Agencies do not save your business info once they have screened you and the appointment goes off without any problems. For what it's worth, agencies don't rent office space in the local strip mall. In many cases, the chances of the owner, the escort and the woman who answers the phone all being in the same place are pretty slim.
It's always good to exercise caution but screening is part of the industry and you are not going to avoid it if you want to see top-shelf ladies.
DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT have a provider come to your home. I did it once and I didn't realize what a stupid idea it was until I saw this gorgeous twenty something Brazilian ass walking back to her car at 2am after she had been parked in front of my house in a residential neighborhood for four hours while we boinked away inside my house. No, she never came back "unexpectedly" but who knows if she would have?
Do in call or get a hotel room. It's worth it for the peace of mind.
Okay, so I want to get into this, but have 2 paranoid concerns:
1) Most agencies ask for personal info such as real name, address, work info, etc. What if the agency keeps this filed away somewhere and gets busted later by LE? LE then has your info and you're toast. Of course, you can ask the agency to destroy your info after verification, but how can you be sure?
2) Being local, would it be a bad idea to have providers visit you at your house? Any chance they may later knock on your door uninvited, and has this ever happened to someone?
Thanks everyone for your thoughts. I am hoping my paranoia will go away so I can start enjoying this hobby.
Agencies do not save your business info once they have screened you and the appointment goes off without any problems. For what it's worth, agencies don't rent office space in the local strip mall. In many cases, the chances of the owner, the escort and the woman who answers the phone all being in the same place are pretty slim.
It's always good to exercise caution but screening is part of the industry and you are not going to avoid it if you want to see top-shelf ladies.
DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT have a provider come to your home. I did it once and I didn't realize what a stupid idea it was until I saw this gorgeous twenty something Brazilian ass walking back to her car at 2am after she had been parked in front of my house in a residential neighborhood for four hours while we boinked away inside my house. No, she never came back "unexpectedly" but who knows if she would have?
Do in call or get a hotel room. It's worth it for the peace of mind.
1) Even if an agency were to keep your information on file, prostitution is a crime you have to be caught committing. If they find your name in records they can't charge you with anything. Ever notice in the high profile cases against agencies that no clients, even public figures that admit it, never get charged? You would not be "toast"...the agency owner would...but you wouldn't.
2) Generally it is a bad idea to have a lady to your home. Not just because she could come back (highly unlikely), but if she has a "driver", is a B&S and you try and send her away, nosy neighbors that wonder about the cars showing up in front of your house, etc.
I would say never have the provider come to your home - especially if you are in a relationship.
The overwhelming number of people in the hobby (whether as providers or clients) are sane and safe. But I'd never take the chance of meeting a random one who is the exception to the rule.
I don't do incall at my own home because I don't know who's going to turn up. I think the same sort of caution is wise for a guy. It's highly unlikely she'll turn up unexpectedly but why take the chance?
What if I live alone, and it's a reputable provider with reviews?
It seems they all want to know your real name and address as verification, so either way it looks like they'll know where you live anyway.
I figure the main risk for someone like me is the unwanted attention from nosy neighbors.
Thanks everyone for your thoughts.
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I've had a steady stream of providers coming to my house and never had a problem. You're exactly right. Stick with well reviewed providers who value their good reputations. Screw the nosy neighbors if you have any - there is nothing wrong with having female friends over to visit. The GFE fantasy is much stronger than getting a hotel room - huge advantage, imho.
If we are not in a public location and a guy tries to harm us, we have no immediate recourse. I always insist on outcall to a public/hotel location (or occasional incall, also at a public hotel) along with thorough screening, for first and usually second time appointments. After I've gotten to know and feel comfortable with someone, I am usually willing to come to their home if it is in the city where I work. I agree that the main risk is if you are married or live with a gf and either she were to return or neighbors were to question, it could cause problems (most high-quality girls with review know that their reputation and ongoing business is waayyy more valuable than whatever she were to steal from your home- most of us would never dream of stealing from someone anyways).. I think that you would be fine doing this as long as 1) she is a reputable lady with reviews as you stated, and 2) you meet at a hotel once or twice to establish a level of comfort with each other, as you would both be taking a risk to do a residential outcall on a very first date. Also, for guys with significant other and/or nosy neighbors, you may want to discuss attire with the gal. I always dress conservatively/professionally when going to a regular client's home, but some gals may not think this through.
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Marea
-- Modified on 8/26/2007 8:06:42 PM
Any guy with half a brain in his head must presume a couple things when he has a provider over to his home.
1. She has told someone the address where she is going to be.
2. If he roughs her up, she may not have immediate recourse, but oh will she have recourse later.
Knowing these things should convince even a real asshole to be on his best behavior.
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...But there are cautions to consider.
---As a newbie you should not invite ladies to your home. Wait until you have been in the hobby for a while and then decide. Get some practical experience under your belt first before you invite strangers to your home
---Do not invite escorts to your home if you are married, living together, or have an SO that may drop by unannouced.
---Consider scheduling an incall appointment or meeting for lunch/dinner before you invite them to outcall. See who you are meeting first (at least until you are no longer new)