Can't even get responses to messages.... What's the point?
I am wondering if anybody has experience with websites similar to Ashley Madison? AM seems like an expensive and exhaustive process not to mention filled with scams.
Anybody had success on AM?
Or are there maybe other, better websites, maybe local, where women want to get laid? Or am I fooling myself?
I am in my early 30s, fit, smart and good looking. So I assume there must be some slightly older, or who knows even young women, who would be up for a fling once in a while.
I could easily meet a 20 or 30 something through dating websites or at a bar, but would have to do a lot of lying and sneaking around with significant other.
Any suggestions, comments?
I could also break up with my girl but...
I personally did not care for it. Kinda a waste of time in my opinion. Not many cool pop there...
I signed up with AM at about the time that I needed to cut back financially, so I did not pursue any women. But I had 3 negative impressions:
1. A surprising number of women on AM were looking for money. They were effectively SBs or semi-pros.
2. Communicating with women costs money on AM.
3. After signing up with AM, I began to get about 4 SPAM messages per day from non-reputable sites. I find this very disturbing.
Can't even get responses to messages.... What's the point?
fake profiles and emails. Better to joint SA and play with SB; some of which are your girls thinking they are not escorts, but just being Sb to pay for college , clothes etc...but there are some providers who act like SBs. Just search TER for SB topics, as they are many.
Off AM. Ok total of 3. I have gone there to check it out and for my personal NSA's. I am not sure your demographic would get a lot of attention, you are young! I have shopped on AM for men that are older, more settled, and probably have had a lot of affairs so it was really about fun and not much emotional bond and feeling and getting caught or caught up!
I am not sure of the ladies on there, may be some lonely cougars around, but there are also scams and ladies posing as poor excuses for escorts- why go through all that when you can just shop here? Easy Peasy.
Also, what I have recently noticed is the private swing scene is great for a single guy and fairly cheap, but YMMV on getting into a group and the level of hot ladies to bang, but at least the ladies want to bang! Lol!
AM could work, but you'd have to put in time and effort and money and deal with a lot of BS... Good luck!
women often say:"yeah sure no strings attached and this is just fun honey"….
Then you have sex a view times and guess what….
she wants more & drama starts! See it all the time happening with friends.
I suggest you keep paying!
Sorry just being honest and trying to help
Serena x
