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Re: Just with that explanation right there...you're not reading his right
NovaMonger 553 reads
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You're not reading it right!! I wasn't late!! I was in fact 30 mins early!  I was only saying her bad address made me get lost , but I wasn't late

NovaMonger1473 reads

Sunday night I was checking out the add board and this young lady caught my eye. So I sent her my info and request for a appointment on Monday afternoon    She quickly replied that tomorrow at noon was open and i willing accepted. The following morning I sent her a message that because of my lunch time I'm looking for someone who provides half hour because I wasn't sure she offered it, again she quickly replied and yes she did! So i was all set for my lunch date

At around 11 she sent me a message to say come early!  Well I was already excited and horny to see her so I told me boss I'm very hungry and need a early lunch , I'll be back in an hour.  She sent me address and hotel info, the address she sent me was wrong and I ended up at koons in Tysons, after wasting time I finally found the hotel because she gave me the name also. I wasted time getting lost, but i was at the hotel and was finally going to enjoy our date

Once I parked I got this message, Hey bad news, I just got my period and I'm going to cancel.  I was very upset because not only I didn't get to monger, I also got no food and I'm so hungry and horny

What I'm asking.  The groups mongers and ladies. Do you think she faked on me or was this legit??  I didn't say her name, but should I?

JoelGoodsen1155 reads

I can think of something else she could have done to put a smile on your face.

...I can only offer the linked reply to a similar thread on a NCNS/cancelled appointment.

Shyt happens.  ESPECIALLY in the "unregulated" hobby world.  With every appointment, whether well reviewed, popular provider, "lowly" BP provider, "venerable" VIP provider, etc..  You should expect anything and any and all occurances of BS.

Simply keep it moving and don't take it personal.

...of how long the scheduled date was, this is COMPLETELY unprofessional and you have every right to feel upset (in my opinion.) Speaking from a providers point of view, the "I got my period" is the OLDEST excuse in the book, and I don't buy it even for a second. If it were me, and I magically got my period the hour before our appt, I would let you know and let you decide for yourself if you wish to follow through with the date.

I'm sorry this happened to you and hope you at least had a bite to eat. I would suggest writing a review about your experience, this kind of trickery should be reported.  

Also, if she was on the lower end of the ranking system, I would suggest aiming a bit higher next time. This kind of thing isn't going to happen with a well reviewed provider.  

Enjoy the rest of your week!

xoxo Marie

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!!!!!510 reads

. . . but if your boss is on this board, he/she would remember a certain person who was very hungry on Monday at 11 am and needed an early lunch. :)

No, don't say her name.

would it really be bad for him to add 2 + 2 ?

about what time of the month they will get their period. So unless she forgot, she got a better offer and flaked on you. Ladies, am I correct about the period information?

Some days its early by 5 days, sometimes late by a week, some months I have birth control & won't get my menses for 6mos.

So yeah.
No.

Posted By: oralconniseur
about what time of the month they will get their period. So unless she forgot, she got a better offer and flaked on you. Ladies, am I correct about the period information?
Sometimes it happens unpredictably, such as when we are hanging out with our girlfriend who is bleeding for a few days and then all of a sudden we will start totally at the wrong time of the month.  It does happen!  But typically this is caused by major hormonal shifts and we start feeling it coming on a few hours before it does.  Also, the flow is likely to be very minimal at first if it starts in the middle of the day and not overnight, etc.  But, literally every lady is different.  Medical science does not understand still why we sync up and bleed at the same time as all the other women we live with, etc.  So don't try to "understand" exactly how it works or the exact nature of the timing because no one really does.  Some women are like clockwork, and some more unpredictable.

I agree that in this case the OP just got flaked on.  "Come early!" means "I double booked!  Come early so I can still see both of you!"  When the OP got lost, he ruined his chance of seeing her.  Obviously that was her fault if she indeed have the wrong address, but she chose to make a period excuse instead of making it right.  She probably was seeing a regular instead or had a longer (hr+) booking that she decided to take instead.

My ovaries have their own agenda, despite modern medicine.

Posted By: oralconniseur
about what time of the month they will get their period. So unless she forgot, she got a better offer and flaked on you. Ladies, am I correct about the period information?

