What does her ad or website say to do to make an appointment? E-mail, call, text, screening form? Do that.

What info is she asking you for? You're not whitelisted, so your TER handle isn't good enough. Be sure to provide her with the information she has stated she needs to screen you, and be specific about your appointment time/date/duration. If she wants references, don't just say "Jane". Copy and paste the link to your reference's website or TER profile.

I don't know if other ladies are having this problem, but since BP shut down, I've been getting a lot of frustrating, time-wasting "avail now bb?" texts and "how much" texts from guys that didn't read my screening/correspondence requirements or rates.

You probably don't do this, Harleyman, but if you do, know that we are all on edge and being extra careful because of recent events. Please do not ask about the menu, and please never ever discuss the donation. Read her reviews and look at her rates on her website. If anyone starts talking like that, I can't let it slide now, and I cut them off. I was guilty of being slightly loose about that as long as I had them screened, but not after what has happened here in Atlanta. Not even that quick call when you're standing at the ATM machine on the way to her place, "$xxx, right, sweetie?" Nope, not even that. Pull up her website on your phone if you can't remember.

In short, contact her in the way she has stated she wants to be contacted, be forthright with the screening information she has requested, be specific about when you want to see her, and whatever you do, don't say anything to make her nervous.  

Hope this helps, and good luck.  

Love,
Stina