3) she's just not attracted to black men
I've recently seen a lot of ads from providers saying either no AA or no AA men under 40. While i UNDERSTAND and RESPECT a provider's choice to who they see...this one has me a little puzzled. Several providers have said it's due to safety or AA men in the DC area play a lot of games/no shows. Well, this may be true, but so do other races. I'm an AA man, college educated, own my own business, work a full-time, and a couple times a month a may enjoy my hobby. Not that i care to see this providers or their preference of clientele, but blatant stereotyping is corny in all areas of life. Some of the providers with these "preferences" definitely are not worth their requested donation based on looks, past reviews, and lack of interest in the job they've chosen. I've read tons of articles where white professional me and hispanic men have treated providers badly. All in all i respect those providers choice.. I won't see them, but does this type of stereotyping hurt the hobby or are there so many providers/hobbyist that it doesn't matter?
To me this is just very interesting and i'd love to hear others thoughts on this topic.
on other sites this topic is a sticky along with bbfs conversation because it aaaaalways comes up.
you won't see them, which is great.. because they won't see you.
why lose any sleep over it?
like a guy who says he wants a blonde college girl with fake boobies, good for him. let him have his fun.
there are a gazillion reasons why he would want that
1) mommy issues
2) sick in the head
3) just a perv who has a specific type..
there are a gazillion reasons why a lady would say no aa
1) she has an aa boyfriend so thats just off limits
2) she had a bad encounter and now has some type of ptsd from it
3) she's just not attracted to black men
whatever her reasons are, oh well... more for me and the other ladies who welcome you and all men of color, yellow, brown, black, green aliens, purple dinosaurs, whatever. 
xo
3) she's just not attracted to black men
So everyone else is the same in a providers eyes? Last time i checked there are differences between white, asian, Mexican. Law of averages says the dice should show other racial preferences and even physical preferences. But when dice are loaded..Guess it changes, lol
But provider bias is a deal for me because it represents the raw & non pc undercurrent of society and constantly explains why unarmed blacks get killed like Freddie Gray!!! why driving while black exists. Why stop and frisky only targets blacks. Blacks are painted evil and whites can fall back on mental illness when they do comit crimes in a lot of cases.
you can't speak for 100% of woman.
there could be one lady in the world who just isn't attracted to black men.
who knows, maybe 5% of the no aa ladies screen then don't see asian men.
who knows, maybe 4% of the no aa ladies screen then down see men taker than 5'9".
who knows, maybe 9% of the no aa ladies just want less people calling her so she just picks out a demographic.
who knows.
there is provider bias over maaaaaaaany things! if a lady does a google search on a gent and finds his Facebook and his photos are him posing with guns, she may pass. she may put him to the top of her list if she's in to hunting. if she searches and his job happens to be against womans rights, she may pass on him.
there is provider preference, just like there is hobbyist preference.
i would prefer a lady to just say in an ad, "i don't see men who wear jeans" instead of wasting my time only to find out that she will turn me away when i show up in jeans. its a womans body and its a womans right.
I'm just going to ignore the rest of your second paragraph because there is a politics board reserved for all of that. plus I'm not really in to black and white (pun intended) thinking.
have a good day
xo
That way I will know the facts.
The majority of time when I hear about a murder that is domestic related. The people involved, especially the male half. Happen to be first generation Americans(recent immigrants).
So everyone else is the same in a providers eyes? Last time i checked there are differences between white, asian, Mexican. Law of averages says the dice should show other racial preferences and even physical preferences. But when dice are loaded..Guess it changes, lol
But provider bias is a deal for me because it represents the raw & non pc undercurrent of society and constantly explains why unarmed blacks get killed like Freddie Gray!!! why driving while black exists. Why stop and frisky only targets blacks. Blacks are painted evil and whites can fall back on mental illness when they do comit crimes in a lot of cases.
You're tying to tell a provider who they can and can't be attracted to?
In general, I'm not attracted to black women, unless they have certain features or are lighter skinned. Yet I'm attracted to white, Latina, and Asian women. Yes, it's possible. Sue me!
And you better fucking believe there are black women and men out there that simply aren't attracted to Asians or Caucasians.
Get over it!!!
I am just fine with ladies who do that. It just means more for me
Doesn't help you at all, I realize, lol!
If I were to analyze this topic on a large scale, I'd simply say that racism, discrimination, and foolishness will never fully disappear. Our society is littered with uneducated, misinformed, judgmental people who develop opinions and preferences based on stereotypes and what they see in the media.
