the *superstar* providers. the type that announce their "world tour" usually hard to get an appointment with them because their standards are higher( by that I mean screening etc.) rates may be higher too (BUT if they were so in demand wouldn't they be booking UTR?)
I don't think you have to worry about this type of lady seeing 5 or 8 clients in a day. it's more likely they take, for ex. a 2 hr morning/lunch and a 3-4 hr dinner date than many hourly appointments.On the other hand, I a) have no idea how many guys some of these ladies see during that one day anyway, and b) how many guys MOST ladies see during any one day.
I guess the quality of the session is the key factor above all, but the thought of being #5 in a group of 8, in a 12 hour day doesn't thrill me.
Question for the board: how do you hobbyists feel about a visting/highly rated lady who is here for one day only? I ask, only because I have this perception of an assembly line of guys in and out all day. Kind of a turnoff.
On the other hand, I a) have no idea how many guys some of these ladies see during that one day anyway, and b) how many guys MOST ladies see during any one day.
I guess the quality of the session is the key factor above all, but the thought of being #5 in a group of 8, in a 12 hour day doesn't thrill me.
First off, as long as her volume doesn't effect the quality of your session, then do your best not to think about it...because is doesn't matter! It really depends on the individual lady as to how many appointments she can handle per day - some can do 10 clients, and some can only do one.
There are also a number of other possibilities regarding her visit that you haven't considered. She may be in town primarily for other reasons (civvie job, visiting family/friends, tourism) and aims to make a little side cash or offset expenses by taking an appointment (or three). She may already have a long appointment arranged and again, decided to fill the dead time with an appointment. If she's a good business woman, then three hours of work would be enough to make it worthwhile.
When I travel to visit family, I can sometimes come up with a logical explanation to disappear for a few hours and see one client. I would say most ladies see less than three. one in the morning, one at around 3Pm and one before bed/after dinner.But here's the thing: hotel check in is at 3PM. So, one in the afternoon, one before bed. Sleep, then someone the next morning. Not a big deal. No one can see 8 people in the same day, unless it's some sort of massage & jerk off place. We are human, you know. There is a such thing as burnout. As long as you don't see someone who is dirt cheap on Backpage, you're pretty safe from a revolving door.
I'm not going to go into how it's none of your fucking business how many people she's seen that day as long as she doesn't taste like a jizz factory. Oh god, the visual that just popped into my head. Ugh.
NONE of my business? if that is a criteria I choose then I can. I don't need to pry, suggest or complain to you about it for it to be a concern???
But feel free to keep torturing yourself about it.
I cant stop thinking about it. It consumes my whole day.i dont know what to do.oh my im paralyzed!
....and i'll be visiting visiting barely 24hrs. I MIGHT advertise to see 1 more person but I might not and will just see the 1 friend i'm going up there for. This time it's a 4hr date starting early morning which I'll be checking in the evening of the day before so I have a good amount of time to see someone. There's never an assembly line. Even when touring seeing 3 people within 24hrs is a max for me and is actually pretty rare. Of course to make it worth my while to visit, remain fairly low-volume and at my best for each friend I have a higher preference for 90min+ dates with lots of space in-between them.
I appreciate the perspective many of you brought. Honestly, I had not thought of some of the particulars.
As a side note, I often see people complaining about this board turning into an ISO source. Maybe it's due to the level of discourse when one reads replies like:
"I'm not going to go into how it's none of your fucking business how many people she's seen that day"
The sentiment of that may well be right. But, if you want more and more people to tune out, that kind of response is a good way to go about it.
if told a provider "hey i'm gonna see 3 other ladies today. I can squeeze you in between 3pm and 4:30pm is that ok?" do you think she would be counting the days for my return?
I remember reading a post about a lady who thought it was gross that this monger had many , many reviews and she didnt want to see him because of it. that thinking might be shared by more than a few.
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I have a guy that pays very well, very well and sees me every time I go. Then I will see one or two more and I am out of the city by 5PM. I have done the same going to NYC for the day. When I have traveled to KY even and back airfare and hotel was always paid for and I still only saw a few a day. 2-3 we are talking NOT 5 or 6.
I travel because I like too and I have regulars. I don't travel because I need too. So I am good with a few appts and being able to put money away.
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On the other hand, I a) have no idea how many guys some of these ladies see during that one day anyway, and b) how many guys MOST ladies see during any one day.
I guess the quality of the session is the key factor above all, but the thought of being #5 in a group of 8, in a 12 hour day doesn't thrill me.
what does in one day matter when these girls see 100s per year? you should have been turned off long time ago...lol. it is a revolving door...and will always be a revolving door because of the total numbers per years.
...you are the customer, so you have the absolute right to your perception. What makes you or I interested enough to respond to a lady's ad is entirely personal - just like ladies can refuse to see a guy for whatever reason she wants.
Much of this hobby is based on illusion, so yeah, I happen to agree that when I see an ad for a gorgeous highly rated lady in which she is visiting 10 cities for 1 day each... it does create an "impression" of high volume that doesn't exactly beckon me either. There is no right or wrong - just like every other small insignificant detail we base hobbying decisions on
Well just figure what it costs for the room and the flight. If that isn't a LOT less than what you are paying, you aren't the only guy on her dance card, excepting the possibility that she is in town on other business, (which I expect is typical for some but not for others). The condition of the bathroom, the bed, and the wastebaskets might provide some clues as to how many have been there before you.
fucking towels! LOL
the *superstar* providers. the type that announce their "world tour" usually hard to get an appointment with them because their standards are higher( by that I mean screening etc.) rates may be higher too (BUT if they were so in demand wouldn't they be booking UTR?)
I don't think you have to worry about this type of lady seeing 5 or 8 clients in a day. it's more likely they take, for ex. a 2 hr morning/lunch and a 3-4 hr dinner date than many hourly appointments.
On the other hand, I a) have no idea how many guys some of these ladies see during that one day anyway, and b) how many guys MOST ladies see during any one day.
I guess the quality of the session is the key factor above all, but the thought of being #5 in a group of 8, in a 12 hour day doesn't thrill me.