offer a 90 minute appointment and every lady offers 2 hours. Start out with a glass of wine (she will aprreciate your thoughtfulness) or a non-alcoholic drink if she prefers. Plenty of foreplay and you will be off to the races.
I have just seen my first and 2nd providers this month, thus I'm still a newbie. I've noticed that I have a hard time getting a sensation in the mddle of the act as if I'm working out.
Although I look forward to meeting my providers with great anticpation, I still seem to hard a difficult time being fully aroused. Is this normal for a newbie seeing his first few providers and will things get better with each additional provider I see.
If anyone can relay their initial experiences so I may gauge my own that would be great.
but instead of being unable to function, I functioned all too well by coming prematurely.
I had plenty of fun nevertheless.
Express your problem to the provider and I would suggest relaxing foreplay activities like massage to ease yourself into a feeling of not having to perform but instead, of being in a place of being able to receive pleasure; then go from there.
you're subconsciously harboring cultural mores of commitment/attachment etc and not embracing the animalistic/polygamist joys of simple catharsis through sexual gratification.
ALWAYS afford your provider EVERY respect due a woman(human being); but approach your session with profane desires that border on the dissolute.
Mr Fisher is right and I'm sure LG on the Erotic Highway would say the same thing. We all get jitters, I think it's part of the enjoyment.
Physically speaking in order to get maximum blood flow to your penis for full erection your muscles need to relax and allow blood to flow. Allow plenty of time for a drink some chat and lots of foreplay and the little soldier will respond accordingly
Thank you all for the advice. I guess I need to relax more and get into the foreplay more instead of getting right down to business. Perhaps bringing some wine to share with the provider is a good thing. I'll ask to bring wine and which type on my next trip.
This is what has worked well for me. Gives me time to get over my nervousness, gives the provider time to relax me and most importantly still leaves enough time to have some mutual fun, without feeling rushed.
offer a 90 minute appointment and every lady offers 2 hours. Start out with a glass of wine (she will aprreciate your thoughtfulness) or a non-alcoholic drink if she prefers. Plenty of foreplay and you will be off to the races.