A few other points come to mind:
We (humans) always have the right to choose, and everyone is allowed to "like what they like." Though men select escorts to see, women also select who they see.
I don't personally find it acceptable to write "I don't see AA men" on a website (or anywhere). Not only is that politically incorrect, it's rather mean. I'm not sure that providers acknowledge this, so it may be out of ignorance, and that's a shame. It's unfortunate, but many people were not raised to respect people that are different than them.
My thoughts overall: In life, anyone who kicks you to the curb did you a favor. If someone isn't willing to take the time to get to know you, they aren't the type of person you want to have around anyway (let alone pay). I'd take it as a blessing in disguise and keep on rockin' and rollin'
Posted an article on this issue. It was an interesting read. I don't know the percentages, but its a business decision not necessarily based on race per say. More why you see it on BP than higher end providers (P411, DateCheck, etc.).
Anyway, beating a dead horse with a jackhammer here.
Pony up for quality women, there are plenty that post on this board
I do and have...lol. again just dialogue. Do you guys read. Lol. Some of the high end providers are also on BP. Again, new to
TER not the game
Some people can't see what's in front of them.
and non-quality women.
Kudos for making me laugh, much needed after ANOTHER one of these threads
So we can understand what is going on?
White dude can deliver pizzas and work on his GED and not think twice about getting turned away. You are using your status to obtain a good/service...this ain't a job interview or potential client where you need to prove something.
Have cash, be clean, & common decency is the only requirements.
do you think being negative will prove points? make change?
don't you want positive change?
as a female, especially a female sex worker, i get looked down on all of the time.
i have tattoos and i will have older generation people comment about them, "Why did you do to that your body?"
i just reply, "because i like them! (with a smile)... " then i add, "i have no duis, i have no criminal record, i went to college.. the government doesn't fund my life, i don't do drugs, there are way more important things to worry about then tattoos."
having people see your side instead of why youre so angry... (i.e. "because i feel like it, who are you?") works way better in the long run.
xx
. . . having the government fund her life when necessary. That's what part of your tax is for
"I don't mooch off of the government.. "
Better? 
I said "not fund my life" your comparison was to help when in a bind. Two totally different things.
Did you totally miss my point?
The point is that when we want someone to look at us in a better light then we can show them why not make excuses why others can be "equally bad."
xx
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He's that way because he's a racist himself. Needs to look in the mirror.
I wasnt going to reply but its funny how tough gentlemen are over the net. My reason for posting was just to get folks thiughts. I dont care if a provider doesnt like or want yo see blk men. Its for dialogue purposes. One would think you were more intelligent. But if you ever really wanna talk crazy face to face....ill be more than happy to give you my bumber to meet somewhere for this conversation to take place. Have a great day and be safe.
Do you realize how silly your reply is?
You made a comment about tough guys on the Internet, then you turned in to one.
You're going to let the silly comment of a stranger get to you that you threaten them?
Cmon... That's just silly.
Open dialogue is shut when one starts cussing and threatening.
xx
The no AA thing is just ridiculous to me especially when blk girls post no AA. Mostly I see it from Latin white or Asian girls. At 1st I thought it was racist however recently I seen two girls that did a bait n switch on me so I said I'll give you half for a body rub since your not the girl in the pictures and the other girl in the room said "that's why I don't see blk men cause there cheap" crazy enough they both date blk men.. Still it feels bad to be generalized like we always are. Yeah I'm blk n I like white girls I'm not cheap but one bad apple I guess.. I tend to see white girls in other cities they usually don't post no AA.. Needless to say some post it cause they think we're all cheap we all play games they don't want to have sex with a blk guy or their just racist point blank fuck em..
I saw this a very attractive brunette, amazing body gorgeous eyes. I'm not certain of her nationality but she could have easily pass for latin or indian. During the whole session she kept her knee highs and bra on, any exposure of skin I was not allow to touch. She would only perform mish, and if I had any thoughts of getting a view of her ass it would have to be from her lame attempt to turn slightly to the side. She would not get on all four even for viewing.
I knew with such stringent rules it wasn't going to happen and decided to call in the towel As I was getting dress a made a comment that this is what happens when I don't do my research. She of course took offense and responded this is why most providers don't see black men. I responded I'm sure they may have their reason but seriously doubt calmly expressing their lack of research is one of them. In general the few women that I have seen on BP (Black Prohibited) have very negative views of black men and tend to blame black men for every negative element associated with this hobby.
Damn near 80% of the ad's posted on BP refuses to see AA. My suggestion if you're AA look elsewhere.
