JUST HOW could that be done without violation our confidentiality? You would either have to tell her your real name or your handles at a review site. I would never give her either. I know she can and will get my name off her telephone caller ID, but it would be completely unacceptable for her to enter that in a review.
I think that the real bottom line is that they don't care much and are willing to take our money unless we are violent maniacs, stalkers, or something else illegal, in which case they already share phone numbers about guys like that with eachother.
why don't you have a separate mechanism for provider reviews of clients? some of us might get a kick out of seeing a provider's review of US, plust it might be helpful to other providers in deciding who to see.
JUST HOW could that be done without violation our confidentiality? You would either have to tell her your real name or your handles at a review site. I would never give her either. I know she can and will get my name off her telephone caller ID, but it would be completely unacceptable for her to enter that in a review.
I think that the real bottom line is that they don't care much and are willing to take our money unless we are violent maniacs, stalkers, or something else illegal, in which case they already share phone numbers about guys like that with eachother.
what would be wrong with telling them our handle on the review site here? I think it would be kewl to see a provider's review of us. If
you didn't want to do it, you wouldn't have to tell her. As for real names, no those shouldn't be listed here, any more than provider's real names are usually here (most providers use "work" names). I don't see what the problem is.
If members want to give out their handle so the providers can review them, OK, it might be fun, but what good would come from that? Do you think some providers might refuse to see certain guys based on that? Or maybe they would give some special preference based on good reviews? But then guys would be claiming that some handle was theirs when it wasn't, raising the confidentiality thing again.
THEY are providing a service that WE are paying for. It's extremely unusual for any business to rate its customers unless it's to blacklist them in some way. Remember the old adage, "the customer is always right".
If you just wanted to have providers write up funny stories about unnamed johns, THAT might be funny and give us all an opportunity to learn some things about our behavior. But if they took shots at specific users here, I think it would generate too many bad feelings and a lot of shouting matches. Hell, I already see this stuff going in message boards without customer reviews!
I agree maybe! Isnt it roomservice and ASPD where you can check clients out by their handles? No, real names should never be posted. But take this for instance i have 2 reviews from guys that i have never even seen before, thats not very fair to me and i feel that i should be able to stick up for myself and be able to post a response about them. But who knows everyones got there reasons for why it may and may not work. I think it would be a good idea. That was a guy could say okay i have a handle on TER and you can check me out, i have reviews from providers that i have seen..ya know that would be nice! Just an idea..
Posting a "review" on an appointment may be one thing, posting about the client is something else. The defending ourselves is totally different. As with any type of forum such as this you could end up with he said she said. I can only speak for my self Khulus, but I do care and I'm not willing to just take your money for more reasons than you listed. I have turned down appointments because we just didn't click. There was a time I was grateful I got away with my life. Now if any kind of client review were up wouldn't that be one that should be posted, "Girls beware of ............" ?
The queston posed was: why don't we review the clients? The answer is very simple. The customer is always right. Does your car salesman or your pedicurist rate your performance as a customer? Of course not. These gentlemen work very hard for thier money and we get it tax free. Of course there are exceptions to the rules. If a man seems unclean,unhealthy,dangerous, creepy,or simply is not a gentleman, we should absolutly alert one another as providers.However, we should do it privately. ie: A provider posted an ad asking other providers to email her for info on a certain guy.No doubt, she verified the provider status before she disclosed the info. Remember , we hold more power that the men. Let them talk ....we will whisper. In that , lies the true power of the Goddess.
First My clients rely on my keeping their information confidential I feel this extends into our sessions together.
That being said, we ladies are running a business and to review clients in an honest manner in a forum where the clients (past present and or future) can access and see what we have to say could hurt us in a business sense if the client feels insulted or fears that he is being held up to a certain standard.
On the other hand if there were a data base that could be searched that will sepperate out good clients and bad clients and only be accessable to providers that would help for us to stay safe.
In the event of good clients just the very basic information being provided along with reviewer's handle and contact information could help these guys with their references especialy in cases where a lady is not always easy to contact.
Frankly in my oppinion "bad" clients ie those whom are with LE, violent, attempt to force un protected full service, etc should be listed in a sepperate data base there again only accessable by ladies (vip or not but verified as a legitimate provider) in such cases real names contact info etc and some sort of physical description along with an area to notate le etc (it would be great if searchable under such designations too) but the likelyhood of such is not high at this time.