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I am in this hobby precisely to avoid that.
I'm currently restructuring my business to cater very specifically to this type of session/relationship, as I've found that it's where my best talents lie, and also it's by far the most fun for me 
I prefer getting to know someone over days or weeks, as opposed to short little snatches of time together where one is expected to fit in everything and the kitchen sink!
I have a fantasy idea that I wonder if anyone on here has tried. Basically, it would be a kind of very slow burn, carried out over multiple sessions. It would be expensive, and one would have to pick the right person, but (in my fantasy, at least) it could be cool.
The background is that in ordinary relationships a lot of the enjoyment comes from delayed gratification; there is time to fantasize and build up desire. But in this world, one goes from just meeting to having sex on the first meeting, and that spoils some of the fun.
So here is the idea: The first session is ... coffee. The second is ... dinner. Only on the third does one bring the lady back to one's own place (or go to hers). I also imagine spacing these by a week. What this would do is make the experience more like an actual girlfriend experience on various levels. And it would build up a heck of a lot of desire and tension!
Hey, taking it to the next level, the lady would even pretend to need to be won over by one's charm; then one would have the sense of conquest too! But that probably requires impossible acting skills.
This is probably a whimsical idea through and through. But one can dream.
-- Modified on 1/20/2015 7:07:34 PM
The background is that in ordinary relationships a lot of the enjoyment comes from delayed gratification; there is time to fantasize and build up desire. But in this world, one goes from just meeting to having sex on the first meeting, and that spoils some of the fun.
So here is the idea: The first session is ... coffee. The second is ... dinner. Only on the third does one bring the lady back to one's own place (or go to hers). I also imagine spacing these by a week. What this would do is make the experience more like an actual girlfriend experience on various levels. And it would build up a heck of a lot of desire and tension!
Hey, taking it to the next level, the lady would even pretend to need to be won over by one's charm; then one would have the sense of conquest too! But that probably requires impossible acting skills.
This is probably a whimsical idea through and through. But one can dream.
-- Modified on 1/20/2015 7:07:34 PM
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