And of course, you would be well advised to avoid any provider you hear of that offers it as well as to take leave or any provider who offers it to you.
On the subject of tipping, there is a big variation of opinion on this subject.
I do tip, when I felt that the service was beyond average, just as I do at a restaurant or where ever I meet someone who offers services of a similar type.
I think it works, almost all providers are clear that it is up to you, but what else would a person say?
Bottom line is you have to decide for yourself.
I read where providers have unprotected sex. Doesn't this worry you guys about disease? Even if a provider has protected intercourse but offers unprotected oral, there is a risk to us men. Especially us men that like to go downtown.
ALSO- what are the general rules on tipping. If you are paying a nice chunk o'change to begin with are tips expected?
Loking forward to hearing responses!
Thanks!
I have been a hobbyist for 10 years. NO PROVIDER, (did I make that clear enough) has ever offered to have sex with me without a condom. EVER. I have no clue where you have read your information, but I can guarantee there is no TER member who would consider having intercourse with a provider without the use of a condom and there is certainly no provider who values her life that would ever offer sex to a client without having him wearing a condom. You are SERIOUSLY misguided. Could you find some desperate crack whore on the street corner at 3:00AM who needs cash and will fuck you without a condom? I suppose you could, but then you are the fucking idiot for going there. Obviously, in this day in age with STD's a condom is a must. Period. End of discussion.
In terms of oral sex, yes there is a risk to both hobbyists and providers, depending if there are any open sores on tongues, cocks, vaginal area, etc. Eat pussy and have your cock sucked at your own risk (albeit a very minimal one)
With respect to tipping, it’s a complete waste of money. I NEVER tip as the price paid to the provider should be enough to cover all her expenses/overhead as well as giving her a necessary profit. If it's not, she should charge more. You had a great time and want to show your appreciation to a provider? Go visit her again and re-pay her hourly rate.
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You are so full of crap your eyes must be brown....and that coming from you is joke. I think you're being facetious (sp).
And of course, you would be well advised to avoid any provider you hear of that offers it as well as to take leave or any provider who offers it to you.
On the subject of tipping, there is a big variation of opinion on this subject.
I do tip, when I felt that the service was beyond average, just as I do at a restaurant or where ever I meet someone who offers services of a similar type.
I think it works, almost all providers are clear that it is up to you, but what else would a person say?
Bottom line is you have to decide for yourself.
I just read a review where BBFS was mentioned. I'm not posting the link in case it's a fake review, but I can see how a newbie might read it and wonder how often that sort of thing happens.
It DOES happen. I don't think it is common, but it certainly is not unheard of, even on TER...
I agree with you on that Mr. Fisher, tipping on anything is just a matter of preference good comment! 
I do have a question here about reviews. I am a newbie here and don't have any reviews yet, so that would mean I'm LE when clients look to see if I have any reviews, which I don't have yet? Newbies have to start somewhere with no reviews I understand that but what do we (providers)then? Thanks!
(link removed by moderator, sorry)
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