Sex is easy. I can shut my eyes and have sex with anybody I want. But, if I can get that intense sexual chemistry with a lady, wow. Sometimes its real, sometimes she's really good at what she does and knows the best sex organ is the brain.
Just wanted to get some opinions, how do you guys score Chemistry?
If you have a date with a lady and she checks the boxes, and does what she is supposed to do; however, you didn't really enjoy how she did what she did, and the Chemistry just wasn't there. For instance you like GFE and she is delivering a scene form a porn movie, or visa versa.
Do you score performance based on the boxes?
Do you slightly lower the score because the chemistry wasn't there?
Do score the chemistry of the date and ignore the boxes?
Thanks in advance for your feedback.
Excellent question, Charlie. But as they say in mathematics, the boxes are a "necessary but not sufficient condition." It's easy to find a lady who checks all of the boxes. Finding one that checks them with beauty, style, intelligence, humor, and compatibility--that is priceless! When you find one like this, she quickly becomes an ATF.
If she really gave it 100%, I don't think her scores should be docked just because it wasn't totally working for you. The point of reviews is to try to give others an idea of what to expect, and it's impossible for her to have real chemistry with everyone, so going on about any special connection you may have had can put undue pressure on the average appointment.
For me, chemistry affects scores in both boxes. All within reason.
Having chemistry move the needle in Performance seems intuitive, at least to me. While TER provides more criteria here based on what's offered, it's not formulaic to the point of automatic scoring. Activities make a lady eligible; chemistry is often part of what converts eligibility. Just look at any ladies outlier scores (low or high) and I bet chemistry is a frequent driver.
The Appearance/looks ranking is subjective. I often find that when I'm leaving a date with great chemistry, I'm thinking the lady is even more attractive/beautiful then when I walked in the door. And I let that influence my subjectivity in appearance scoring.
Sex is easy. I can shut my eyes and have sex with anybody I want. But, if I can get that intense sexual chemistry with a lady, wow. Sometimes its real, sometimes she's really good at what she does and knows the best sex organ is the brain.