Bingo.
Just wonder if anyone is having problems with providers cancelling. I tried to see a well know provider that I hadn't met yet. I contacted her the way she requested and scheduled an appointment. When I got near and asked for her address, she told me we would have to reschedule. OK no biggie. Mad another appointment the following week and the same thing happened. This time she texted me a sexy picture of herself and said she was sorry and would make it up to me. Okay. so now I'm a complete idiot and reschedule again. Everything was fine and she texted that she was running late and could I pick up something to drink. Now I'm a bigger idiot, I spend $30 on some booze and then nothing. I call and text several times and she finally text back that I'm not who I say I am. Nice try. WTF? Why didn't she ask for references to begin with? Oh well, live and learn.
But actions speak louder than words.
You're putting forth all the effort.
One question though, do you think you're putting something out there that is a turnoff? Your post states that she did not ask for references if I am reading correctly. Most intelligent providers require them, so if you are making her screening difficult than you deserve this.
On the other hand, if it happened just like your post, she is at fault, but I would question going back three tries,
Either way, I would stay away from this particular provider if I were you. Some will probably respond that you should put her "on blast" but that may or may not work.
No, I'm not putting her on blast. All of her other reviews were excellent. I'm just venting. She texted me today and said she is afraid of LE.. Yet, she never asked for references. I guess I should have offered.
Yes if you could PM the provider that would help.
Not sure what her thing was, so I won't speak on it since things are crazy in your area. She could have just been honest from the get-go. Sometimes we have to take the lead in the screening process, even when it is spelled out.
However you should have just given the screening stuff up to begin with. Yes, she could have asked or had put that on her website... Was it on her website?
Just learn for the future, I guess.
No, you didn't put her on blast as you didn't name her... Perhaps you were trying to figure out what went wrong on your end.
If she said "she scared of LE" to u but did not ask for references that means she most likely doesn't know about asking for provider references or proper screening and just goes off intuition. Basically shes trying vibe with you to see if she can figure out if your LE or not .
To start with , I don't think I'd book with a lady that did not follow a basic verification protocol. Especially in Atlanta. Especially in Atlanta at this time.
Doesn't make a lot of sense .
My friend , you might have dodged a bullet.
I was asked for a reference. I gave one, but saw another provider that day. Booking agent didn't get in touch with the first reference, so I gave the very recent provider. I was told that they didn't k ow that provider, and could only accept a P411 provider. I informed them that she was on P411. Oh OK. I asked for an appointment for the next day, and was asked to confirm in the morning. I tried to confirm that next morning, but was told to give references again. In the same email, I listed the second one first (newest and most reliable), and then the second one. I was told that was not the same reference I had initially listed and things were not going to work out. It seemed that my entire email had not been read. It was a surreal and frustrating experience.
And, I never got to see the provider I had been lusting after.
Just make sure there's no hidden camera in your pants.
Every time I jerk off, I remind myself I just saved $200 - $400.
...so much so that it is the ONE thing that helps me stay within my (self-allotted) "hobby" allowance! If I feel that my urge to see a provider is pushing me over the hobby limit, I beat the meat...and in the post-ejaculation glow, congratulate myself on saving a ton of money!
You just saved a ton of money by switching hands.
Maybe she thought you were Uncle Leo and this was her way of sticking it to the popo.