...including hundreds in the DMV alone, who will see you without asking for additional screening info.
This is AFTER you have a couple "okays" under your belt.
There are some ladies who require more screening info but the vast majority don't - so yes, can stick to your comfort level of not sharing info with each lady AND be a very happy hobbyist at the same time. This works for me.
I've been in the hobby for a little over a year. Always kind of stuck with BP girls for the anonymity. I found one I liked and kind of stuck with her as a regular but she's pregnant now. I'd like to find a nice GFE girl but don't want my info all over the internet. Any suggestions.
...the internet?
Many ladies such as myself screen, and do not accept new gentlemen callers without doing so.
What in God's name would I gain, by exposing you? If you find a lovely lady you wish to visit with, and she is a thorough screener, why not contact her reviewers? This might make you feel more comfortable.
Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly
let me clarify a little. I don't really have references. Is there another way to be verified without providing my info every time, name work etc. Like P 411 Is that acceptable to most providers, because it seems TER is not.
...including hundreds in the DMV alone, who will see you without asking for additional screening info.
This is AFTER you have a couple "okays" under your belt.
There are some ladies who require more screening info but the vast majority don't - so yes, can stick to your comfort level of not sharing info with each lady AND be a very happy hobbyist at the same time. This works for me.
P411 is by FAR my favorite mode of verification. It is quick, to the point and allows for those spontaneous dates that almost never happen for those of us who screen. Providers have the option of reaching out to other ladies you have seen if they desire, and you don't have to divulge any information to anyone other than P411. The site is easy to use and user-friendly, and no I do not work for them just highly appreciate their contribution to verification services. Good luck!
Sup homie, I have seen girls request some pretty outlandish actions as a form of verification such as taking a pix of lil man and sending it or a drivers license or form of ID. I personally prefer datechek. It is how I met up with Tyra Touch, who I highly recommend if you are into AA women with huge breasts. She along with another provider I see named Deja Vu are really quality.
would get "all over the internet".
First, you could be ARRESTED and the cops will DEFINITELY put your info all over the 'net. A relatively big risk when playing on BP, and a big problem for your life most likely.
Second, a lady you have seen could blacklist or "out" you. A relatively small risk (assuming you are respectful and not a creeper) that is even smaller with a more respected and "savvy" lady. Probably not as huge or insurmountable a problem as being arrested, IMHO.
The general wisdom seems to be that you are best served disclosing personal info ONCE to a verification service like P411, and then never having to disclose it again - except by choice.
If you have references and P411, you are probably good to go with many providers. If the ladies you have seen will not provide references, you may need to see a "Newbie Friendly" provider. Expect to give up some additional personal info to see her. Once you have a few references (P411 OK's), you are good to go with many providers without providing that personal info.
I probably left a lot out of that, but the point is that I think you are being penny-wise and pound-foolish about your approach to managing hobby risks. It seems that you have been going about this in what may be the most risky way possible.
Do you use a hobby phone and hobby email account
...provide any additional info to the newbie-friendly lady that I got my start with on P411 two years ago.
The P411 employment check and verification was sufficient for her.
from provider to provider. And it's not just a Newbie issue... there are always the super-cautious gals that want personal info no matter your references and verification site membership. That's why I mention that you need not give up personal info except by choice. Sounds like you've done things the right way.
I don't know why guys with "2 ok's" think P411 is bulletproof. Things happen and I wold not trust my safety over few ok's from ladies that I do not know or they do not have well review history and web presence.
Is like living my safety on someone's else hands....
Why the ladies would post your information online? We (most of us( are all about safety and being discreet.... or a you worried that you are blacklisted already?
You should stick to your comfort level.
None of these things are about personal mistrust of individuals - it's all about comfort and playing the odds.
Even though I'm sure most clients with the funds to do this are fine, ladies of course do some screening (even if just using P411) in order to be safe, and no guy is insulted by that. And if guys aren't comfortable with the info a lady is asking for, we just move on. It's not that we mistust any individual lady, we are just playing the odds too. It could only take one lady who misuses information (for whatever reason) to completely mess-up a guy's life. Obviously, the chances of this ever happening are much lower if a guy has only shared his info with P411 rather than hundreds of individuals overtime. This is just simple math - and it's a comfort level thing.
being blacklisted, Cata!
I was saying that the risk of being outed "all over the internet" was basically zero with a well-reviewed and respected provider - provided the guy didn't do something really bad that deserved a blacklist. I think you are saying the same thing?
I also was saying that P411 (or Date-Check) was a good idea for a Newbie, and that in some cases giving a provider more info than your P411 ID was necessary - if you choose to see that provider. I think you are also saying this?
No need to take offense. Peace
screen in many ways.. if you interested in meeting please contact me at [email protected]
I dont discussed (for privacy) all over the internet the ways that I complete my screening.
I honestly think most of the providers here would keep your info private...
I refuse to give out the kind of information they want - SERIOUSLY, do I want someone to call my employer? And here's the other reason - if these agencies get busted LE will take their computer files, and may also offer them a deal for any client information they give. This is simply too much risk, and you wont know about it till it hits you. Lastly, don't forget that ALL computer transmissions go into that big database in Utah, and those do occasionally get shared with other agencies - google "parallel construction" if you want to see what I mean.
If I were you I would try BP again and find another GFE - if you like Asians, I have had pretty good luck with them - cant say about others