Firstly you didn't say how long each date was for, 1 hour, 2 hours?
You also didn't mention if by agreeing on $1,200 for both sessions, if this was at a discounted rate to her normal rates? As you say she's new, it seems like each session was multiple hours unless her donation is $600 per hour? Lastly, 2 cab journey's would be $140 each visit, yes? So in total that would be $280, plus 45 minutes in travel each way, totalling 3 hours travel time in total, unless of course she was going to hang around from end of your first date until your next date at 12am? If indeed you did get a discounted rate and she would have had to make two cab journey's and if not she would have had to hang around from the end of your first date to 12am, then in all honesty i can see her point about the cab fare
So. For a week I've been back and forth with this provider. Scheduling difficulties. But was really impressed with our first meeting. We finally get on the same page. She informs me she didn't have a place. I said I will tip the cost of the place. Cause I dont mind helping the girls out. Plus I could pick a place more convenient for me. So I told her the name of the hotel and town. 10mins away from our first meeting.i later gave her the room #. We agreed to 2 sessions 6:30pm and 12am. We started planning this from 10am this morning. 5pm she needed the address to the place. Gave it. Then I'm informed. I should change my times as it was going to take her 45min to come from were she was. And $70 in cab both way and she was going to spend it. And I quote "Im not saying i cant come im just not going to pay a 70 dollar cab fair each way..that means id have to spend 140$ in just cab fair" Now I appreciate the the. But as a new hobbier it didn't set well with me. That I was looking. At 1200 plus room and at last min. The provider could provide away there? So am I wrong for cancelling it all together.
I'd like to think alot of this business is based on gut instinct when it boils down to it. If something just doesn't sit right or feel right (that goes for both men and women here), then you have to act on it for your own reasons. You did what you felt was the right thing to do for you. That's all you can do with what was presented. That's all any of us really can do here.
My only recommendation would be to try not to take the negativity of this to your next experience. Give it time, shake it off and move forward, don't digress (is that the right word? lol) and you'll have a great time the next time with someone new. No one is perfect here but professionalism should most certainly be expected, especially at that dollar amount IMO.
Good luck to you, stay safe and Happy Holidays 
xx kisses
Stevie
Thank you. I'm very new at this. No I'm done with it. As far as her. She was new too so I'm led to believe. IOM ?? I'm not familiar. The amount were for 2 sessions.
My only recommendation would be to try not to take the negativity of this to your next experience. Give it time, shake it off and move forward, don't digress (is that the right word? lol) and you'll have a great time the next time with someone new. No one is perfect here but professionalism should most certainly be expected, especially at that dollar amount IMO.
Good luck to you, stay safe and Happy Holidays
xx kisses
Stevie
You gave considerable information about where and when to meet. $1,200 plus room was agreed to, it seems like. I don't cotton to a change in the deal once it is struck. Transportation discussion should have occurred before the deal was struck.
A high end provider i was scheduled to see texted me about 10 hours prior that she had to change our appointment by 4 hours, sent me a shopping list, and texted 90 minutes after the new time she set that she needed another 15 minutes to get ready. I decided to head back home without remorse.
If she's smart, she'll realize she just threw away A LOT of money and will learn something from this.
Of course, she could go the other way, and she could just blame you and be bitter!
Either way, doesn't matter to you, as you get to move on to greener pastures
Apparently, this lady needs to learn a lot about both.
IMHO, according to your story, you did nothing wrong by cancelling.
Seems to me, again according to your story, that she is not a very intelligent business person and tries to "wing it" instead of planning things out....it's her loss.
Good news for you is that there are so many ladies here who would have no trouble with your request that you should not even think twice about what happened. Just move on to a lady who can and will appreciate your efforts....there are some truly amazing ladies here who are like that.
I would have posted the conversation thread but didn't want to out her. So you can see. Cause I didn't know if this sort of thing was commonplace.
This sort of behavior is NOT commonplace.
Her intention sounds like she was only going to squeeze your wallet dry. Like seriously? WTH would you pay $70 both ways for a cab when you can rent a car from Reagan for $35 or less for the day? Or use a car sharing service? How was 2 appointments in a day going to work anyway, just spend the day with her or do a multihour date that are usually discounted less. Does she want to be in business long? Doesn't sound like it.
