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Re: Re; What matters most on a lady's website
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Thank you handsome! My goal was to make the new pictures a more accurate depiction of me so I'm very glad to hear that!

What things do you gentlemen consider to be the most important? Photos, personal description, layout, optimized for mobile viewing, etc? Do any of these things typically have an effect on who you do or don't book with? If so, why?  
I recently found myself wondering these things when browsing through different sites.

The pics first get my attention but then I also read the website and reviews. Personality means a lot to me.

A combination is definitely what does it for me.  Having things well laid out and with no guessing of rates (definitely no contact me for details) is a major plus.  One thing that I absolutely hate is when you click on photos and it tries to get to buy a freaking membership to view almost any photo(s).  I really like when some ladies will have password protected area (free from lady) with some more revealing photos or videos. After a few emails back and forth having that password to see a full nude or two definitely helps as well.

Good luck Jesse.

These are all great things to know and ideas!  

Posted By: orallygifted72
A combination is definitely what does it for me.  Having things well laid out and with no guessing of rates (definitely no contact me for details) is a major plus.  One thing that I absolutely hate is when you click on photos and it tries to get to buy a freaking membership to view almost any photo(s).  I really like when some ladies will have password protected area (free from lady) with some more revealing photos or videos. After a few emails back and forth having that password to see a full nude or two definitely helps as well.  
   
 Good luck Jesse.

I would also add that if you are posting an ad on TER, please, please, please put a picture in the ad, especially if you are visiting another city where you are not well known.  At least put a link to your website as a bare minimum.  If I don't see a picture or a link to a website, the odds of me going further to book a session is very small.

This makes a lot of sense! I can't say that I'd feel differently if I were on the other side of an ad.

Not so much for me what I like. Variety is the spice.  But what will drive me away faster than anything is password protected photos only.  Don't mind a gallery or two, but not all.   bigdell

Photos are most important (shocker - lol).  Having lots of them showing different styles and aspect of your personality is important.  Be sultry and seductive in some and friendly (think girl next door) in others.  And by friendly - I mean smile.  If you show your face, please capture a pretty smile or two.  :-)  Please throw us feet lovers a bone and have a nice footsie pic in there somewhere.  Well, maybe that's just me.  Lol.  Too many shoe pics and not enough bare feet in general.

Think of your website as a virtual meet and greet for your prospective clients.  Tell us a little about your personality, the things you like, and if there are any things you especially like to see in a gent.  But please don't put a long list of do's and don'ts - that is a real turnoff.  You definitely don't want guys to come away from your website thinking "control freak" or "rules lawyer."  

I'd recommend also if you have a hectic schedule and you only entertain certain days and times to let that be known.  Some ladies do that on weekly ads, or p411, or through their website - but it is good information.  A few times I've been disappointed to find out that after going through the introductory phase of a relationship my hectic schedule is basically incompatible with a provider's.  It would've saved us both a lot of time if she had put on her site "I am only available on Mondays between 7:12 pm and 7:23 pm."  :-)

Remember that your site is your photo gallery combined with your elevator speech to potential clients.  Let us know why we should spend time with you.  I think for most guys the pics are 90% of it, but then close the deal with your own personal flair.  Are you a girl next door, kinkster, role play actress?  Maybe all of the above?  Let us know who you are and what you like.  And what kind of gent you might click with.

PS:  I checked out your website and I like it very much - especially the pictures.  :-)  I definitely think you are on the right track young lady.

I might also add that while a website is certainly an important aspect of marketing - I think that word of mouth/social networking is very important as well - for me, probably more important than the website or ads.  Anyone can do a good website... and in this business, trust is everything.

A website doesn't do diddly for trust.  If good people know you, I am much more likely to extend that trust.  

I have heard some good things about you - so, as E-realm sez.... you are on the right track

Thank you both for the very insightful, helpful, and positive feedback! These are all great things for us ladies to know!  

Posted By: mongo19621954
I might also add that while a website is certainly an important aspect of marketing - I think that word of mouth/social networking is very important as well - for me, probably more important than the website or ads.  Anyone can do a good website... and in this business, trust is everything.  
   
 A website doesn't do diddly for trust.  If good people know you, I am much more likely to extend that trust.  
   
 I have heard some good things about you - so, as E-realm sez.... you are on the right track.  
   
 

And don't listen to that cad Mongo.  I used exactly the right number of words to make my point.
Well, more or less...
If ten words is good then twenty words is twice as good, right?

