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“According to Greek mythology, humans were originally created with four arms, four legs and a head with two faces. Fearing their power, Zeus split them into two separate parts, condemning them to spend their lives in search of their other halves
...and when one of them meets the other half, the actual half of himself, whether he be a lover of youth or a lover of another sort, the pair are lost in an amazement of love and friendship and intimacy and one will not be out of the other's sight, as I may say, even for a moment...”
Plato - The Symposium
But what do philosophers know of desire? To quote George Bataille, "Generally speaking, philosophy is at fault in being divorced from life."
However, it is impossible to deny that Platos parable seems to resonate on a cellular level. This mythic anecdote is reminiscent of asexual cellular reproduction, binary fission. The cell starts out as one and slowly divide, losing the original whole, to become two.
I'm curious to hear the consensus of the crowd on the matter. Although I do not believe in the concept of a soul mate, I do believe that our lovers bring to light aspects of ourselves that may have gone undiscovered if not for there presence... exciting stories of kinks or passion long unnoticed until someone came along and exhumed them
we change. or we are dead. so the "soul mate" exists only as a temporary illusion. I and my "soul mate may change in time.
part of that change may simply be that one sees the other better for who they are rather than for who they are wished to be. part of that may be simply that each experiences live from different POVs and so drift happens, the bond weakens. the former soul mate becomes... well... former.
I think that if there is nothing complementary about a potential lover, nothing really interesting will happen. there will be no magic, no chemistry. with only one exception, I cannot think of a past love with whom communication seems impossible. although the relationship as a lover may end, traces remain.
I find nothing to regret in the impressions left upon me by my loves. while none were "soul mates" in the classic sense, all were deeply engaging. for that I can only be thankful. nothing was wasted.
in the Greek ethos balance and harmony, the complementaries are represented by the goddesses Dike, Harmonia, and Nemesis.
Dike is a justice flavored balance represented by the constellation Libra and the balancing of opposites. Harmonia is perhaps sweet concord of finely tuned balance. Nemesis represents the balance of antagonism and revenge. so the different ways of being complementary may have rather different flavors: sweet, bitter, and savory.
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but I do believe in "fit." Sometimes people just mesh in a way that makes sex phenomenal; of the over 60 providers, and despite having great sex with almost all of them, I've only gotten to that epic "fit" with two of them, and one of them was absolutely ethereal...she still is, every chance I get. I'm not sure what Plato's stance on that would have been, but I'm sure he got down...he was Greek. 
Oh and sorry for the thread hijacking above, I'm afraid you're a civilian casualty in the well deserved flaming of a wolf in sheep's clothing.
I don’t believe in a soul mate, either, but I do believe in soul mates. Plural. Maybe this is like saying “one of my ATFs,” but I do believe we can have that complementary bond with more than one person. The catch is there’s no guarantee you’ll meet any of them. They could be half a world away from you. Or they could be right there in your own town, two or three social strata away. Or you could just meet them at the wrong time.
I was blessed to meet one.
I don’t have any exciting or kinky stories of us and this isn’t the right place for the mushy details. But that Plato thing, that fission myth (I’d forgotten I’d heard that before), of finding your lost half? Yeah, that sounds right. Makes your whole mind shake. Resonance
because you and every one on gd are comin together to mail gifts? hun i met and or have entertained half the guys on the GD so who the fuck are you talkin about?