As has been discussed before in other threads. Here are a few divisions I have read about and/or experienced:
1) Age
2) Race
3) Body type / shape / health
4) Type of reviews written / scoring
5) Type of provider previously seen and/or services performed
6) Price range
Any of these can alter one's chances for the opportunity to meet someone here.
Just wondering if this has ever happened to anyone else here. There is a curtain someone that I have wanted to see for a long time. But I just feel that she is out of my league. So I have never pursued it. Any advice would help.
As has been discussed before in other threads. Here are a few divisions I have read about and/or experienced:
1) Age
2) Race
3) Body type / shape / health
4) Type of reviews written / scoring
5) Type of provider previously seen and/or services performed
6) Price range
Any of these can alter one's chances for the opportunity to meet someone here.
Just my observations over the past few years
At first I was going to say something along the lines 'pay for play', its all bout the green, etc, but I hear where you're coming from as I had that feeling when I first started in the hobby. If you show up squeaky clean, teeth freshly brushed and flossed, you'll be fine.
Lobbying has taught me a lot and actually helped IRL. If you never shoot, you'll never score.
You'll find being with somebody way out of your league is a real adrenalin rush IMHO.
Guarddog took the words right out of my mouth (or off my keyboard.) You gotta take a shot with this lady. Don't watch others live "The Life," get in the game!
Be confident when you meet her. Try not to be intimidated. Go in with the attitude you are just there to have fun.
Listen to Guarddog when he says be recenty showered, have fresh breath, and dress approximately for the rendezvous.
And try not to categorize the ladies you see in this business. Don't put them on too high a pedestal (until after you actually meet them and find out they deserve it,) and don't look down on any of them at all either. Be polite and treat them all with kindness. Most importantly, treat them with respect and it will pay dividends -- and because it is the right thing to do.
Best of luck, and be sure to.share a review of the experience with the rest of us!
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If you're are anything like me, there are several ladies that are out of my price range.
So hop to it if you want to see her so badly. Then again, if you feel you may get too nervous and have performance anxiety, them maybe let it be. What's likely to happen if you proceed is that you may feel a little let down since you've built her up so much in your imagination.
No I haven't ever wanted to see somone so bad, there were two providers that I wanted to see, but they won't see me.
Last week I tried to see a different provider, that was also unsuccessful.
Nothing I can do about that, so?
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I tried contacting her yesterday but no response yet. Thanks for all the advice.
Been there, done that. Long ago in a time when I first got in the hobby I experienced the same thing. The provider in her Ads and her PICs was like wow!! An 11 on a scale of 10. When I met her live that shit went to a fucking 15! WTF, this women was the total package, for the P4P world. With that, she had me intimidated and I always had performance anxiety when with her. We saw each other over a 10 year period before she retired. I didn't get over the performance anxiety thing till say, year 8. And it was an open discussion item with us. She would always try and do whatever she could to relax me. But she just had that thing over me. Never experienced that before in civi or hobby life till her.
Long story short......manage your expectations. It can also work the other way. You get in her presence and you're like, " she ain't all that" and now you have buyers remorse.
As another posted noted, and it's very appropriate and on point....paying her rate puts you in her league. It's just like civi world; you see some rich and/or celebrity type with the most exquisite eye candy on their arm and we all know if dude was a sanitation worker she would not give him the time of day or shit off her shoe.
She has never responded back to me. Going out of town this week. So hopefully week after.
Thanks
specifies on her website profile than worry about her looks or being out of your league.
i have seen pics on ads that I was immediately attracted to but after reading her profile found she prefers for ex, CEO types so I just move on. Some higher priced ladies (and usually those are closer to model types looks wise) really want clients that spend more. i.e. dinner dates, overnights so you might not even get a chance if you're budget minded.
Also, remember that if you met her, and magically married her you'd get tired of fucking her within 10 years.lol
