She definitely had time to get ready. A whole day , and she even set the time. Also, she is familiar with the area so travel time shouldn't be an issue.
I have seen a provider on two occasions and she is atleast 20 -30 minutes late. I figured the first time maybe something was holding her up from being on time, i.e traffic, etc. The next visit she was late again. I asked her why it is so difficult to be on time. Her reply was" it is accepted practice for a provider to be late". I said well you can be late with any one you want to but it won't be with me any more. Is this the accepted practice from the top providers ? Or is she just disrespectful towards her clients?
But I have always been offered a feasible explanation. I think she is just trying to see what she can get away with and it apparently works with some clients.
Every single provider I've seen who I've given high marks to has been late. A couple of them were late every time I saw them. It's irritating as all hell.
Some people are just chronologically challenged. I think that pretty women just get away with it more often... so I see it more often in them.
I don't think that she is singling out her clients specifically - my guess is that she is also that late in her personal life. My observation from living with women is that they just have a different concept of time than men do.
I have found that professional women are considerably less chronologically challenged than civilian women. But that's a very low bar..
gravitate to ladies who have their shit together, so haven't experienced it much.
Being late is rude.
Being late once because something came up is understandable
But if you're late all the time?
You've got problems prioritizing.
This isn't solely an issue in P4P but in all realms of life. Don't overthink it.
Artist/Patron.... Don't think it will catch on - but it's really good...
Squirrel!
Yeah - it's off topic but I really don't like calling the wonderful women I see - "providers".
BTW - you are one smart artist.... and I absolutely adore your pictures.
I like "artist." That's a very good concept! I am awed by great art, similar to the feeling I get when....well, you know.
Ok. Please excuse me for my incorrect terminology for the companion I was visiting. I enjoyed our visits once she arrived. It's just annoying when you are trying to be a good client.
I am a great patron of the tarts.
I mean arts.
Ok, I mean tarts.
And I agree with everything you just said.
And please know that I will never, ever mean any disrespect to anyone, ever. I have to ask this~did you give her enough time to get ready, drive 45 minutes to her place, get the place ready for you to visit in luxury and peace? There are always 2 sides to a story (or sometimes in this community 3 lol)
I have quite a few Friends who call me up and ask can I be ready in 10 minutes when I am 45 minutes across town at home. I am always honest with my friends and tell them that unless I have a high speed hover craft and a insta makeover machine~I am not going to make it on a short notice. Just my opinion, and take it or leave it as you so desire. I keep it real.Always.
She definitely had time to get ready. A whole day , and she even set the time. Also, she is familiar with the area so travel time shouldn't be an issue.