And, gee, kayakid, which three qualities do I possess??! *teasing grins*
(Sorry, I simply couldn't resist!!)What are the three most important things you look for in your provider? Of course skill is a easy answer but what besides that push that button for you makes you go from 0-100 just wondering
Ok I know "Smiles" is one thing, but it all flows from that. If I walk into a room, and a beautiful woman is smiling, genuinely (I can spot the fakes one a mile away), I know three things:
1. She wants me to feel at ease, telling me she is interested in taking care of my needs.
2. She wants to have fun and will create a care-free atmosphere conducive to a good time.
3. She is confident in her beauty, and will therefore be beautiful whether she's a six or a ten
1) yes, like wnkyeah said, a beautiful natural smile, that does indeed instantly transmit SO MUCH and sets the whole date up for success. The initial welcome, seeing a lady with a radiant smile can't be beat it. And when it is on a SECOND visit, it's almost even better, because of the warm familiarity.
2) a naturally sensuous woman, not sure this can be faked. It's about more than just getting guys off. I get a massage every week at a local place that doesn't even involve a HE, yet is INCREDIBLY sensuous. Having a natural sensuality flow through a woman's hands, with the sole purpose being the pure unrushed pleasure of each moment, with each touch. Soooo nice.
3) Other personal traits: Down to earth, smart, witty, fully present, looks you in the eye, brings her real personality and isn't afraid to reveal it, isn't overly guarded.
4) {Yeah, I'm cheating by adding a 4th} A woman who flat-out REALLY enjoys sex. Skills are important, and all these other things are great too - but when you have all those things, connect, AND have a lady who really loves getting-off too?? Well, this can just ramp things up to a whole different level of fun. And yeah, I know there are theatrics and academy award quality efforts, but when she is truly enjoying herself too you can usually tell (but if she really is the ultimate actress and she has you fooled, nothing wrong with that either I suppose!).
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I prefer longer engagements and repeat visits, so personality and the "connection factor" weigh heavily.
The only thing I would add is maturity. I'm an older gent and prefer a lady who has seen a bit of life and who can connect with my life experiences.
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And, gee, kayakid, which three qualities do I possess??! *teasing grins*
(Sorry, I simply couldn't resist!!)
All four, plus more, Ashleigh!
enticing, intriguing, intoxicating, bewitching, beguiling and, sometimes bewildering. A modern day courtesan.
Sorry for misspelling your name above
enticing, intriguing, intoxicating, bewitching, beguiling and, sometimes bewildering. A modern day courtesan.
love this- eom
The intangibles:
1) Can carry on an intelligent conversation
2) Has a keen sense of humor and can appreciate sarcasm
3) Is confident and will take charge until I do
The tangibles:
1) Natural bust, minimum 34D
2) CIM
3) Weighs less than 140 lbs though I have been known to make an exception or two here........
Bad girls.
Girls who smoke, girls with tattoos, girls that don't take any BS.
And then I like them to be very sweet and GFE towards me haha.
I like a girl who likes to kiss, who knows how to receive.
Physically I like a girl with small breasts and thin waist and a cute butt.
Physically: long thin legs, firm perky B's, a derriere that is tight and fairly small
Other: intelligent, positive outlook on life, looks into my eyes