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Ladies and Gents,

 What's your take on this?

For me, I can have several different moods. My sexuality can be slut soaring high, usually once I'm fully comfortable with my date. Or, you caught my during a good shift of the moon :-).  My sexuality can be neutral, there just for your pleasures not completely turned on. Or, just skeptical of your moves. For example, you keep asking me if we can go bareback. WTF! Just because I've done a few porn scenes does not mean that I want to have unprotected sex with you! I can be really playful & youthful at times. That's usually when I meet someone whom I hit it off with at 'Hello'.

Not meaning to confuse you guys with my different takes on a encounter. Admit it, we all know there's either electric chemistry or a bad decision from curiosity.  

But, does the confidence the lady walks with scares the thought of your chances with her?
Do you believe that you have a chance either way because she's a sex worker?

Let's talk about it....

Well, I can not speak on behalf of the other guys but I can give you my personal point of view. As a veteran hobbyist, a woman's confidence is no longer a bad or scary thing. Quite the opposite, she is to be appreciated all the more. It makes no difference if she is a provider or civie. There is nothing more beautiful in life than intimacy with a woman who knows what she is doing. Believe me, that not many women (both civie and providers) and I am sure men have honed sexual skills.  

In my 20s into my early 30s I definitely would have been intimidated by a sexually confident woman. I married my high school sweetheart that was very much into vanilla sex. I thought I was so great at it, although I know was little more than a half dozen basic positions and DATY. After divorcing, my first session with a provider (Julie my first review) totally changed my life. It was like as if I lost my virginity all over again. As a guy who had to beg my wife to give me a BJ, that would lead to an argument. Having never had a woman kiss me as passionately as my first provider did, or wash me in the shower, rimm me or even swallow. I became hooked for life on sexually liberated women.  

Frightening, you ask? Not in the slightest but had you asked me this question 10 years ago, the answer would have been different.

it drives me wild when a women immediately let's me know that she's the boss!

I am VERY nervous meeting new providers... Some can make me more comfortable, but I will ALWAYS be nervous. Therefore a high energy encounter can be really "limping" for me.. First there is the performance anxiety, then I DO want to please the lady. I am a slow moving, cuddling, talking sort of guy... I am not a SUB either, but not wanting to push boundaries, I do enjoy a lady that can effectively or quietly take charge. May be it's my libido, who knows. May be having been shy and not losing it until my 20's, then being a perpetual "big brother" to all the girls/women.... OK, just sexually frustrated

Of course the sexual frustration will continue to increase if you allow for your nerves to take over. Relax, the ladies here are nice and will take things at your pace.

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