Sorry if this is a stupid question.
I'm the best man throwing a bachelor party for my best friend.
Originally, this seemed like it was going to be no challenge.
Years ago he threw my party when I got married, and he got a reccomendation from a friend of his for a stipper that was hot and was great with the extras. He went with it, and we had a good time. The second provider the agency sent wasn't so great (didn't look very attractive and had a horrible blase attitude to boot), so that was dissappointing, but the other provider more than made up for it.
But I talked to the same agency today, as per my friend's suggested desires for HIS party, and that connection has dried up. The provider we liked last time no longer works for them, and we couldn't even get our favorite girls booked that we liked from the agency's website.
Which leaves me back at 0, as an inexperienced newbie with no connections for finding good adult entertainment I am confident about.
I know enough to know that it's easy to get ripped off by agencies. AND, I want my friend to have a good time and for everyone to get what they want. A bachelor party only happens once (or at least hopefully!).
A smart friend of mine turned me on to this website, and suggested I search for our entertainment needs this way.
My questions are these:
-Is this ALSO A GOOD place to search for adult entertainers who do strip/erotic shows for a group and then do extra services in private at the end (or is this site just for one-on-one providers)?
-Do providers such as those rated on this site DO STRIP SHOWS also? Is that something I simply need to ask them about?
(I haven't noticed that mentioned anywhere in the review categories and info).
-If this is NOT the right place for this, does anyone know if there is a better place for my situation?
-Finally, does anyone have a good reccomendation for a provider who sounds like they will fit my needs - especialy if I can read about them on this site?
I know that the only way to be confident about who you are going to get, is by going with providers who come highly reccomended by word of mouth...
(looking for a 2-girl strip show for our group - at our hotel suite in NYC - blondes, redheads, or latinas preferred - followed by any extra services as needed).
-Thanks,
-Newbie Best Man
Try the In Search of Board.
Let's cut to the chase here. Any reputable stripper (no, that was not intended to be an oxymoron) does not provide extras. If you hire a stripper for a bachelor party, most times you will be sitting there with a raging hard on, unable to touch her as she does some pathetic lap dance. This is especially true if you go through an agency (a dime a dozen) because the strippers always travel with body guards. Believe me, I have been to several bachelor parties with strippers and all of them have been mediocre at best. There was nothing even remotely close to any sexual contact
If you go with an independent stripper, you better be EXTREMELY CAREFUL and understand what she will and will not do. The last thing you want is a situation where you think she provides "extras" but she does not. It doesnt take a genius to figure out where this might lead (see Duke Lacrosse team if unsure)
Which brings us to my original point. You want an escort. Now you have certainly come to the right place. Do some research of ladies in your area and explain UPFRONT to the provider what exactly you want. There are ladies who prob. will do a nice strip tease for your group to start and then give you all the extras (HJ, BBBJ, full service) that you desire. Again, be HONEST with the ladies from the start.
Try posting on the NYC board
Sorry to those of you who were annoyed that I posted this here. All I have to say is this - clearly I'm a newbie...that's why I didn't post this on another board, because I didn't want to upset anyone with a stupid question...alas I failed to do the right thing anyway...
At any rate, I realize that part of my message was NOT appropriate here, so thank you for your suggestions that I post elsewhere (I see now that I tried to do too many things with one single message - the part where I asked if anyone knew of a provider to fit my needs was not right for this board).
However, the part that I feel was appropriate for this board was answered very considerately by Hardy5456. Thankyou Hardy5456.