The topic of younger guys and providers has been covered before. Do a search and you will find plenty of info. If you are in a larger city, you should be able to find an established lady who will show you a good time. Be sure you tell her before hand. Also, try a 2-hr. appointment rather than 1 hr. You need time to enjoy.
OK, I am 19 years old and a virgin. In fact, I've never had a girlfriend before and I want to see an escort, because I really want to know what its like. Unfortunately, I know that guys in my age group are not the kind of client a provider expects.....do I have a chance right now, or do I have to wait until I'm older?
PS-This is not a troll post, I know it sounds like a dumb question, but I really want an honest answer.
The topic of younger guys and providers has been covered before. Do a search and you will find plenty of info. If you are in a larger city, you should be able to find an established lady who will show you a good time. Be sure you tell her before hand. Also, try a 2-hr. appointment rather than 1 hr. You need time to enjoy.
I once had the same problem, because of my age. My method involved seeing only agency girls, and staying away from independents until you build up some reviews.
The logic behind it is this. Independent girls have a lot of freedom, which includes choosing which clients they see. So if you contact one of them, and mention you age and your membership of the V-card club, she could think: "hell no, I'm not seeing a guy who can't get dates" (sorry to be blunt, but it can happen). In the end, you get screwed, and not in a good way.
With agency girl, you tell the operator, not the provider, about your situation. Once the screening is over and done with, the girl comes to see you. She might be surprised to see someone your age, but it's a lot harder for agency girls to back out on the appointment than for independent girls. That can work in your favor. Agencies get ragged on quite a bit on TER, but this is their truly redeeming aspect.
Best of luck to you, bad2rich. Young hobbyists may not fit the stereotypical profile, but they're an untapped market that could be very profitable.
Pretty good advice here, except I would recommend "going to see the girl" aka "incall" versus having "the girl comes to see you" aka "outcall" (especially if he still lives at home with Ma and Pa). With incall, he can walk away and say, "sorry, I've knocked on the wrong door" if it's apparent that the agency has tried to pull a B&S (Didn't anyone watch the movie "Risky Business"? It's a virtual bible on how to NOT hobby. LOL!) Also, I would not recommend 2-Hrs, as K-kid had. Go with a 1 hr. If the girl allows 2 pops, he'll get it in one hour no problem (Hell, as a 19-yr old virgin, he could possibly get 2 pops in a half-hour appointment). Save the money and schedule another session (if all goes well with the same agency/girl). However, the biggest piece of advice that still needs repeating is to search the reviews. Even in his situation, he should start with well reviewed agencies/girls.
Am I the only one that burst into laughter at the "untapped market" remark?
Yes, you have a chance. The first thing you must do is A LOT of research. I would stick with an independent lady, whom you can visit at her place. As a first timer, you really do not want the hassles and potential BS of an agency. Find a few ladies in your area who not only fit your physical requirements but also, based on the reviews, appear to be sweet and attentive. You can figure this out easily. Then E-mail the ladies (I am sure you will be way too nervous to call) and tell them that you are a first time hobbyist, age 19, and would like to set up an appointment to meet. Have a date and time in mind. Do NOT tell them initially you are virgin, as this implies you expect sex (after all if you were just seeing them for their time, it would not matter if you were a virgin or not)If they have no problem with your age and you are professional in your approach, you should get a response. If you dont get a response, dont worry. You can find someone else.
Once you are at the date, the donation has been placed on the table, and things are progressing (you'll know when this happens) then you can mention you are a virgin.
Just make sure that this is what you really want. This is a VERY addictive hobby and you have to make sure that you are entering for the right reasons. Once you are in, its tough to get out. Do you really want to spend time with an escort, or do you simply want to get laid and this is the easy way out? Good luck
I've seen virgins before. I've seen some who told me up front and those who told me after.
My advice is to *Tell He UP Front*
It's silly not to and she would most likely want to know and appreciate the honesty.
Regardless of your age or experience MOST women prefer honest clients. Please don't listen to some of those who suggest you start out by lying.
What I said was that he should not tell the provider he is a virgin in his INITIAL contact E-mail. If you mention you are a virgin, this implies you have an expectation of sex, (why else would you have to let the lady know you are a virgin if you are only paying her for her time) which of course is illegal. You can tell the lady you are a virgin once the action has started (i.e. after you have placed the donation, had some break the ice chatter and things are sexually progressing)
Personally, I would rather know if hes a virgin or not. A 19 year old virgin? Hell ya, what provider wouldn't have fun with that?
Hey bad2rich,
I've never used an agency, so I can't speak to that. I'd recommend what many here have...find a well reviewed provider that meets whatever characterics you're looking for. If there's an option to call I always recommend it over email. I like to get a feel for the girl over the phone. And use incall. If you click and continue to see the girl, you can always go to outcall later. Finally, be careful. This can be addictive, especially if you are vulnerable, virgin, young, etc. This is an activity where playing the field is part of the fun.
There are lots of independent escorts who will see a newbie.
Gaijin64's advice was very good.
I'd also recommend reading the ladies website thouroughly (if she has one) and following any instructions on contacting her that she has.
You have a bit of a handicap not having references and being young. Don't add to this by not following her posted rules.
Also remember that even though we are escorts we are still people. So be polite, respectful and friendly and this will take you along way with most women. Money's not everything.
Have fun and be safe. But don't use this as a substitute for a real relationship.
Harlow Gold
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