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Re: With all due respect.....
Shade2002 2 Reviews 301 reads
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Yes, some of my OK's are from well known local Atlanta ladies, but none are recent and some 2, 3 and 4 years years old.  A few in that time who have also retired.

I generally choose not to post reviews unless after our session a provider mentions or asks, just my personal choice.   If that hurts me on the screening side of things so be it.   Not sure how much weight would get put into reviews given we are effectively compensated with free VIP member for writing them.   A person could conceivably fake a review once a month just to keep their VIP status active.

Appreciate your suggestion about using an agency.   I will point out that several ladies clearly state they do not accept references from agencies.  Also does not help with the goal I had for having things booked well in advance.

Electronic communication is a funny thing when it comes to 'tone'.   I don't feel I was complaining.   Certainly I am a bit frustrated/disappointed with the limited reward for trying to plan ahead and my personal experience trying to complete screening/get responses from *some* of Atlanta top providers.   Others have been fantastic.
 
Posted By: Bucky11
May I offer a few observations:  
   
 1) You may have 30+ ok's but are any of them local references? Many ATL ladies like to get references from ladies they know and\or have exchanged references with.  
   
 2) The fact that you have only 2 reviews may or may not play into the screening process.  
   
 3) Since you are here for 5 nights, why not see an agency lady the first night and review her?  
   
 4) The tone of your post is not helping your cause - nobody wants to hear you complain about the local ladies, who are among the best you will find anywhere.  
   
 Best of luck and I hope you enjoy your stay here.

obbyists in Atlanta I see you are still blessed with once of the best selections of providers in the US -  choices here make me love the occasions I get to visit Atlanta!   I'm at a point where I want to experience the best available providers in terms of looks and performance where ever I go (e.g. TER average over 9)- proverbial quality of experience over quantity.   Should be pretty easy make happen in Atlanta I told myself.

That said it seems it is still just as tough as anywhere else to book some of the top providers here.   Usually I travel on short notice making screening times and availability an issue -  I totally get that.   This time I've had a few weeks to try and get things planned in advance - and still I find myself a little bit stymied.   Making me start to hate Atlanta...

I send my polite emails/P411 requests to be pre-screened to about ten providers I am interested in meeting.    Have 5 nights to fill, figure 50/50 they would be available or our scheduled would align.   Half of these inquiries go unanswered.   Then half of those who initially respond took a few days to do so (no issue there).   And then a few days in between responses or nothing further (and I'm not being a time waster or asking anything inappropriate).   So after almost three weeks of time I have a three visits lined up.

For some providers who responded my 30+ P411 OKs over the past 6 years and two countries are not good enough (granted the most recent was last year and I can appreciate that being a concern) for some without also getting references from I providers who have provided me an OK.   Apparently providers I haven't seen since last year may not be too eager to respond to a request for a reference - or perhaps they got several requests from multiple providers in a short time frame and simply chose to ignore them.  I have no issue with any ladies choice of screening practice needed for them to be comfortable meeting someone new but I did not anticipate such a wide degree of diligence within the group of providers I inquired with.   For some, my P411 pre-screen request was enough while for others it is  possible I may never be in a situation where I can make the screening cut.

I guess it is entirely possible I could have turned into a abusive psychopath in the past year.    Hobbyists in this regard certainly have a distinct advantage in knowing what we can expect when meeting a provider for the first time.

It seems the upper echelon of providers (as portrayed in TER reviews) must have more than enough clients willing to pay as much as 400 USD/hour.   So much so that they can be very selective about which inquiries they respond to/follow through with and/or the level of rigor around their screening process.  Lots of well heeled gentlemen in Atlanta I suppose.   Also likely this is a part time thing for many of the providers and not their primary focus.

Enough venting - It is what it is.    Hopefully a couple more of the inquiries I made for next week will work out.

That said I have noticed as I have read through the ad boards that some ladies don't seem to turn up in searches (can they opt out?), or their averages are skewed by a couple poor reviews among many great ones.   Open to suggestions from people on providers I might have missed in my searches that would be among Atlanta's finest.   My general preference is Caucasian providers, under 130 lbs, under 5'6" with open menus who genuinely enjoy providing.  Obvious bonus points for prompt communication - even if the answer is sorry I'm not available or you don't make my screening cut

Leslie Awnwood, Maci Devalon, Taylor James? They fit the description. I've met them in person and all have beautiful faces as well. Not sure how tall VIP Veronica is but she fits the bill too.

