i want to enjoy my first time with a provider. what do i look for to be safe and are there any providers that will see a newbie??
There are lots of ladies that will see a first timer just be prepared to provide the personal information that they require for screening. Stick with well reviewed TER gals and you will be fine.
Read the reviews and try to figure out a general idea of what kind of experience you are looking for. Things like body type, Ethnicity(if that is important to you), Fetishes etc. can all be learned from reading the reviews here. Don't put too much pressure on yourself as a first timer. Relax and enjoy the experience. With every new experience you will learn a few things about what to expect from the ladies and also what works best for you. It's great to come here for advice but there are some things that can only be learned from your own personal experiences. Good luck and have fun!
It's important to reach the right person and to write a sincere and respectful email to them explaning your situation.
I would opt for well reviewed more mature providers as they have the maturity to handle tender emotional situations better than younger less experienced gals.
Good luck.
Be sure to read the TER instruction manual above cover to cover first.
You'll be so glad you did.
I would have to agree with mrFisher.
I just had my first encounter last nite and even though I did do lots of research, I choose a provider that was not reviewed simply because she was close and avavilable last minute. That right there should have opened my eyes.
Anyway, the experience was lousy. Felt rushed tha whole time and did not enjoy the experience at all. But thats how you learn I guess. From now on I'm only going with mature and experienced reviewed providers.
Good Luck.
silntrunin
One thing I would add is a suggestion to go with a longer session, such as 2 hrs.
If you are like I was the first few times, you'll be nervous. Having a bit of time to sit and talk and slowly move into things is likely to result in a much more enjoyable and memorable experience.
Now that I think about it, it's good advice for any visit.