Twice in a row now.
Arranged to meet with a provider a few weeks ago. She texted me the address and we agreed on a time around noon. I arrived and called to tell her I was there. No answer. Text. No response. After a half hour of trying I gave up and left. Texted her when I got home to ask what happened. Hours later she texted back and said she couldn't get her hotel room until 6:00. Why arrange for 6 hours before that and why not just tell me that once I'd arrived?
Arranged to meet another one earlier tonight. She also texted me the address and we agreed on a time. She asked me to let her know when I was 10 minutes away. I texted her just before leaving to let her know I'd be there in 10-15 minutes. I arrived and called her. She said she'd asked me to let her know when I was 10 minutes away and I told her I'd texted her 15 minutes earlier. She asked for 5 minutes to get ready. 5 minutes go by. 10. 20. 30. Again, no responses to follow up texts or calls.
FWIW, the first girl has a few reviews and they're all okay. Second girl has many reviews, again no problems reported.
Why?
-- Modified on 5/19/2016 9:09:26 PM
I'll bet the gents here will ask you to tell them who these ladies are. Keep everybody informed and spill the beans! I can't even venture to guess why someone would do that to someone.
Again, sorry this happened.
K
sorry this happened and sorry I can't tell you why. but I sure would like to know the two who did this so I can avoid them. very unprofessional and disrespectful of your time and effort to meet them.
One of my truly dumb moves. I knew an up coming Saturday was going to be dead until about 9pm and I hadn't seen a lady for a while. Well a lady I had seen before was advertising an incall starting at 1pm. Now this is about a 5 hour drive for me, but what the hell my time was worth nothing that day and gas prices were down. She advertised, I confirmed the day before, and she called me about 1 1/2 hours ahead of time. So I get to the hotel and am killing time in the restaurant and about 5 minutes before I was going to call her my phone rings. She couldn't get into her room early. Well I couldn't wait around so I basically said "Thanks a lot, never see you again". Out of the restaurant and through the lobby. Well she's sitting on a couch crying. All I did was give her a thumbs up (yes it was my thumb) and kept walking. As I hit the sidewalk she came out the door after me. She then said she still had to pay for her room because she had not canceled early enough, and asked if I would still pay her because she didn't have the money. One of the few times in my life I litterly was speechless. The dumb stuff us guys (at least me) do. bigdell
Complaining about guys who don't mention names is also easy. See - I just did it.
So what I would rather do is to compliment those who do man up and name names. You guys rock! If I ever see you in RL, drinks are on me....
As far as the OP is concerned - my guess - you'll never know why. Some folks are flakes, sometimes shit happens and sometimes people overschedule.... could be a million reasons- all of them good. Everybody has an excuse.
If it happened to me I don't think I would really care WHY because I don't think I would believe the WHY. Fortunately, it hasn't but I am not nearly as experienced as some guys
Unless you did something to creep the ladies out. If not, just keep it moving.
Arranged to meet with a provider a few weeks ago. She texted me the address and we agreed on a time around noon. I arrived and called to tell her I was there. No answer. Text. No response. After a half hour of trying I gave up and left. Texted her when I got home to ask what happened. Hours later she texted back and said she couldn't get her hotel room until 6:00. Why arrange for 6 hours before that and why not just tell me that once I'd arrived?
Arranged to meet another one earlier tonight. She also texted me the address and we agreed on a time. She asked me to let her know when I was 10 minutes away. I texted her just before leaving to let her know I'd be there in 10-15 minutes. I arrived and called her. She said she'd asked me to let her know when I was 10 minutes away and I told her I'd texted her 15 minutes earlier. She asked for 5 minutes to get ready. 5 minutes go by. 10. 20. 30. Again, no responses to follow up texts or calls.
FWIW, the first girl has a few reviews and they're all okay. Second girl has many reviews, again no problems reported.
Why?
-- Modified on 5/19/2016 9:09:26 PM
I'm doubting these are any of the lovely reviewed ladies that are on ter. And just because they have a few reviews doesn't mean much. There's tons of BP girls with a couple of reviews, but I'm wouldn't waste my time with them. And that's what you're getting. A waste of time.
It is one of the things I complain about also, not naming names. I'm sorry I didn't, but the lady was from Mn and is retired, so I omitted it. bigdell