Im versatile to Gfe and Pse but I prefer Gfe because it's more intimate and relaxing. I think it's fine to ask if a provider offers Gfe but you can usually tell how genuine their answer is based on reviews. What I do differently is try to make a connection with the man I'm with and let things flow naturally from there. Men want a feminine touch and to feel appreciated and attracted to. Gfe to me is flirting, eye contact, DFK, holding each other and essentially making love to the other person. Making the man feel appreciated and that you are enjoying his company as well. It's not something that can be forced or it will feel awkward for both parties.
Not Gfe is an unnatural wham bam out the door experience without giving a sh*t about the person. You don't care about who the person is or their feelings. I know some or maybe most men wouldn't mind that but I would. I want to enjoy the person I'm with and have a relaxing experience. This is why I don't see men who ask for 1/2 hours or don't offer much in the way of conversation when contacting me. I prefer to know a bit about the person I'm meeting so we can both be comfortable and compatible.I'm wondering what providers and hobbyists alike specifically consider GFE to mean, and how it differs from non-GFE.
Providers: If you were to advertise as GFE, what if anything do you do differently? Is anything about it meant to be universal? By the way, is it okay for to ask if you are GFE or is that considered discussing specifics? If there's an accepted way to ask about this, please share.
Hobbyists: If a provider claims to be GFE, what do you expect from it and how often are those expectations met?
On a more personal note - I have been trying to nail this down for a long time because I'm only interested in providers who are as literally GFE as possible. If I just wanted was to get off I have my hand for that. For me seeing an escort is to some degree about companionship and not just sex. Before you tell me to read the reviews, I do. If someone has enough reviews I might be able to get a read, but I rarely see this addressed in reviews. The search continues... -- Modified on 1/16/2015 2:25:26 AM
While my experience is limited (though I haven't reviewed most of it), it seems while many providers describe themselves as "GFE", it doesn't seem to mean anything much of the time. Isn't the offer of GFE predicted on not only the allowance for specific acts (such as DFK), but also a warmer, more inviting atmosphere that is friendly and comfortable? One might say it is meant to be like an 'experience with a girlfriend'.
I'm wondering what providers and hobbyists alike specifically consider GFE to mean, and how it differs from non-GFE.
Providers: If you were to advertise as GFE, what if anything do you do differently? Is anything about it meant to be universal? By the way, is it okay for to ask if you are GFE or is that considered discussing specifics? If there's an accepted way to ask about this, please share.
Hobbyists: If a provider claims to be GFE, what do you expect from it and how often are those expectations met?
On a more personal note - I have been trying to nail this down for a long time because I'm only interested in providers who are as literally GFE as possible. If I just wanted was to get off I have my hand for that. For me seeing an escort is to some degree about companionship and not just sex. Before you tell me to read the reviews, I do. If someone has enough reviews I might be able to get a read, but I rarely see this addressed in reviews. The search continues...
-- Modified on 1/16/2015 2:25:26 AM
Our mind is constantly labeling, judging, analyzing, evaluating, and comparing each person we come into contact with, including all life forms and things that exist. Such is our mind’s conditioning. It is nothing but mind created false ego. In every profession, including providing, those who are exceptionally good at what they do may be completely or largely free of ego while performing their work. They may not know it, but their work has become a spiritual practice. Most of them are present while they do their work and fall back into relative unconsciousness in their private life. Those who perform their work admirably, are fully responding to whatever the moment requires of them. They are one with what they do, one with the Now, one with the people or the task they serve. The influence such people have upon others goes far beyond the function they perform. Theybring about a lessening of the ego in everyone who comes into contact with them. Even people with heavy egos sometimes begin to relax, let down their guard, and stop playing their roles when they interact with them. This, btw, applies to all professions.
Let’s not worry about defining GFE and non-GFE. Just go out there and enjoy each moment you spend with a provider, without playing or expecting a role. That way you are more likely to have a deeper human interaction, the one that is satisfying on all levels
Let’s not worry about defining GFE and non-GFE. Just go out there and enjoy each moment you spend with a provider, without playing or expecting a role. That way you are more likely to have a deeper human interaction, the one that is satisfying on all levels.
Aside from that, are there any recommended agencies? It seems they have more choices and are sometimes lesc costly, though I am unsure what the benefits and drawbacks are of going through an agency as I've only seen independent providers. I have a question about this. Take dreamescortdc, aka diamondescortserivce for example. They have had the same pictures of the same ladies on their site for years. There are a reviews, but not nearly what one might expect. I've read that it's a scam, so if that's the case how do they keep the business going for all this time?
It's basically a blanket term for a lady who's willing to kiss and act affectionately. Each lady is going to be at least a little bit different in her approach (as would any real-life girlfriend). You'll just have to shop around and figure out who meets fulfills what *you* are looking for.
Disregarding PSE, those that fall into the non-GFE category are the "no fluid exchange" (all activities covered, no kissing), or the cold, mechanical, quick-hitters (drop your donation, drop your pants, stick it in, hurry up, get out!).
Cocktail-party is on to it, I think. To me if you are with someone who offers GFE than for that hour it is like you are with someone who is your girlfriend. Now, some girlfriends do CIM and some don't; some rim and some don't, etc. And you might or might not choose to keep them as your girlfriend based on those factors as well as others.
Someone who is offering GFE should be -- for lack of a better word -- NICE to you. Friendly, affectionate, glad to see you (or at least act that way; this is, after all, fantasy). To me someone who won't allow DFK is falling short of GFE. But for the most part it isn't so much the menu as it is the attitude.
It's a bit like a restaurant. There's McDonalds and there are places where you feel especially welcome and that they really care how much you enjoy your meal. Either way you get fed but there is a big difference. Better stop; now I';m getting hungry and not just for dinner.
It ain't GFE if she hasn't tossed your clothes out the window and kicked you out the door. Neither my ex-girlfriends nor my wife (now ex) had ever given me a blowjob.
Im versatile to Gfe and Pse but I prefer Gfe because it's more intimate and relaxing. I think it's fine to ask if a provider offers Gfe but you can usually tell how genuine their answer is based on reviews. What I do differently is try to make a connection with the man I'm with and let things flow naturally from there. Men want a feminine touch and to feel appreciated and attracted to. Gfe to me is flirting, eye contact, DFK, holding each other and essentially making love to the other person. Making the man feel appreciated and that you are enjoying his company as well. It's not something that can be forced or it will feel awkward for both parties.
Not Gfe is an unnatural wham bam out the door experience without giving a sh*t about the person. You don't care about who the person is or their feelings. I know some or maybe most men wouldn't mind that but I would. I want to enjoy the person I'm with and have a relaxing experience. This is why I don't see men who ask for 1/2 hours or don't offer much in the way of conversation when contacting me. I prefer to know a bit about the person I'm meeting so we can both be comfortable and compatible.
I'm wondering what providers and hobbyists alike specifically consider GFE to mean, and how it differs from non-GFE.
Providers: If you were to advertise as GFE, what if anything do you do differently? Is anything about it meant to be universal? By the way, is it okay for to ask if you are GFE or is that considered discussing specifics? If there's an accepted way to ask about this, please share.
Hobbyists: If a provider claims to be GFE, what do you expect from it and how often are those expectations met?
On a more personal note - I have been trying to nail this down for a long time because I'm only interested in providers who are as literally GFE as possible. If I just wanted was to get off I have my hand for that. For me seeing an escort is to some degree about companionship and not just sex. Before you tell me to read the reviews, I do. If someone has enough reviews I might be able to get a read, but I rarely see this addressed in reviews. The search continues...
-- Modified on 1/16/2015 2:25:26 AM