I see you're also white listed by Sunny, why not try a couple of her ladies?

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Thank you for the suggestions Stina!

Sunny and I have been in touch already - something may work out there.

Posted By: StinaValentine
Leslie Awnwood, Maci Devalon, Taylor James? They fit the description. I've met them in person and all have beautiful faces as well. Not sure how tall VIP Veronica is but she fits the bill too.  
   
 I see you're also white listed by Sunny, why not try a couple of her ladies?

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Welcome back to the HOT place called Atlanta....and I do mean hot.  :)

xo

K

May I offer a few observations:

1) You may have 30+ ok's but are any of them local references? Many ATL ladies like to get references from ladies they know and\or have exchanged references with.

2) The fact that you have only 2 reviews may or may not play into the screening process.

3) Since you are here for 5 nights, why not see an agency lady the first night and review her?

4) The tone of your post is not helping your cause - nobody wants to hear you complain about the local ladies, who are among the best you will find anywhere.

Best of luck and I hope you enjoy your stay here.

He's good.  I know him.  He's REALLY good.   MMMMMMMMMM

 

K

Yes, some of my OK's are from well known local Atlanta ladies, but none are recent and some 2, 3 and 4 years years old.  A few in that time who have also retired.

I generally choose not to post reviews unless after our session a provider mentions or asks, just my personal choice.   If that hurts me on the screening side of things so be it.   Not sure how much weight would get put into reviews given we are effectively compensated with free VIP member for writing them.   A person could conceivably fake a review once a month just to keep their VIP status active.

Appreciate your suggestion about using an agency.   I will point out that several ladies clearly state they do not accept references from agencies.  Also does not help with the goal I had for having things booked well in advance.

Electronic communication is a funny thing when it comes to 'tone'.   I don't feel I was complaining.   Certainly I am a bit frustrated/disappointed with the limited reward for trying to plan ahead and my personal experience trying to complete screening/get responses from *some* of Atlanta top providers.   Others have been fantastic.
 

Posted By: Bucky11
May I offer a few observations:  
   
 1) You may have 30+ ok's but are any of them local references? Many ATL ladies like to get references from ladies they know and\or have exchanged references with.  
   
 2) The fact that you have only 2 reviews may or may not play into the screening process.  
   
 3) Since you are here for 5 nights, why not see an agency lady the first night and review her?  
   
 4) The tone of your post is not helping your cause - nobody wants to hear you complain about the local ladies, who are among the best you will find anywhere.  
   
 Best of luck and I hope you enjoy your stay here.

WinonaRider361 reads

I'm not sure why you feel Atlanta's providers should have lower screening standards than those of providers elsewhere, but perhaps you should direct this burgeoning feeling of "hate" for this city towards yourself for your flawed expectations.

Ouch.  Now you are simply just putting words in my mouth.  I said no such thing about screening standards.

Flawed expectations on my part?  Sure - think I covered that in my post.

Tough as anywhere else?   Maybe - honestly don't know don't get to plan ahead to often.   Seems likely.
 

Posted By: WinonaRider
I'm not sure why you feel Atlanta's providers should have lower screening standards than those of providers elsewhere, but perhaps you should direct this burgeoning feeling of "hate" for this city towards yourself for your flawed expectations.

WinonaRider304 reads

The "tough as anywhere else" was taken directly from your post.  

And, you said no such thing about screening standards? You made no griping about the "level of rigor around their screening process", the "wide degree of diligence", or those "providers who responded my 30+ P411 OKs over the past 6 years and two countries are not good enough (granted the most recent was last year and I can appreciate that being a concern) for some without also getting references from I providers who have provided me an OK"? Certainly sounded like you were griping about Atlanta providers' screening standards, but apparently I have that mistaken.

And you covered your flawed expectations in your post? Really? Because it kinda sounded like you were annoyed with the city and some of its providers. You didn't sound like a guy blaming himself.

You are correct, I did say that in my post - poorly worded on my part.

Yes I did say I was surprised how much the screening standards varied - never once suggested they be changed.  Was pretty clear about that.

I can tell your goal here is clearly not to be helpful in any way.

Thankfully, as always, several other Atlanta hobbyists and providers on this community board have been helpful in this thread or via PM.

WinonaRider273 reads

That I wouldn't be a fraction as defensive about the ladies here if I thought you were in for a bad time. There will be plenty of great ladies who want to see you.  

The agency route sounds like a good one. Once screened, you can see a variety with no more screening and they do well with accommodating short notice requests.  

Have a wonderful trip.

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