I would second this response. My ATF has departed, and while it was wonderful while it lasted, the void is difficult to fill. I am definitely always drawn to honesty and the connection. Neither can be faked.
When you see a lady more than once, does it grow on you? How frequently works for you? Do you get closer to her? Or do you find that she has only a couple of acts, and do you get bored?
(Obviously, it will depend on the lady, and your connection with her. I am just curious about folks experiences.
Depends on what kind of gentleman you are. Some prefer 31 flavors and some just need a few good girls. Some girls take clients for granted. Some have limited routines that could get boring while others are well practiced in keeping it interesting. Some will stay at the same level of intimacy while others will become more open with time.
Personally, I prefer to see regular clients. At this point in my career I see very few new clients. I do things like bring my massage table every other week. Keep my availability limited to part time as to not get burned out. I keep my lingerie supply new and interesting. I have several different talents and try to switch it up each time (unless he likes the same thing). I also open up and become more generous with my activities and time as I start to trust guys. With established repeat clients, I could spend hours over a session talking, going to dinner or having and adventure out.
I have been hearing so many guys talking about bait and switch girls and robs happening, I wonder why some guys find a good girl and then go back on the prowl. I tend to gravitate more towards guys who are more interested in intimacy, friendship and long term relationships. The funny thing is that so many people believe men cheat or see providers for a variety... but truth be told, many want the exact same thing over and over. Its all about getting into his mind and his fantasy. Once you do that a man will always return!
In my case you're only half right. I do have a regular CF I see pretty much once a week for the last 6+ months for the reasons you stated: intimacy, friendship and long-term relationship. Plus she gives me a GREAT deal.
However I still want variety so to break to monotony every so often I also see a new girl. As an added bonus it reminds me to appreciate my regular CF.
There's nothing to keep one from having the cake and eat it too!
If she is local as I find the first time comes with a bundle of nerves on both your part and familiarity relaxes both but.
I have one lady that I have seen almost 10 times because she has that it factor to me.
The connection is great, we laugh and play and she gives a true GFE experience which is what I crave as well as is truly hot.
I doubt or at least doubt boredom will ever be a factor, at least not to me, because she makes every visit different in some way or another.
Yes, I have one girl I have seen close if not more then 10 times.
She just knows what I like and how I like it. She makes every session new, different, and better then the last as well as can keep up in a conversation.
Throughout my hobby lifetime the magic number has always been three. There are many many ladies I've seen once. There are many ladies I've seen twice. There are a number of ladies I've seen three times. But if I see a lady beyond that third time, the number goes up exponentially.
A far as closeness, each lady is different. Some ladies let you get closer, and some ladies keep things on a very professional level. Obviously, the ones with whom one is closest gets the most visits. It also depends on wishes, desires, timing, and location.
The one thing you have to remember though, no matter how close you get to a lady, nor how many times you've seen her over the years, you're relationship is always going to end. But not from boredom. Sex is never boring
I would second this response. My ATF has departed, and while it was wonderful while it lasted, the void is difficult to fill. I am definitely always drawn to honesty and the connection. Neither can be faked.
I do understand that you may be constrained for business reasons. But to the extent you feel you can reply, I would be interested!
I have to be very impressed and ready to have her grow on me FIRST -that is right after the first date, before I decide to see her again.
"Hobby" a regular activity that is done for pleasure, typically during one's leisure time. That's the thing we all do here in our dream, fantasy fulfilling world, IMHO I don't understand why do you have to put a limit on yourself to certain number. If you met someone with mutual feelings respecting each other status and privacy that you have the greatest experience of your life every time you meet, why the fuck you constraint yourself being with her as long as you both wants. Sometime I like to play golf on the same golf course, or fish on the same lake over and over because I love it. It's a freaking hobby you have to love doing it, otherwise if you're thinking about numbers all the freakin time, you've lost the essence of hobbying, go find yourself something else to do....
Many I see are one & done with a mix of a few I will repeat with.
There is a few CFs that I see & repeat with often.
It doesn't get boring for me.
My number one girl know exactly what I like & how to take care of me well.
Have established a personal connection with her & she is very open with me.
I use to see her weekly but now 1-2 times a month as I mix in seeing others.
I think if you see the same girl every week it may get old but with me mixing it up & going to see her a few time monthly it makes the session better & I realize why she keeps me coming back for more.
Damn I luv that little spinner!