I am a provider and I can only say that if you told me you were Mr. Mom I would refuse to see you. I can't help it but the fact that you would be using your wife's money from her job would make me dislike you before I even got the chance to meet you. I'm hoping that's not the case here and that you have some other source of income and not using the fruits of your wife's labor to buy you some pussy.
JMHO....
I understand that giving out a job phone number and employer information is part of a screening and verification process. But I am a Stay-at-Home Dad. How do I get verified by a provider if I am unemployed? btw- I am new to TER and I have not reached out to a provider yet. I am researching this site daily till I find the right provider for me. Any advice on how a provider will react to me since I cannot verify employment?
The basic advice is to explain this to the provider in a thoughtful and cogent letter and hope that your sincerity is felt on the other end and rewarded.
Some will, and some won't, but once you get a reference or two, your hand is stamped, so to speak.
Also, I would be remiss if I did not suggest that you take the time top click on the TER Instruction Manual above and spend some time reading up on all the ins and outs of the hobby world.
Welcome aboard!
I asked a similar question several weeks ago on this Forum and was told one way to get "verified" was to join one of the services, like Date Check or Room Service 2000. I joined the latter and it has worked!
I'm retired so I'm also 'unemployed' and this has never been an issue for me.
I am a provider and I can only say that if you told me you were Mr. Mom I would refuse to see you. I can't help it but the fact that you would be using your wife's money from her job would make me dislike you before I even got the chance to meet you. I'm hoping that's not the case here and that you have some other source of income and not using the fruits of your wife's labor to buy you some pussy.
JMHO....
Why is this guy even in the hobby?
I would never see a stay-at-home-dad, ever. You'd be turned down FLAT.
How can he see providers and take care of his kids?