit. Etiquette goes out the window. You fucked up with the whole inattentive approach to the start of the session.
Most who have been around awhile know that air-brushing; bait and switch and all manner of deceptive advertising is par for the course in this game...EVEN WITH HIGHLY REVIEWED: so called WELL RESPECTED; ALL 10s receiving ladies. Hell, I was with one VERY POPULAR ""VIP" provider. She looked nothing like Ad PICs!! PICs were at least 10 years old OR, she had hard times over the last couple of years. And yes, I walked!! Some PICs are not even of the lady but a close facsimile. On the rare occasion where the live version is better looking than the fake PICs...I stay.
Etiquette? Are you serious. The only etiquette is that she NOT get paid!!
I am actually okay with that...but she was clearly not who she said she was....Next time I will just save my money for best local gal and not bother when on the road.
lol, just kidding. But really what a downer. I shop a lot on EBay, and when I see something pretty and shiny in a pic, and I buy it, it better be exactly as advertised. If not, I am soooooo ticked off and I want my money back! Dammit.
When it comes to paying for it, you are going by the picture. If it truly isn't the girl in the pictures, you have every right to turn around and leave. You can also tell the girl why? Maybe if she hears it enough she will get the clue.
You were kind to let her jave half of the donation. Really she was ripping you off. What she did really sucked. You definitely don't want to have anyone in tears but, come on, she must know she doesn't look like the pictures anymore. Girls that do that generally think, oh well once there what can he do?
Good for you for speaking up, and shame on her.
That is unfortunate but it happens. To this point I never walked away from a provider who false advertised. I have been fairly fortunate that when providers post inaccurate photos they are similar enough to the pix that I do not walk away. I have not shown up for a date after seeing the provider walk outside after noticing the pix shaved off a couple 100lbs but once I am in the room I can usually find something about the provider attractive, whether its their face, breasts, ass etc... But there is nothing to be ashamed of by walking out on a provider who false advertises. In fact I do not blame them. Many of them just want to be discreet. Afterall, they have families as well.