So, I linked up with a "local provider" to try to "network" and whatnot. Invited her to my incall room to hang out and talk shop.
She scared the shit out of me. I mean, I am a nice and really not mean person, but holy hell...I let her hang out for a while, hoping she wouldn't touch too much stuff. Then she got a call. I wanted to shut and lock the door. But that's mean. So I asked my Friend if he would nicely try to get her out of here...lol. She came back in and asked for a ride to her room and for some protection due to a jealous boyfriend that beat her and is waiting there to get his stuff out of her room.
OMG OMG OMG...so My Friend said we can take you home but we have an appt (she was trying to come back!) lol...
He drove her "safely" "home"...
so what do I do...because she's obviously bait and switch but If I "out" her I'm a bad team player right? She posts completely different pics on her ad like completely...
NO, She's not on here. She mostly utilizes BP.
SEcondly, WTF is with the email I got about this post:
to ScarletJewell
from REMOVED BC IM NICE
sent 9/30/2014 9:10:22 PM
subject OMG What do I do/Yes kinda newbie but also regional.
For me, both of you would be poison. If you can't straighten yourselves out, get some help You're both headed for deep trouble. I'm not a hostile commenter. Good luck!
Is there a lesson to be learned?
I don't know. I moved on to eating popcorn, drinking a cold adult beverage and watching a cool movie :P
Sorry, but what turnip truck did you fall off of???
I understand you are a newbie, but didn't you said you provided before??? Then you post on EVERY board and ask for help, and you have been given meaningful help, but do you listen? And your questions are like sky "high" like how to LE check, ummm, there is no such thing.
Babe, common sense is #1 in this game. I don't know shit either, but I would learn a lot by listening to what others tell me. This is a personal business so you are going to do what you personally feel is right anyhow; bottom line is I'm not hanging with no ho (I mean that in luv ya'll) unless I meet her first in public or screen her first as I would a client. Remember stranger danger! Can't offer you much help, in your situation, but ummm I would always look out for myself first. Sorry you got yourself into a pickle.
You don't need to come out with the cat-claws on. I don't play those games.
I didn't come on here asking for help...
I came here as like a WTF?!
So...yeah.
*waves bye*
LMAO!!! Ok I am never coming at you or any chick with any cat claws, I am a lover not a fighter. I'd much rather have you and any other provider in bed with me duking it out any day. HA! I'm hardly that bitch but if you think I am, well...
You didn't ask for help, but your "WTF" post ehhh, needs help. Sorry. I shoot straight and I don't sugar coat. I'm a tough lover but worth it. PM me if you'd like, but I can't offer any advice, I really don't know shit either, honestly, every day I learn something new myself.
I wish you and all the ladies much success
It's all good...lol
((hug))
Can you articulate what the issue is? Who are you talking about, and what do you need from us?
I've been absent from these boards for a long time and I come tonight and this batshit crazy thread is the first I read. But please, don't let me stop any of you, please proceed.
I missed you guys, thanks.
Thanks John, glad you can appreciate this. LOL
I don't NEED ANYTHING. I was saying "whoa look what happened to me" thought it was relevant and interesting.
Someone agrees...LOL
xo
SJ
Lose this chick like yesterday! I'm really hoping you didn't let her know where your static incall is. I'm really hoping it was at a "no-tel" and you can just change locations.
And be more careful in the future.
Steph
Meeting providers can be fun but also a little creepy. Like a previous poster said, do your homework. If not, you are setting yourself up for whatever comes your way. A lunch outing, starbucks, or a trip to the mall maybe, but straight to your incall? Never a good idea. I would think that is just common sense for staying safe in this business, but that's just me. I would be grateful nothing bad happened, move on and be smarter on my next attempt to "network.
You put that very nicely Allison 
Yes I will definiately be more careful!! Sweet baby jeebus! Not just of "what could have happened", but in many other ways. Thank you Allison xo
SJ
Posted By: tastyallison
Meeting providers can be fun but also a little creepy. Like a previous poster said, do your homework. If not, you are setting yourself up for whatever comes your way. A lunch outing, starbucks, or a trip to the mall maybe, but straight to your incall? Never a good idea. I would think that is just common sense for staying safe in this business, but that's just me. I would be grateful nothing bad happened, move on and be smarter on my next attempt to "network."
As I've learned first hand, you really need to screen anyone in the business that you meet, provider or hobbyist.
Good luck.
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