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The indisputable fact is that a far higher percentage of black men do bad things than the percentages of any other race (as a percent of their total population). 8 times higher, as in 800% of the rate of all other races combined.
They have STD's more, they commit violent crime more, they get in vehicular collisions more.
According to the reportage of black pimps in a large government study on trafficking, they also are more likely to try to skip or steal back payment, try to steal the girl/ be her pimp, attack the girl, or cause other problems, such that black pimps typically don't allow their hookers to see blacks.
Also, most pimps are black.
Why was Freddie Gray killed by Black Police, under a Black Police Chief, under a Black Mayor? Because, just as the piled hi bodies of blacks killed by other blacks since the police backed off in Baltimore shows, most of the trouble makers these cops, black and white, deal with are black. In 68% black Baltimore, one would expect over 95% of all crime to be committed by blacks.
Shout all you want, cry Racism! all you want, try to get the government to force people to do what you want, but as long as that is the case, people will react accordingly. Very vulnerable people, like hookers, outside police help, will act to protect themselves first, and to uphold ideals that endanger them less often.
Is this asshole serious! blk ppl are in about 20 states out of the 50 something and we're just the worst thing that ever happened to America fuck outta here.. I'm done
They have STD's more, they commit violent crime more, they get in vehicular collisions more.
According to the reportage of black pimps in a large government study on trafficking, they also are more likely to try to skip or steal back payment, try to steal the girl/ be her pimp, attack the girl, or cause other problems, such that black pimps typically don't allow their hookers to see blacks.
Also, most pimps are black.
Why was Freddie Gray killed by Black Police, under a Black Police Chief, under a Black Mayor? Because, just as the piled hi bodies of blacks killed by other blacks since the police backed off in Baltimore shows, most of the trouble makers these cops, black and white, deal with are black. In 68% black Baltimore, one would expect over 95% of all crime to be committed by blacks.
Shout all you want, cry Racism! all you want, try to get the government to force people to do what you want, but as long as that is the case, people will react accordingly. Very vulnerable people, like hookers, outside police help, will act to protect themselves first, and to uphold ideals that endanger them less often.
....'no black guys', 'NBA', 'no AA', 'no African Americans' ..... go back about oh a few years and you'll see this has been discussed out the ass.
Seems like an every other month thing almost.
**equal opportunity peen lover out**
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I assume they mean Black Men, but I doubt if who ever places these ads would want to deal with white gangbangers or thugs either.
Most of the ladies I've seen, or requested appointments with who do screen, have asked me to disclose my race before.
There is a webpage page out there calling on all guys to boycott providers because of the NBA policies. It seems to be having an impact because many that were posting NBA are now posting respectable men now. That is a big improve from 3 months ago. Happy hobbying.
Maybe because I'm an independent hobbyist. I only boycott the ladies I'm not interested in.
I also think only the most insecure of people would take personal offense to a female posting the phrase in her ad
I also think only the most insecure of people would take personal offense to a female posting the phrase in her ad.
It's not about insecurity in yourself, it's about seeing yet another situation where you are discriminated against for the colour of your skin. Now, in the grand scheme of things this is clearly way down the list of the injustices AAs face on a regular basis, but diminishing those injustices is just as much of a crime.
Black issues are of no concern to me, especially regarding illegal activities. I don't say this to be mean. I only say this, because I only care about issues that do not affect me.
There are plenty of people out there, mostly black who do things that actually help black people where it actually matters, not here in the hobby world. Not that it makes me a champion on race relations, I will visit with any race of provider I find attractive, so I can honestly say I do not discriminate.
as the pop song goes... "We(I) don't give no fucks... yeah"
Hey, many ladies think I'm a cop because I'm white.
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To the people who might be interested in what some one who doesn't care, thinks.
I also assume that black men, are not the one's who post these threADs.
The simple none PC solution to this "issue" would be to have a...
"No niggers allowed" tag line, as I'm sure respectable black men do not view themselves as such.
I'm not sure what exactly you're asking, especially since you already admit in the first line that you understand that it's their choice. They don't owe you an explanation. It's just one of those things. Providers who discriminate on the basis of race are typically not very successful, because it leaves a bad taste in your mouth. But there's plenty of room in the market for it, I don't think it hurts a thing, other than making you guys frustrated. I don't see guys under 25. Does that piss off young men who wish to see me? Yes. But doing so makes me uncomfortable. That's my call, not theirs.
I haven't been approached by an AA man in YEARS. Uber depressing. The big penis stereotype is true, IMO. COME TO ME, MY PRETTIES.