s he a Special Agent or agent support either way don't. He is playing high risk games with his career. Do a Google search about career life of a FBI employee. Its worse than working for an alphabet soup agency. Check out what happens every 5 years to them.
He has deep psychological issues and likes to take big risks. He wants to get caught. Its not worth the riskOK, this is a first, and I could use some advice from you old DC hands. I had an FBI agent request a date for my tour next week.
I checked his employment info, and yes, he's an actual agent in a rather obscure department of the Bureau. No references, says he's only seen one lady before, and she retired.
Take a chance? Or crazy to take a chance?
Let me know your thoughts!
Tabu
You just outed your potential client! So the real question is should he go along with the appointment with you???
In the hobby we are all trusted with potentially sensitive /private information. The rule is be discrete. If one can't follow that then the trust is broken. No we don't know exactly who this guy is but the police and federal agents hobby too. There is nothing new or scary about that such is life. Top secret mission or not rule one was compromised IMO..
'm afraid your reaction is completely nonsensical. No one was outed-- even remotely-- in the asking of this question.
I only pray you never see a real outing. It isn't pretty.
best,
Tab
But I personally would not screen a guy, get his work info and verify it to be correct, then ask on a public forum if I should see him or not based on his verified personal work info. You could have asked a general question like what high profile jobs are not acceptable as clients or created your own DNS list of gents based on their career choice and gone from there.
Any information that can be potentially damning to another is outing in my book so to say a guy with this profession contacted you and will possibly be seeing you on specific dates when you are in this area is TMI...
s he a Special Agent or agent support either way don't. He is playing high risk games with his career. Do a Google search about career life of a FBI employee. Its worse than working for an alphabet soup agency. Check out what happens every 5 years to them.
He has deep psychological issues and likes to take big risks. He wants to get caught.
Its not worth the risk
Nothing that happens is against federal law, it's only state or jurisdiction laws that bar certain acts that may or may not occur. Just make sure your meeting takes place is the location planned and does not change, also do not do any outcalls on this one. If you choose your words wisely, clearly state the time is for companionship only and he makes the first move you should be good to go.
I'm no lawyer, but you may want to go look up the Mann Act. That falls under federal law and would be enforced by the FBI. I wouldn't think the reward is NOT worth the risk.
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with my gut and 11 years of experience on this one.
I'm doing it!
No, just kidding. I'm going to pass. I need to sleep at night, LOL.
Thanks for the posts and PMs, I appreciate the various points of view. You all never let me down.
Tab
It to be true, however, after reading up on it a little. I feel he told me this because back in the day, my screening was gut instinct, and "are you a cop?" Lol. In fact, I didn't even do that yet... (remember, this was my first time ever doing it, and I'm VERY lucky!!!) Thinking back, I had a feeling that was his fake identity to scare shady online craigslist sugar babies/pro's, which he hired frequently.
So I show up at his place and later see the certificate. I just asked "what is it like?" questions. He said boring. Then we had sex lol.
I have heard great stories, and had one myself. Since then, I have not seen one, and one thrill is enough for me. But if someone is going to do it, I'd suggest a TON of references and hard screening.
One more note: some agencies have LE rotating through with no problem for years. No thanks on my end.
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They're also super sexy and I have an absolute blast with them. 
As long as the potential client is up front about it and everything checks out screening-wise, I say go for it. The fuzz need lovin' too!
Tabu, you can be crazy all you want, but methinks you should leave being crazy behind the privacy of closed doors, not in taking a huge risk in seeing an FBI agent.
Think about it: as you indicated, although his employment info checks out, he has seen only one lady before, and she retired.
While the initial rush of adrenaline might be there in possibly seeing an FBI agent, I think you're better off to err on the side of caution and just say no.
It only takes one person to ruin your life in this business. You've built an incredible reputation and following. Please don't let this one particular person possibly decimate everything for which you have worked so hard to aspire and achieve. It's better to be safe than sorry.
Just my two cents' worth, which can be taken or rejected!
With sisterly provider love across the miles....
xoxo,
AR
I checked his employment info, and yes, he's an actual agent in a rather obscure department of the Bureau. No references, says he's only seen one lady before, and she retired.
Take a chance? Or crazy to take a chance?
Let me know your thoughts!
Tabu