NovaMonger802 reads

Yes I got lost, but my official appointment  was at noon and was told to come early.  I arrived 11:30. I was lost for 15 or 20 minutes finding the hotel

She's not a BP girl. She has high reviews and charges $350 per hour

I was mad at her message and I told her I think you're lying to me, I said I'm at the hotel right now , I'll come up and give you 350 if you're really on your period and show me!  I said you bumped me because you got another offer for an hour. She said I don't need to prove anything to you and I don't care about your money  

So to back up a little. 11 am I'm told to come early since she has no appointments, I arrive at 11:30 and get the message.  Sorry bad news I'm on my period   I'm going to cancel on you

If she was sincere couldn't she say look I got other ways to fill your needs , come see me and I'll knock off 50
Bucks and bring it down to 200

You gave me cramps too...  

Not sure what the dialogue was when you realized you were "lost" but she let you down easy with the period excuse. Thank goodness for you posting under an alias. Is it the weather or the full moon the other night? Geez...

NovaMonger554 reads

You're not reading it right!! I wasn't late!! I was in fact 30 mins early!  I was only saying her bad address made me get lost , but I wasn't late

Besides, arguing with hookers over the phone is a no win situation.  

Surely after all this, you are on her DNS list.  Maybe you should put her on your own DNS list and move on.

I hope you weren't serious about the whole " show me your on your period" part... lol

NovaMonger606 reads

I didn't want to see the mess , but if she come in and I will show you, I would have said sorry I was wrong and appreciate your honesty, I was having a bad time and really looking forward to this, but take the money and I would have been on my way.  If I'm wrong I'll admit and make it up

My gut was telling me it was bs and a scam to push me aside for someone that needed and hour

GaGambler573 reads

If you want validation that you were lied to, than it looks like you have it. Most of us agree that she blew you off for a better offer.

Ok, now what? Are you going to name her? Backchannel her name to all your friends? What exactly did you want to accomplish by this thread?  Or did you just want to vent and get this shit off your chest? If so, I will say "mission accomplished"

wireed533 reads

As the father of 2 daughters, my wife and daughters always have thier period when they are out of tampons, usually when it is raining.

I am not 15 years old , so I never have Aunt Flo surprises.  I always know when it's going to start and never have any type of accidents. LOL.  

  It sounds like you were given a lame excuse. A half hour might be no time for any real fun mind you, but it's still plans she made. And there is still noney to be made for her. So she most likely just flaked on you. I mean you could of at least still have received a lovely French lesson. ;-)

Every woman's body is different. So it could have just sprung up, but Nine time out of ten she took an appointment that she felt was more important. Sending a wrong address is a red flag for me. They are either playing games or trying to buy time by making your get lost.  Super unprofessional. I hate stupid lies, just being honest in this situation would have worked better for her. Sorry you experienced that.

NovaMonger542 reads

Thank you! If that was you, wouldn't you have said I got a mouth, hands and tits. If you're interested we can make this work. I want to say her name to see if she did this to others.  Because that I got bad news comment seemed cut and paste

You're showing a lot of class by trying to understand the situation through the experts in our community while NOT disclosing the providers name. Your discreation will be rewarded, I'm sure.

normancooper467 reads

So who is this person?  PM me if you want, but please help us avoid bad providers.  Thanks

NovaMonger534 reads

Someone posted her name and it vanished, but he had same situation happen to him on Sunday with her

So post it again - the very purpose of this board is to know the good (reliable/dependable) Providers, so we can plan to avoid the bad unreliable ones - add the phone number. When her phone stops ringing - she will get the message

Not everyone is comfortable with throwing someone under the bus, whether they deserve it or not. Karma ALWAYS handles the situation.

I was taught a trick by an older lady to use a sea sponge so you can still have sex and not cover anyone in anything they don't want to be covered with. I carry one with me whenever I'm working so if I'm early I am covered, so to speak. Don't any other ladies use this? Thought it was standard :)

Lol! For me it's business as usual when it is that time of not. My BC choice keeps things light and when it does happen plug it up! But I have yet to have to explain to a guy what my method of keeping an appointment while on the rag is and I have yet to have anyone tell the difference. Guess it depends on your comfort level as well too.

No woman in this field is going to openly come out and say that they use that method. It's something you keep to yourself.

"I was walking down the street just now and a safe fell on my head like in a Road Runner cartoon." At least that would have been a bit more believable.

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