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1st time...EVER!red_smile
kittyeater69 2985 reads
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I did my research and decided to contact a very well-reviewed Las Vegas lady for a rendezvous. (I am not mentioning her name here because I am not sure if it would be a calling for unwanted attention.)

The thing is: I am a virgin!

Of course I would want her to know that before I start my session, so that she knows to take the lead and be gentle, and make me feel comfortable.

I am wondering when I should let her know this? "I want to schedule an appointment with you, and this is the situation..."? When I schedule the appointment, so that she can put herself in the right frame of mind? Or surprise her at the beginning of the appointment.

P.S. - All this is assuming she will agree to see me, but if she does not, I guess someone else will :-)

I would appreciate expert comments. Thank you.



-- Modified on 8/9/2007 6:32:22 PM

There are a number of providers who have discussed how much they would enjoy being in this role, but I dare say there could be others who would feel leery about it.

Listen to the fishman. Several providers have posted up on this subject that they would consider it an honor to pop a cherry (and some wouldn't want to). Given that fact telling them as soon as possible will either cause them to not schedule you, or if you are lucky provide you a caring, thoughtful and instructional introduction into sex and more importantly taking care of a woman sexually.

Good Luck

-- Modified on 8/9/2007 1:47:09 PM

If it makes you more comfortable, I'll go with and get her ready for you.  Seriously, if you'd like to send me a PM, I'll see if I can help.  In general, most of the better reviewed ladies can guide you through most anything.

kittyeater691415 reads

WOW, that's very nice of you! I was actually looking at her tour dates - I'm not exactly in LV... although I won't rule out the possibility of a quick trip there :-D

-- Modified on 8/9/2007 2:37:29 PM

I didn't tell her until the beginning of our date, but when I did she seemed excited about it and told me it made it more fun for her. She definitely made sure I was comfortable, and while at the time it was an akward experience, looking back, I really appreciate the way she handled me and our date and wish I could go back to florida and see her again to thank her (with my experience!). Personally I say lose it to someone special, not in the hobby world. However, if you must go this way, definitely tell her early and be very selective as you only get one first time. Good luck!

you book the time.  This will give her a chance to plan some special things to make your first time special.

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