...LV phone book is full of agency ads and most smart hobbiests would not even think about going to them.
I called a company called 1st class to see what an escort does what you have to do etc. she said what do you look like i told her and she said ok call me back at 7pm we will have you come down with id and ss# and start you tonight theres a big game.I DONT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT IT! i really am hurting hard for cash but i have only had sex with one guy my huband im only 19 and scared she didnt have time to answer my "q" i know nothing about this business or what i have to do she said she was in a hurry to call her at 7 be ready to drive over and sign a contract she was in the yellow pages should i be scared? what do i expect? i dont have to stay the night,go to anyones house,ayones hotel room, kiss or anything physical????? do i? im suppose to be ready and call her in 2 and a half hours please let me know asap im scarred but will do it if its safe and good money. i asked her these two questions but she was in a hurry and said theres no sex involved and theres other people around at like bars and dances etc. and she said the money depends on how all the girls do on tips. does this sound to shady please respond asap!!!!-thanks
Take a step back today, do some more study, and don't start tonight. Give careful consideration to your situation.
Where and how does 1st class advertise? What type of client do they attract. What are their expectations of you?
The hobby exists based on the assumption of what consenting adults do behind closed doors is up to them. You must make sure you know what you are willing to consent to.
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You could get into a worse situation as far as finances, safety, and comfort if you rush into this. I personally love escorting as an independent, as I am in charge of who I see, how I advertise, what I will and will not do, and I keep my full donation. If you have some level of organizational and/or business skills you should consider this option. It's not hard to get started, but it is very important to be informed and do it right the first time. If you have more questions about independent escorting feel free to read up on the newbie board and the reviews are also a great source of info as to what is often offered/expected. You can also check my site at www.mareaofmadison.rare-courtesan.com and feel free to email me if you have questions.
By the way, some ladies provide only sensual massage (ie. massage and hand job and/or bj) or oral service only (ie. no full-service sex). Your comfort level is up to you, but as an independent provider you will feel more secure in the fact that you are presenting yourself accurately and performing only services you feel comfortable with. If the agency was willing to start you working on several hours notice, they clearly have little or no regard for your sense of comfort or safety, and/or for the quality and level of screening of the clients they attract.
Please be careful, stay safe, and do some more research before committing. I spent two months researching before "taking the plunge" and it's gone very smoothly, I believe, because of that.
XoXo
Marea
...LV phone book is full of agency ads and most smart hobbiests would not even think about going to them.
You sound very upset and desperate.
This is not the right frame of mind to be in when you want to get involved in this buisness.
Something awful will happen that is a lot worse than whatever your need for money is right now.
Just take some time and think about other options to get some money, there are other ways.
If and when you think being a sex worker is right for you, spend a lot of time studying up on the whole affair (The TER Instruction Manual above is as good a place to start as any.
Then, get involved slowly and carefully.
Everyone's anxious to know what you decided to do. How did it go? To be honest, an escort service doesn't explicitly sell sex, but 99% of clients will expect either sex, oral sex, or some sort of pseudo-sexual activity, such as fetishism, erotic massage, handjobs, etc. It's probably rare to find a client who just genuinely wants to talk and hang out...with his clothes on. In this regard, most services will probably try to lie to you to convince you that it is perfectly legit. BTW, I find that most girls who work for escort services do not kiss, but about half of all independents do. I hope you take everyone's advice and think, long and hard, before jumping into this. But if you do decide to become a professional escort immediately, just try to remember that you are in control at all times. Be confident, but friendly. Be cautious, but not paranoid. If any client starts talking explicitly about something illegal right off the bat, act like you don't understand what he's talking about, and tell him that you are going to leave -- he's probably a police officer, and he wants to get you on tape offering sex for money. The clients are paying for your time and companionship, but you just happen to want to have sex with them, as a consenting adult – get it? Good luck.
Great advice above. I'm going to be redundent and say one more time, DO NOT RUSH INTO THIS. The escort business can be very rewarding both financially and in meeting some great people. Good luck in your decision.
As a newbie hobbyist, I did some research for quite a while before I took the plunge. I agree with the others here that please take your time, do some research before you make a huge decision like this. You can never be too careful.
This might be too late for you yet you can do several things about this situation. First when applying somewhere you want to know about that company, you should do research, look at there website and try to find reviews on there ladies so you will get a better understanding what the job entails.
does anyone think this sounds a little fishy? She's 19, only had sex with on person - but somehow found the Newbie board on TER - I doubt it.