Posted By: Jess_CountryGirl
Thank you both for the very insightful, helpful, and positive feedback! These are all great things for us ladies to know!

Hey - you flirt your way and I'll flirt mine.

Uh...  sorry...  Did I say "flirt?"  What I meant was "advise."

And my adviserly skills are worth every penny you pay for them too.

PS:  Good point on trust.  I would say that in the hobby (as in the real world) you are only as good as your reputation.  Which applies to providers and hobbyists alike.

Posted By: mongo19621954
I might also add that while a website is certainly an important aspect of marketing - I think that word of mouth/social networking is very important as well - for me, probably more important than the website or ads.  Anyone can do a good website... and in this business, trust is everything.  
   
 A website doesn't do diddly for trust.  If good people know you, I am much more likely to extend that trust.  
   
 I have heard some good things about you - so, as E-realm sez.... you are on the right track.  
   
 

Well put, E. The website is a powerful marketing tool as it's your online presence.  

I notice that Jess has been a bit active on the Boards as well, so that helps with getting her "persona" out into the 'verse. I for one certainly like ladies who will chirp in and give her 2 cents on a topic or have witty ads over on that board. Sure, you might look like a supermodel but if your board posts read like they could be written by a cardboard cut-out, I feel I might as well pay for the cut-out instead.  

Good thread, Jesse. and also a nice website. I can see how you might consider it a 'work in progress' and just want the finishing touches.

My 2 cent add-on is this:
Consider writing a Blog column for your site. Maybe even have a column of Penthouse Forum kinds of stories you may or have yet experienced -  but written by you, yourself. This goes along with your board posts.

Happy Tuesday,  
ga_kosh

Thank you so much for the advice and the compliments!  

Posted By: ga_kosh
Well put, E. The website is a powerful marketing tool as it's your online presence.  
   
 I notice that Jess has been a bit active on the Boards as well, so that helps with getting her "persona" out into the 'verse. I for one certainly like ladies who will chirp in and give her 2 cents on a topic or have witty ads over on that board. Sure, you might look like a supermodel but if your board posts read like they could be written by a cardboard cut-out, I feel I might as well pay for the cut-out instead.  
   
 Good thread, Jesse. and also a nice website. I can see how you might consider it a 'work in progress' and just want the finishing touches.  
   
 My 2 cent add-on is this:  
 Consider writing a Blog column for your site. Maybe even have a column of Penthouse Forum kinds of stories you may or have yet experienced -  but written by you, yourself. This goes along with your board posts.  
   
 Happy Tuesday,  
 ga_kosh

Yeah, I think you're hot as fuck babe! :)
Love,  
T

There you go making me blush again! The feeling is mutual gorgeous!

I agree with Blackjack's comments. I too get attracted by the pictures, but then look at reviews (sometimes with a big grain of salt) and posts by the provider.
I was glad to have met you at the last M&G where I commented on your old pictures. The new ones are MUCH better and, I think, reflect the young lady I enjoyed talking with.

Thank you handsome! My goal was to make the new pictures a more accurate depiction of me so I'm very glad to hear that!

I try to update my blog frequently, if not always regularly. Whenever I write a new post I put a link in my TER ad and on Twitter, I have gotten tons of positive feedback from clients about my blog, it's a great way for me to delve deeper into an aspect of myself/my work without overwhelming people with text on the must read areas of my site.

I also really adore Twitter, it's a great way to interact with potential clients and network with other providers. Twitter is also very conducive to showing off your personality in a natural, unforced way. You can link it up to all your ads and your site, and it's free!

This is also great advice! I keep thinking about adding a blog, but haven't done it yet. I just might have to get on that.

For me, the single most important feature is a batch of good, untouched color photos. I don't mind having professional ones on there as well, but I like to know what reality is. Ons local agency has some beautiful girls, but I've never used the service because there is so much blatant airbrushing.  

Also, if the girl chooses not to show her face, she must have at least one or two boob pics. For whatever reason, when a provider doesn't show them, I automatically assume they are droopy, deflated, or have misaligned nipples from a bad surgeon. I know I know, but that's just what I think. I've never visited a provider who concealed both face and chest.  

The best sites also include a solid menu.  

Posted By: Jess_CountryGirl
What things do you gentlemen consider to be the most important? Photos, personal description, layout, optimized for mobile viewing, etc? Do any of these things typically have an effect on who you do or don't book with? If so, why?  
 I recently found myself wondering these things when browsing through different sites.

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