I am sorry for your unpleasant experience. While I am still new to this I would think that an individual would want to be in a condition to remeber the meeting with a beauty such as yourself. I know I would want to remember every detail. Of course I have learned long ago not to use logic to explain the actions of illogical people. Better luck with your future gents.
I met with a gent who had consumed half a bottle of alcohol between the time he checked into his hotel at 6:00 and 9:00 when we met. It was NOT a good experience. His reason, he was apprehensive and excited and needed to calm down!
Gents, they may call it "liquid courage," but from a provider's perspective.. its a nightmare. If you can't get through your first experience without first consuming half a bottle of alcohol, my recommendation.. stay home. You are not ready for hobbying.
I'm sure other providers will agree, a client who is drunk is a handful. They generally are impossible to satisfy as the alcohol either leaves them impotent or impossible to finish, and they also act out of character.. with unnecessary roughness. Its not fair to the provider and not fair to you either as what could have been a very fun and erotic experience turns into something else that is not fun.
I can understand a little apprehension and a little libation.. but... a little tipsy and rip roaring drunk are two different things.
So, as a reminder, if you feel the need to get drunk, perhaps you should rethink your decision to hobby as obviously you are not ready or there is an underlying problem.
Are these guys incapable of differentiating this from a first date with a civilian? We're under no pressure to impress anyone. Just show up sober and have fun. I guess I'll never understand this jitters mentality.
Hey, I get a little nervous too. Been around the block five times now but I'm nervous with strangers of all types not just in the business. That's no excuse to get rip-roaring drunk and act like a jerk though.
...I think that would help some with relaxing and gives time for both parties to feel comfortable together. Did wonders my first time...good issue to bring up Sinful1.
I am sorry for your unpleasant experience. While I am still new to this I would think that an individual would want to be in a condition to remeber the meeting with a beauty such as yourself. I know I would want to remember every detail. Of course I have learned long ago not to use logic to explain the actions of illogical people. Better luck with your future gents.
If you're a prick when you're drunk, you're still a prick when sober - you just hide it better.
If you are wanting GFE, which I am sure Sinthia provides, you have to treat her like a girlfriend, and act like a guy who could possibly have a girlfriend.
If you want PSE, alcohol seriously impacts performance!!! When is the last time you watched a video where the guy passes out during sex. A half-bottle of 80 proof makes this a real possibility.
Sorry you had to go through this my friend,
jazz32
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Sin, you are a classy lady who deserves much better. Be sure you "pass the word" about the guy. He doesn't deserve to be with a nice woman like yourself.
That means alot! I guess its partially my fault for trying to be nice and staying. I should have just left when I realized how drunk he was as nothing good comes out of an appointment with someone who is in a state of "alcohol induced psychosis." lol
There was actually no need for you to endure anything...why in God's name didn't you get the hell out the minute you realized he was 3 sheets to the wind? Surely you must have had an idea that he was going to be an a$$hole. And I'm sure there were many time during the session you could have packed it in and walked...why didn't you?
Good Lord lady, you are not paid enough to deal with crap like that. Hope you put his name on the "list" so others will not have to deal with this cretin....nerves or not, you were in a very bad situation that could have cost you your health and safety.