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I was sitting on an outdoor patio at a restaurant in the 14th/U Street area with a civvie date and a provider I have seen twice (and thought I was on very good terms with) walks down the street. She sees me, walks up, and says, leaning on the railing, "I hope to see you soon in the usual place." And walks away. I was totally stunned, did not have much to say in response. Just was, and looked (I am sure), confused.
I think everybody knows not to do that, and I feel stupid having to say it, but ... DON'T DO THAT! This is not going to make me want to see you again -- and you know who you are.
I almost nominated this person for the recent "brainiest provider" thread and now am kind of happy that I never got around to it.
Geez, this "hobby/lifestyle" is a strange slice of the world!
PS -- my date was unimpressed/unmoved by the whole episode. We had a very nice night
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Yes, yes we are.....
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Not very smart now is she. I wonder if she thought you were with another provider and got jealous. How foolish of her. No excuse for her to EVER do such a thing.
I am going to take the opposite route. If you are going to do something in life that maybe just possibly you are ashamed of you better be prepared for occasions just like this where someone is going to say or do something embarrassing at just the wrong time and place. If you can not accept the idea that something like this could happen you should not be doing it!!!
I was wondering when Captain Obvious of the Fuckboard police was going to show-up! Yet another fun-sucker.
More like Captain Stupid if you ask me.
As I am sure somebody must have already said, discretion is part of what we are paying for.
I think the OP should return the favor and name names.
If a married man or attached man is having an affair, then yes; you have to be ready for the consequences; however, this exact sort of thing is the reason for paying hundreds of dollars to a professional. Secrecy and privacy are and should be part of the package when you paying for a service like this.
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Nobody should ever have sex with anybody at all, lest their partner(s) reveal something embarrassing about their naked body or sexual proclivities in public. Or just accept it as normal if a partner does do that, because you opened yourself to the possibility by having sex? Fascinating stance, if hard to believe...
are you saying that if i am your wife and we tried a gang bang bukkake that i could bring it up at the dinner table before your gramma says christmas grace?
ok, maybe that is stretching it, but really... some things in life are appropriate for some people and places and others aren't. have you ever heard of this word:
boundaries
?
If that happened to her I don't see how she could NOT be mortified if you did that in front of her civvie date. That is bad bad bad
I think everybody knows not to do that, and I feel stupid having to say it, but ... DON'T DO THAT! This is not going to make me want to see you again -- and you know who you are.
I almost nominated this person for the recent "brainiest provider" thread and now am kind of happy that I never got around to it.
Geez, this "hobby/lifestyle" is a strange slice of the world!
PS -- my date was unimpressed/unmoved by the whole episode. We had a very nice night.
One time a provider called my name out in DC at major transportation center. When you do them good with the sex they can't contain their emotions. I booked a session with her week later and had an incredible session.
She probably forget the setting she was in.
sounds like she owes you a freebie!