I no longer feel the need to see as many different providers as I can. I know what to expect, and we've become very comfortable with each other.
Part of the allure of this hobby for many of us is the variety. Both in terms of the ladies we spend time with and the type of things we do when we are with them.
What percentage of your time/money is spent with tried and true providers versus stepping out and trying something new. And why?
For me, budget has a lot to do with it. So does the mood I am in. If I am making decent bank, I will risk a little more on a provider based on reviews, and every now and then TOFTT.
But there are certain days when I am in a low risk and high reward mode, and then its back to the favorites who I know can deliver time and again.
Low-Risk, high reward favorites like Ginger Taylor, Terri of Atlanta and TerriLynn...and alas, a couple of wonderful ladies now retired.
But have some wild ones on my radar such as Zoey Zachary, Tori Valentine and a few others....
It's nice to have choices. What I need is the lottery to make it easier.
I no longer feel the need to see as many different providers as I can. I know what to expect, and we've become very comfortable with each other.
I've been seeing the same Lady for almost a year now. Very comfortable
I typically like to have an ATF that I can rely on and get ahold of easily. Additionally I sample the other offerings as well. Extra cash = extra playtime
I did give up on the old TOFTT idea and gotta watch out for uncle Le
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I have an ATF that I have seen about once a month for the last two years. I will occasionally see someone new when I have some extra cash.
This is one of the few threads that have stayed polite and positive.
I see my Lady at least twice a week. It feels like a relationship. We plan our calendars by the month (when practical). No more last minute calls. Sometimes I bring cash, sometimes I pay some bills (electric, insurance, rent) sometimes nothing. There are some ladies who offer monthly rates. We just evolved into our arrangement.
I know this type of arrangement isn't for everyone. I used to only see a provider twice before I moved on. I've been on this side for almost a year, and have no plans at this point to change anything.
Have a great week
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I've discovered my local ATF. She does things a gf would not do, we have fun and I feel satisfied. When I travel to a regular vacation spot I wish I had an ATF there. It's just so much relaxing and less stressful with an ATF.
What percentage of your time/money is spent with tried and true providers versus stepping out and trying something new. And why?
For me, budget has a lot to do with it. So does the mood I am in. If I am making decent bank, I will risk a little more on a provider based on reviews, and every now and then TOFTT.
But there are certain days when I am in a low risk and high reward mode, and then its back to the favorites who I know can deliver time and again.
Low-Risk, high reward favorites like Ginger Taylor, Terri of Atlanta and TerriLynn...and alas, a couple of wonderful ladies now retired.
But have some wild ones on my radar such as Zoey Zachary, Tori Valentine and a few others....
It's nice to have choices. What I need is the lottery to make it easier.