If you want to have a sexual experience, you are best off at an Asian massage parlor (AMP), but I have occasionally found one that was strictly on the up and up, so there is no sure thing.
You have to be willing to hunt and research.
Most however, do offer sexual services with the extent of same usually up to the particular masseuse you end up with.
To let the person know that you are interested, you have to give the person a little hint. Saying something like "You look very pretty." may be enough to elicit a "Is there something more you'd like?" This is pay dirt.
At this point you have to ask for what you want. If you ask for full service and she shakes her head, then ask about oral. She may only do hand releases. If she is really into customer service, she may go and find another masseuse at the place who is open to doing more. My experience is that it is about 50-50 that a masseuse will do more than a hand job.
You could also try the "Do your customers ever ask you for sexual favors?" which is a little more forward. Be sure to always smile and keep eye contact with the person.
By the way, there will probably be a big sign on the wall that will say: "Do not ask the attendants for any sexual services." That is there for LE's sake. The best way to understand it is to read it omittine the word "not".
One big plus for the AMP's is that you will usually get a very decent massage. Wait until the massage is over before asking about the sex, as you will probably make the masseuse think that you don't want the massage if you ask too soon.
If you only want a theraputic massage, there are probably lots of health related spa and health buisnesses in the Yellow Pages that you could check out. They have the ads without the sexy come-ons. You can also check out the spas at good five star hotels. They are pricey, but I've had some of the finest massages in my life at them, and they never ever offer sexual services.
Good luck.
Is there a massage parlor howto, somewhere? I've found a bunch of stuff, but, I'm still lacking certain details, like, where do you put the tip?
Also, sometimes I just want a massage without extras. Is this attitude going to be welcomed anywhere, or should I just find a place that doesn't offer extras, when I don't want them (and don't want to tip as much)?
Thanks,
If you want to have a sexual experience, you are best off at an Asian massage parlor (AMP), but I have occasionally found one that was strictly on the up and up, so there is no sure thing.
You have to be willing to hunt and research.
Most however, do offer sexual services with the extent of same usually up to the particular masseuse you end up with.
To let the person know that you are interested, you have to give the person a little hint. Saying something like "You look very pretty." may be enough to elicit a "Is there something more you'd like?" This is pay dirt.
At this point you have to ask for what you want. If you ask for full service and she shakes her head, then ask about oral. She may only do hand releases. If she is really into customer service, she may go and find another masseuse at the place who is open to doing more. My experience is that it is about 50-50 that a masseuse will do more than a hand job.
You could also try the "Do your customers ever ask you for sexual favors?" which is a little more forward. Be sure to always smile and keep eye contact with the person.
By the way, there will probably be a big sign on the wall that will say: "Do not ask the attendants for any sexual services." That is there for LE's sake. The best way to understand it is to read it omittine the word "not".
One big plus for the AMP's is that you will usually get a very decent massage. Wait until the massage is over before asking about the sex, as you will probably make the masseuse think that you don't want the massage if you ask too soon.
If you only want a theraputic massage, there are probably lots of health related spa and health buisnesses in the Yellow Pages that you could check out. They have the ads without the sexy come-ons. You can also check out the spas at good five star hotels. They are pricey, but I've had some of the finest massages in my life at them, and they never ever offer sexual services.
Good luck.
It might be helpful depending on your area.
Most metro areas have local review and/or info sites for MPs. As indicated earlier, don't go into known AMPs that do extras when you want a legit-only experience. I wouldn't go to a hotel spa unless the idea of paying $100/hr+ appeals to you.
The easy answers are: Put the tip in plane sight. and, if you don't want sex don't put out a tip, just pay the hourly rate when you come in. As a rule I'd say an AMP is not your best choice if you are looking for an actual therapeutic massage. The girls who work in an AMP are not trained in massage.
This site was very helpful to me when I was into AMPs a few years back.