Was it clear that she provided an incall or was she strictly outcall only? It can be an issue when you'd like a provider to cater her business to exactly what YOU want from her, and not what she has comfortably set up for herself. Draw the line at reasonable negotiation and get out of the "I like to help girls out frame of mind", it sounds weak and some ladies prey on weak or overly "nice" guys. Sucks but trusting skeezers hurts us decent providers that only want a fuck and a buck. Be careful!
Yeah she said she was new too. And I caught it. I cancelled it. The 2 appointments were because cause the hotel was walking distance from my job. So one appointments. Before work. And another for my break. I mean the room weren't too much. But a discount for double booking?? Hummm!!
Was it clear that she provided an incall or was she strictly outcall only? It can be an issue when you'd like a provider to cater her business to exactly what YOU want from her, and not what she has comfortably set up for herself. Draw the line at reasonable negotiation and get out of the "I like to help girls out frame of mind", it sounds weak and some ladies prey on weak or overly "nice" guys. Sucks but trusting skeezers hurts us decent providers that only want a fuck and a buck. Be careful!
It sucks when the one's who don't have their shit together are also the ones who totally do it for you in the sack. But ultimately, it's not worth the headache. If you start to get the run around...abort mission! The key is to not let your mind get locked in on any single person being a "must-see-at-any-cost." There will be someone else who will treat you proper.
I don't believe there is the slightest correlation between those who are sloppy and irresponsible but great in the sack. I believe just the opposite -- sloppy and unprofessional women will be lousy providers. A real turn on is someone who is a classy and savvy and a real animal in the sack.
Firstly you didn't say how long each date was for, 1 hour, 2 hours?
You also didn't mention if by agreeing on $1,200 for both sessions, if this was at a discounted rate to her normal rates? As you say she's new, it seems like each session was multiple hours unless her donation is $600 per hour?
Lastly, 2 cab journey's would be $140 each visit, yes? So in total that would be $280, plus 45 minutes in travel each way, totalling 3 hours travel time in total, unless of course she was going to hang around from end of your first date until your next date at 12am?
If indeed you did get a discounted rate and she would have had to make two cab journey's and if not she would have had to hang around from the end of your first date to 12am, then in all honesty i can see her point about the cab fare
The room was a gift. I mentioned i would tip the tmroom. She could do what she wanted with. Just have be there for my sessions. And I didn't know about discount. I just took what I paid last visit and double it.
i believe cab ride was $140.00
You also didn't mention if by agreeing on $1,200 for both sessions, if this was at a discounted rate to her normal rates? As you say she's new, it seems like each session was multiple hours unless her donation is $600 per hour?
Lastly, 2 cab journey's would be $140 each visit, yes? So in total that would be $280, plus 45 minutes in travel each way, totalling 3 hours travel time in total, unless of course she was going to hang around from end of your first date until your next date at 12am?
If indeed you did get a discounted rate and she would have had to make two cab journey's and if not she would have had to hang around from the end of your first date to 12am, then in all honesty i can see her point about the cab fare.
My gut feeling is that something doesn't quite add up with you. Sounds like you're trying to blacken the girl's name. Without knowing her side to the story i guess we only get to hear yours.
For a girl to turn down a donation of $1,200, even if it meant paying $140 in cab fare, i would say she wasn't that keen on seeing you again anyway.
Or it could be a complete misunderstanding in communication and she didn't realise at the time it would take her 45 minutes to get to you and then she would have to sit around in your hotel until the next session at 12am. Like you said, you only gave her the hotel address an hour and a half before your date at 6.30pm.
And although you replied to my other post, saying you paid for the hotel, which you have said numerous times in your other posts, you failed to mention how much the room was (inexpensive probably), you also didn't say how long each session was for?
Shit happens, personally i think it's a bit of both of the above.
it has to be easy. If it isn't or I have to go back and forth dealing with too many obstacles then, I'm out.
This doesn't sound easy.
No, you're not wrong for cancelling.