Looking for opinions on this one. My first pop is usually pretty quick and can happen with fast Oral. I have had providers, say "that's that, I only give one pop". Not satisfying... Should I expect more if I pay for an hour? I am fully ready to continue and tell them, but they just ask for more money. I tried to start the conversation on the phone before I get there, but they don't want to talk on the phone. Hard to know what I should expect. What is the collective wisdom?
So however long that takes for the guy, he should know himself to schedule accordingly. You have to look for MSOG friendly ladies. Always consider while searching for a lady in the hobby, some will stick to the clock and some will stick to the cock... Go for what's the most important to you and enjoy!
"some will stick to the clock and some will stick to the cock."
GREAT verbiage in your title and post... LO
for reviews. Whether she offers MSOG (Multiple Shots On Goal) is in her basic profile. If you peruse Backpage, you MUST use it intelligently and in conjunction with reviews to stay safe and reliably find providers that offer what you are looking for.
....if unsure look at her reviews and see if there's a theme there of her being okay with multiples. If you're done within say like the first 15min and still have 45mins left (which imo even if you're a bit slow to recover is plenty of time to try for seconds) I think someone upselling for an "extra pop" is pretty tacky.
And start seeing legit providers who allow for more than one pop and don't upsell.
All it takes is doing simple research on a providers review page. The profile page and reviews will literally tell you if she allows more than one pop.
This isn't rocket science
can solve the problem...sometimes it can solve it too well if ya jack to close to a visit, haha.
I like to get my money worth....
This issue must be perplexing for many, so thanks for the invite to chat about it. I really do not enjoy being asked this particular question especially in advance to meeting a new friend. In general for me, if you "pop" early as you described, I will usually give another a shot...more likely to happen in an hour or more session however. That being said, I just did one similar to that with a regular friend who truly "pops" quickly. That is his thing...a quickie twice and done and dressed in less than 30 minutes. He is not the norm...this is a relationship we build. I am sure there are occasions when a second works and another when it does not. Sensuality is not scripted...so how can I guarantee a second or third "pop?" What gets odd and off for me is when a man can not just lay back and let the feeling flow! I have had men hold back so long trying not to "pop" that they no longer can even get one in. Now that truly is frustrating! I think the key is to come and get tantric. Get in the moment and just feel your way through the experience whatever the time frame you have chosen.
Exactly Kaya! Some men get so focused on that that they miss the real sensuality and blocks the whole experience...that being said, gotta try to meet a person where their at.
"Sensuality is not scripted...so how can I guarantee a second or third "pop?"
very good point. i do recall a lady trying to get the FIRST one from me but it wasnt happening for me that day.
another round of fun on a 1 hour appointment. She started the action.Honestly, I don't really expect it. I have initiated but don't get the impression they prefer it. It should, however, be SOP on a 2-4 hour date but there again most of the time they don't initiate or try to avoid it.This is one of the main reasons I prefer 1 hour appointments. It's a much better value.
No - satisfaction isn't measured in Pops per hour, but if you pay for an hour of sensual company and pop before you even enter (on the CBJ for instance), I want to fulfill the fantasy that started the trip in the first place. I like the rhythym of moving with a partner - the CBJ is a nice little beginning, but with each new partner I am pretty excited. The fantasy is in the head and the head wants to be in her - too much to ask?
Yes. With someone I thought I had a better relationship with it took me a few 2-3 hour visits to realize that this is what was going on. When I'd suggest a second round it was like 'oh, sure. That would be great' but clearly it was up to me to initiate it or I would spend $400 finding out what she got her kids for Christmas for an hour.
LMAO!
yeah when she sits CLEAR over the other side of the bed you can bet your willie ain't gettin' wet.
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