DC is so interesting. There is no continuity in this market, how can there be when there are a lot of great local and visiting ladies! There is always a "promise" of return visits, some returns from great clients come maybe once a month to every other month since he probably has 3-5 ATF's he is simultaneously seeing. Frequent, but not frequent enough for any lady to pay her bills. LOL!
There are always outliers at any price point, and some ladies are more willing to work with you once they get to know you and your pattern of hobbying. I think most ladies here would agree, see us at our current rate, and if the chemistry and rapport is established, let your needs be known and then let her decide if she can work with you. It is not in your best hobby interest to offer her a lower rate and an empty promise. Disaster.
If you like to chase, generally some guys like SB/SD dates because they get more for less, ideally.
Personally, I have no issue with arrangements, but I cater toward exclusivity. There are guys I offer special rates to, less than what is listed or a customized package, but it is clearly on a case by case basis and at my discretion. Good luck!
That happens ALL the time. I know other providers and they had regulars. When I was working a lot more, I had 3 or 4 weekly regulars. What was great about it is I was pretty much set for the week, and I was crazy about them. You get to know them really well. The hard part is you do bond a bit, and you have to tell yourself after every appt. that it could be the last one and don't set up expectations for yourself (as a provider) on the income stream or even the friendship that inevitably develops.
As a provider, I found the challenge was -- how do I keep this interesting? There are superficial ways, like different hairstyles and outfits, and glasses one day and no glasses the next time, different moods. I used to do some fun stuff, just to surprise them. I used to move the bed around the room so it was in different, unexpected places. Or I added lights or something. It kept me on my toes, trying to come up with stuff 
However, I thought the sessions were really special. One aspect that I think made it special was their attitude about the hobby. They were generous with themselves. Feeling good was important to them. They made time in their schedule for it. Because of this, they were also generous in their spirits, and to me. Really kind. I still think about those guys.
You can't take it for granted he'll come back. One guy I saw once a week -- and *poof* one day he was just gone. It stung a bit, but I got over it. And of course, he will see others (some said they saw only me, but who knows? I just considered it pillow talk), so you have to be thick-skinned about that. The first year, I know I had to get used to that. Everything happens in the appt., don't color outside the lines Really not that hard to do, though. It just takes practice and determination. The boundaries keep things clean and keep people from getting hurt.
The rate was always the same. I think there was extra time and sandwiches thrown in
It's always flattering to have a repeat client. It does make me try a little harder to please them.
I always write a book, don't I? You should go for it! But I agree, find a woman you click with first, and then just keep making those weekly appts. Nothing really has to be said, formal-like.
Posted By: Imperatio
... setting up an arrangement with a local provider to blow off some steam on a weekly/biweekly basis (not FS)?
Does this longer-term type thing exist, or is it just wishful thinking on my part?
And if so, my PM is open to suggestions/recommendations!
