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Derringer 18 Reviews 250 reads
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When one considers the functions of the venue for greek, it could have been totally unrelated to you. Without getting too graphic, maybe it was just something she ate that day.  

So she could have been doing you a HUGE favor. And considering that circumstance, who would want to describe why "it's not happening."

Sorry if this is offensive to anyone. But I just thought this consideration should be added to the discussion. After all, these lovely ladies are just people. Regular folks like you and me. (No pun intended.) And we all have "one of those kind of days" sometimes.

Derringer

-- Modified on 2/18/2015 8:21:30 AM

bugs20151293 reads

I just had a session with a provider whose profile indicated "Yes" for anal.  I  pm'd her earlier in the week when we were setting the scene up, and I  indicated a couple of special requests along with "I definitely want Greek to be on the menu."  She replied "no problem."  But during the session, she told me, "It isn't happening."  No explanation.  Its not like I am unhygenic, gross, too heavy or too big and she didn't seem in anyway uncomfortable around me.

I strongly support people's right to impose limits on what they do, and providers also desrve this leeway.  And I recogonize situations change for a variety of reasons.  But the way this can about made me feel getting a bit burnt.  She could have apologized and said "something came up so I can't do this.  Baby, what can I do to make it up for you?"  But it all felt cold.

When I came back home, I carefully read all 20 TER reviews for her.  N0 REVIEWER mentioned tHAT THE actually had a Greek experience with her.  Reviewers tend to list everything that happened.   I am left with the impression that this provider falsely lists that she does Greek. Has anybody had a similiar experience?  In reviewing her, should I put "NO" for the question:  "services delivered as promised?"

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MasterZen447 reads

after giving yourself some time to think and cool off. If you write the review right away as a reaction, you will likely over-react and be a bit unfair.

It sounds like services including Greek were promised, and everything but Greek was provided. In fact, it sounds like you had a couple other special requests that were accommodated. Everyone knows that Greek is often a YMMV kind of thing. I'd suggest explaining this in the review details, and since Greek is worth an extra performance point, dropping the performance score by 1.  

If no reviews mention Greek, you might want to try submitting a problem report to change her profile to say "Greek = No". I kind of believe that is the case when a service is listed in the profile and never mentioned in any review - and 20 reviews is plenty for it to have been mentioned in at least one.

But most importantly, don't write from spite, exaggerate or bash. Just keep it factual and explanatory and polite.

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Hello.Duchess516 reads

So, I would agree with this advice, as well, with the tiny caveat: maybe 1 out of 10 clients review. Just because it's not in a review, doesn't mean it doesn't happen. I've done Greek and it's not in any of my reviews, nor would I want it to be because it sets up expectations I would not be in a position to meet. Under-promise, over-deliver, when you can. But Greek, oh, yeah. That's DEF. a YMMV situation for some of us :) When it's bad, it's soooooo bad. Other ladies are better equipped for it. I would say, if Greek is important to you, there are SO MANY well-reviewed providers who love it and provide it. That would be the route to take to avoid disappointment.

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MasterZen316 reads

I stand corrected on the review statement!

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AllyVixen454 reads

Defintely a true statement :-)

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Derringer251 reads

When one considers the functions of the venue for greek, it could have been totally unrelated to you. Without getting too graphic, maybe it was just something she ate that day.  

So she could have been doing you a HUGE favor. And considering that circumstance, who would want to describe why "it's not happening."

Sorry if this is offensive to anyone. But I just thought this consideration should be added to the discussion. After all, these lovely ladies are just people. Regular folks like you and me. (No pun intended.) And we all have "one of those kind of days" sometimes.

Derringer

-- Modified on 2/18/2015 8:21:30 AM

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bugs2015260 reads

Derringer,
I considered that this was the most probable reason at the time.  But it was when I looked at all her reviews and saw NOT ONE review that mentioned doing Greek, but two that mentioned she refused them, that I got suspicious

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